virgin-burner 1 #1 December 1, 2015 i may bring her to the vet today and get over and done with it. it breaks my heart. what a shit time that is.“Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #2 December 1, 2015 Hang in there.... Losing our fur friends is always a sad time in our lives... I just went thru it again this year. My 17 year old kitty who died a couple weeks ago... She like all my other pets who have passed..... is under a new blueberry bush Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oldwomanc6 52 #3 December 1, 2015 I feel for you. Sometimes you just have to do the hard, but right thing.lisa WSCR 594 FB 1023 CBDB 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 140 #4 December 1, 2015 On pense fort à vous. Gros bisou de Usoun Valais Love scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airdvr 210 #5 December 1, 2015 So sad. But remember our pet's rely on us to know when they are in too much pain to go on. You've given your animal a wonderful life.Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #6 December 1, 2015 T-43mins. and i just had a valium.“Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phillbo 11 #7 December 1, 2015 Sorry for your loss. It's a hard decision to make but the right choice. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wmw999 2,439 #8 December 1, 2015 I'm sorry you have to go through this. It sounds like it's time for her to go through this, and I know she'll be comforted and calm with you there. She'll be in her sleep, surrounded by family. Wendy P.There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Opendore 0 #9 December 2, 2015 Much love VB. Take Care I don't have a license for this. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #10 December 2, 2015 Sorry for your loss - my thoughts are with you"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
promise5 17 #11 December 3, 2015 Still miss my Roxy. HUGS!!!!No matter how slowly you say oranges it never sounds like gullible. Believe me I tried. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #12 December 3, 2015 we were accompagnied by my mom, when as soon as the vet started injecting the stuff.. doggie was gone. it was really quick. brought her to the crematory yesterday, will pick up her ashes tomorrow. “Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TriGirl 318 #13 December 3, 2015 Hugs. See the upside, and always wear your parachute! -- Christopher Titus Shut Up & Jump! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wolfriverjoe 1,523 #14 December 4, 2015 My heart goes out to you. It's one ofTHE hardest decision to make as a pet caretaker. But it's also the most important. It comes with the territory however. I don't understand why, but the 2 animals we are closest to (cats & dogs) both only live about 1/7 of our lifetimes. Sometimes they go naturally, but often we need to make the decision that "it's time." Good on you for taking someone along. The first trip without them is the hardest."There are NO situations which do not call for a French Maid outfit." Lucky McSwervy "~ya don't GET old by being weak & stupid!" - Airtwardo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #15 December 4, 2015 ashes are home, on the shelf with candles, her necklace, the leash, her tennisballs and her squeaky thing. and the urn. i think that's kind of weird, but she's home and close to me, so, go fuck yourself whoever thinks i'm a weirdo. just wait until i start to take hits on the stuff!“Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpsalot-2 3 #16 December 4, 2015 Ash DiveLife is short ... jump often. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #17 December 5, 2015 yea, was thinking about that. maybe when the temps are better! :)“Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kh286 0 #18 December 5, 2015 sorry for your loss :( gruess kusi (no more FB?) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wolfriverjoe 1,523 #19 December 6, 2015 virgin-burnerashes are home, on the shelf with candles, her necklace, the leash, her tennisballs and her squeaky thing. and the urn. I think that's kind of weird, but she's home and close to me, so, go fuck yourself whoever thinks i'm a weirdo. just wait until I start to take hits on the stuff! We each grieve in our own way. Nothing weird about it. I still have Skyler's collar (harness actually) and favorite toy (stuffed squeaky cow). I don't plan on getting rid of them. Lots of cultures buried their important people with a lot of belongings. Supposedly to "accompany them to the afterlife", but those people had to know that the stuff stayed right there."There are NO situations which do not call for a French Maid outfit." Lucky McSwervy "~ya don't GET old by being weak & stupid!" - Airtwardo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #20 December 6, 2015 My wife still has the ashes of her 19 year old cat "Patch" up on the bookshelf. She grew up with him, and he came to live with us during our first year of marriage before we had to put him down. I figure if my wife dies (she wants cremation as well), we'll just throw the cat in with her. "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dzdiva 7 #21 December 6, 2015 Hugs to you sweetie.Nothing weird about keeping her things. We all do what we have to do. You did the right thing for her and she knows how much you love her. "It's not just a daydream if you choose to make it your life..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #22 December 6, 2015 virgin-burner ashes are home, on the shelf with candles, her necklace, the leash, her tennisballs and her squeaky thing. and the urn. i think that's kind of weird, but she's home and close to me, so, go fuck yourself whoever thinks i'm a weirdo. just wait until i start to take hits on the stuff! Who is anyone to judge? Whatever works, buddy... These things are hard. More hugs going out to you. Hope the silence in the house is not too deafening... "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #23 December 6, 2015 kh286sorry for your loss :( gruess kusi (no more FB?) hö, kusi! fb wott en uswiis vo mer, sölled mer a de fuddibäggli schmöcke, sie glaubed mer wohl ned dass ech "CrazySwiss" heisse. jäno. mache glaubs en neue account.“Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #24 December 6, 2015 wolfriverjoe ***ashes are home, on the shelf with candles, her necklace, the leash, her tennisballs and her squeaky thing. and the urn. I think that's kind of weird, but she's home and close to me, so, go fuck yourself whoever thinks i'm a weirdo. just wait until I start to take hits on the stuff! We each grieve in our own way. Nothing weird about it. I still have Skyler's collar (harness actually) and favorite toy (stuffed squeaky cow). I don't plan on getting rid of them. Lots of cultures buried their important people with a lot of belongings. Supposedly to "accompany them to the afterlife", but those people had to know that the stuff stayed right there. yea. i miss her lots. “Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #25 December 6, 2015 BillyVance My wife still has the ashes of her 19 year old cat "Patch" up on the bookshelf. She grew up with him, and he came to live with us during our first year of marriage before we had to put him down. I figure if my wife dies (she wants cremation as well), we'll just throw the cat in with her. put the wife in with the cat. you have that urn already! “Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
