Nataly 38 #1 September 8, 2015 I "liked" a guy's profile on a dating site and almost immediately I got a message from him saying "What a lovely surprise! Shall we meet up for a coffee?" So I agreed to meet at lunch the following day (today). After a grand total of about 3 seconds, he looked at me and said "OK, I'm going to leave because this is *not* going to work." So he just got up and left! (By the way, the pictures on my profile show *exactly* what I really look like. No fluff, no photoshop, no makeup - nothing that could be misleading in any way shape or form. I even included some rather UN-flattering pics for good measure - because hey, some days I look like that!!!) So yep - if you are a guy and you think we women never get rejected, think again!!"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BartsDaddy 7 #2 September 8, 2015 You had to open your mouth and talk. Handguns are only used to fight your way to a good rifle Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
peek 21 #3 September 8, 2015 Do you have a skydiving tattoo somewhere obvious? You know how some whuffo dudes are threatened by that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #4 September 8, 2015 peek Do you have a skydiving tattoo somewhere obvious? You know how some whuffo dudes are threatened by that. Nope - nothing weird or freaky that is obvious "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BigMikeH77 0 #5 September 8, 2015 It's quite obviously his internalised issues and has very little, if anything, to do with you. If someone bails without even enjoying some coffee and conversation, there are deeper problems in play. Everyone I've ever met on Match and OKCupid have the same problems, and I've created this wonderful little graphic to summarise my feelings about online dating. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #6 September 8, 2015 Is that Rick in the white shirt and chain around his neck? "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BigMikeH77 0 #7 September 8, 2015 That guy... hahaha. I have NO idea who he is but there's a ton of dirty laundry in the background of that shot. I swear I've dated everyone on Match. I even played by all their rules and went to get my free 6 months, they refused. I broke up with Match right there on the phone. Even gave them the "This isn't working out" talk. They responded by deleting my profile, which I thought was kind of funny. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RiggerLee 61 #8 September 8, 2015 I see two obvious possibilities. The first is that it was some kind of mind game trick. If you had chased after him or contacted him it would mean that you had a week personality and he could control you. The second very real possibility is that their was some thing that he really did find objectionable. A deal killer. Example, he saw that you were a smoker. I use that as an example because I'm allergic to it. I would have pulled the cutaway handle right there. If that's the case, then at least he was straight up and honest about it from the beginning. Or maybe he spotted that you were a skydiver. Were you wearing a closing pin necklace? May be he's been burned dating a jumper before and made you. If you want to avoid things like this in the future you might want to put a disclaimer in your ad, full disclosure. Just to save time and disappointment. LeeLee lee@velocitysportswear.com www.velocitysportswear.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #9 September 8, 2015 Uh, oh!You told him about the cats, didn't you? "There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
riggerrob 643 #10 September 8, 2015 BillyVance Is that Rick in the white shirt and chain around his neck? .................................................... Hey! I used to work with Mr. Thinks too highly of himself. He hit on every female student that came through the DZ. At last count, he was working on wife number 5! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
riggerrob 643 #11 September 8, 2015 Reminds me of a woman I meet on Plenty of Fish. As we sipped our first coffees, she asked about past relationships. As soon as the words "I left her .." passed my lips, her shoulder muscles cramped and the date was effectively over. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #12 September 8, 2015 I did not have time to utter any words!!! And besides, attached is one of the pictures from my profile... So like I said, the pictures on there are really really the real me!!! For better or for worse!!!!"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #13 September 8, 2015 You posted that??? And you posted it again here???"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #14 September 8, 2015 Ok, attached are all the pics uploaded on my profile, plus my current avatar on here (dz.com only let me attach 5/6 of the photos - because of size??) So like I said, meeting me in peeson should not have been a shock... (I was looking pretty nice today!) EDIT - I just changed my avatar... The cat on my knees whilst I poop is not on my online dating profile... But maybe it should be?!!"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rick 67 #15 September 8, 2015 BillyVance Is that Rick in the white shirt and chain around his neck? shit he could be my long lost brother You can't be drunk all day if you don't start early! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #16 September 8, 2015 I'm putting $5 that Ryoder is joining adopteunmec.com as we speak... Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #17 September 8, 2015 Remster I'm putting $5 that Ryoder is joining adopteunmec.com as we speak... Yeah, but only so he can meet up with me an crush my little ego all over again! EDIT - attached the 6th picture on my profile (since I just changes my dizzy avatar)."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #18 September 8, 2015 Sounds like you dodged a bullet."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #19 September 8, 2015 NWFlyer Sounds like you dodged a bullet. My thoughts exactly "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
that_guy 0 #20 September 8, 2015 The toilet paper in the nose shot is easily my favorite.... The cat perched on the shoulder really drives home the awesomeness. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #21 September 8, 2015 that_guy The toilet paper in the nose shot is easily my favorite.... The cat perched on the shoulder really drives home the awesomeness. It's meant to deterr the people who want a barbie-like girl. Which I am not "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malta_Dog 0 #22 September 8, 2015 To make your list of hobbies complete, you should add a pic of yourself karaokeing All your dropzone are belong to us!!!!111! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #23 September 8, 2015 Malta_Dog To make your list of hobbies complete, you should add a pic of yourself karaokeing I did have this one but it got removed because there were other people in the picture."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BartsDaddy 7 #24 September 8, 2015 He did you a favor. I haven't had the pleasure of meeting you, but from your posts and pics you deserve a better person then one that would ever do that to someone. Maners alone he should have at least sat and enjoyed your company over coffee, and then excused himself from anymore meetings. And if you want to see how a lady should be treated come to Elsinore. I will take you out and Not bale on you. LOL. Handguns are only used to fight your way to a good rifle Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
promise5 17 #25 September 9, 2015 Nataly, I was asked to grab lunch from a guy. No problem I needed to eat and he was nice looking. He was a Sheldon from Big Bang Theory!!!! Like holy crap Sheldon!! Into Dragons and role playing online and he was a college professor !!!! I sat their politely for 45 minutes then made my pager go off. Being a medic /FF has its advantages. lolNo matter how slowly you say oranges it never sounds like gullible. Believe me I tried. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
