davjohns 1 #1 October 3, 2012 So, I signed the divorce papers this morning in front of a notary public and put them in the mail to the ex. So, what does it say about our modern world that changing my status on facebook was more difficult? I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oldwomanc6 60 #2 October 3, 2012 I'm so very sorry to hear this. Not everyone is cut out to be a military spouse. I hope your heart can start to heal now. lisa WSCR 594 FB 1023 CBDB 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missbrz 0 #3 October 3, 2012 I don't know about the social commentary thing, but... how you doin'? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davjohns 1 #4 October 3, 2012 That made me smile. Thanks! I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 851 #5 October 3, 2012 Best of luck bro! In my case, life became AMAZING after that cut-away! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #6 October 3, 2012 I’m very sorry to hear about it. I hope that things will get better.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #7 October 3, 2012 Quote In my case, life became AMAZING after that cut-away! I'm sorry I didn't see Normiss's post untill after I sent in mine. But well I have to agree. In a very strange way...it does. I know it sounds odd especially from me..but it does.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airdvr 210 #8 October 3, 2012 Tough but you'll get past it. Any kids?Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpwally 0 #9 October 3, 2012 Yeah sure,,,cuz you got the SkyMama !! smile, be nice, enjoy life FB # - 1083 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Heatmiser 0 #10 October 3, 2012 Quote So, I signed the divorce papers this morning in front of a notary public and put them in the mail to the ex. So, what does it say about our modern world that changing my status on facebook was more difficult? I feel ya, dude. Got a date with a judge to finalize in the morning. End of an era...What you say is reflective of your knowledge...HOW ya say it is reflective of your experience. Airtwardo Someone's going to be spanked! Hopefully, it will be me. Skymama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #11 October 3, 2012 Oh wow, so sorry to hear this Dave She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #12 October 4, 2012 Damn... Sorry to hear that. Thought she was a keeper. I was engaged 18 years ago to some other girl, and when I got a job that required moving to another city, she didn't want to live in that city. So I went.... without her. Thankfully, that was before tying the knot. "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TriGirl 333 #13 October 4, 2012 Damn, that was fast! We've talked about this before, but I'll say it again: sorry you're having to deal with this. (see "Hump Day" thread for other appropriate response -- Jo beat me to it in this one!) See the upside, and always wear your parachute! -- Christopher Titus Shut Up & Jump! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coreece 190 #14 October 4, 2012 It seems this anxiety and pain has been going on awhile for you...so to be honest, I don't know whether to offer my condolences or congratulations. I guess only time will tell. I don't think you have any young children so that should make things much easier. My son's mother and I have been back 'n forth and on and off each other in a love-hate roller coaster ride from hell for 14 years and I don't know if it'll ever end... I think we've pretty much emotionally mind-fucked each other beyond the point of no return. I guess my point is to just be happy it's over and don't drag it out in your mind...how you do that, I don't know...but as I said, I would expect it to be much easier if young children aren't involved.Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davjohns 1 #15 October 4, 2012 Actually, I'm doing quite well. It was just a little rough messing with Facebook. That's where you report all the good stuff and post pictures of happy times, right? My only regret is any negative effect it has on her 4 year old boy. He's a sweetie. Mine are grown and will probably be glad to hear about the divorce. Tri: I did check the hump day video. I have never wanted to hump a rig before, but that was proof that most things can be an aphrodisiac if properly done.I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coreece 190 #16 October 8, 2012 QuoteActually, I'm doing quite well. I'm happy to hear that... I still have about 4-5 years left in this experiment to figure out a particular type of woman...I'm getting close: In This Moment - Blood: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ZF5m-vmDzM I hate you for the sacrifices you made for me. I hate you for every time you ever bled for me. I hate you for the way you smile when you look at me. I hate you for never taking control of me. I hate you for always saving me from myself. I hate you for always choosing me and not someone else. I hate you for always pulling me back from the edge. I hate you for every good word you ever said... Blood, blood, blood, pour mud through my veins. Shut your dirty, dirty mouth. I'm not that easy. Blood, blood, blood, pour mud through my veins. I'm a dirty, dirty girl. I want it filty. I love you for everything you ever took from me. I love the way you dominate when you violate me. I love you for every time you gave up on me. I love you for the way you look when you lie to me. I love you for never believing in what I say. I love you for never once giving me my way. I love you for never delivering me from pain. I love you for always driving me insane... Blood, blood, blood, pour mud through my veins. Shut your dirty, dirty mouth. I'm not that easy. Blood, blood, blood, pour mud through my veins. I'm a dirty, dirty girl. I want it filty.Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #17 October 8, 2012 Hey man! Just read the post and not sure what to say. I just seperated with my wife on the 15th of Sept. and as of now I, going back and forth between missing her and hating her guts.....just the feeling on my side are really confused. Maybe we can talk some day and both work thru this. Well, thae best of luck to yaBry -------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blueblur 0 #18 October 8, 2012 For me, closure was the best thing I could have gotten. Mine, came pre-divorce signing, but hopefully this finality will help. If it's on FB, it must be true!In every man's life he will be allotted one good woman and one good dog. That's all you get, so appreciate them while the time you have with them lasts. - RiggerLee Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davjohns 1 #19 October 8, 2012 LOL! So true. Sorry to hear about it, Bry. I'm just moving on. I'm in Europe, surrounded by beautiful scenery and women. I'm in great shape, make good money, etc. I'm going to enjoy my life. If someone wants to tag along, fine. If not, that's fine too.I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rehmwa 2 #20 October 8, 2012 Congrats. It takes a lot of guts to make any kind of final decision about one's life. I'm sure you did all you could up to this point. So congrats on being able to move on. ... Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #21 October 12, 2012 My wife is grinning ear to ear. She said "Davjohns is single!" Stay away from my wife, asshole! My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DFWAJG 4 #22 October 12, 2012 That's right. Dave's hot! I thought I like blue eyed, skydiving lawyer Army officers. Turns out I just lust for Dave.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kenthediver 0 #23 October 12, 2012 Hey DJ, Where in Europe are you? The skydiving community is world wide - plenty of "not yet met" friends to have a beer with you! As for divorce, been there - lots of folks will tell you that it does get better. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bealio 0 #24 October 12, 2012 She's gonna get half of your things. Are you going to give her the reserve or the main? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davjohns 1 #25 October 12, 2012 LOL! Thanks, Jerry and DM. I'm in Belgium. All the 'stuff' was sent here before she decided she wasn't coming and well before she decided she wanted out. So, she's going out on her own with an inflatable mattress, clothes and a car. I couldn't have done much better on that front. I'm doing fine. I have trips to Paris, London, Amsterdam and Brugge lined up before the end of the year. I was in Luxembourg last weekend. I'm going to enjoy my life no matter what. Thanks again for the support, everyone! DavidI know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
