TriGirl 333 #26 January 13, 2012 I'm with "Left Out" (OWC6) -- if you do it right, your spouse IS your best friend. See the upside, and always wear your parachute! -- Christopher Titus Shut Up & Jump! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rehmwa 2 #27 January 13, 2012 QuoteQuoteyou really shouldn't have a "Both" option in a hypothetical about "most upset with". That just lets people cop out on the answer I disagree. I would be upset with both. And I think upset is putting it mildly. the question was "more" - suck it up and decide the only way to get both is, as noted upthread, where the best friend = spouse. But if you are mad at your spouse for masturbating, then you really need to watch more movies. And, this response is sure to just be someone sucking up to their spouse in the hopes for better meals and presents...... ... Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 140 #28 January 13, 2012 where is the "I'd join in with my friend's wife and a handful of Go-Pro's" option ?scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #29 January 13, 2012 Spouse, this is one thing I will never forgive. Friend would be on the outs as well. There is no turning back from cheating for me. I have never and will never do it to anyone and I would expect the same from a spouse. Trust is a big thing, once ruined it is hard to bring back with something this big. She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #30 January 13, 2012 Quote where is the "I'd join in with my friend's wife and a handful of Go-Pro's" option ? Ahhh, the Continental solution. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aarco 0 #31 January 13, 2012 some people - in some sexual constents with relation give each other a lot of space once unity and new unity are formed after marriege - but it must be build off of pleasure, love, trust - and communication- directed towards health and healing - designed to build each other - not the other - A stronge couple can lean on others and sex does help if built for each other and if the friend ship is stronge Having something never beats doing (>|<) Iam building things - Iam working on my mind- I am going to change this world - its what I came here 4- - - Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
weaverd 0 #32 January 15, 2012 Quote Spouse, this is one thing I will never forgive. Friend would be on the outs as well. There is no turning back from cheating for me. I have never and will never do it to anyone and I would expect the same from a spouse. Trust is a big thing, once ruined it is hard to bring back with something this big. A-fucking-men, I wish there were more women like you out there! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #33 January 15, 2012 I'd be more upset with my s/o, but almost equally pissed at the friend. Either way, both relationships would be over. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
