npgraphicdesign 3 #1 December 15, 2011 If a guy likes a girl or vice versa, why not just say "I like you?" That's simple enough. And if the other person likes them back, they can say "I like you too." Or if they don't like them, they can say "I don't like you." (and if that hurts your feelings, too bad, the truth hurts! ) If they like each other, one can ask the other out on a date. A simple "yes" or "no" will do. No need to go into explanations why or why not, just 'yes'...or 'no.' If it's a 'no' accept it and move along! Easy enough right? If they really like each other A LOT, then say "i want to just date you and noone else. What do you think?" And then other person can say "yes" or "no, and i am not ready to be in a committed relationship." Easy as that...and once again, no need for lengthy drawn-out and full of bullshit explanations. Is that really too much to ask? Simple is good and it doesn't take much effort. And most importantly it eliminates DRAMA, which I know all of us love so much. So whaddaaya say? Can't we all just get a long in a nice, simple & respectable manner? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missbrz 0 #2 December 15, 2011 no. actually I wish it could be like that. but it'll never happen. sorry doll. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CMortimer 0 #3 December 15, 2011 its not the 3rd grade anymore.... if you want that move to Thailandget that monkey off your back, live free, If you got a cup put it in the AIR, if you got a blunt you better puff it and SHARE.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chemfx 0 #4 December 15, 2011 I think u need to ask shah269! jejej Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #5 December 15, 2011 Quote I think u need to ask shah269! jejej Zing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jonstark 8 #6 December 15, 2011 How did that breakup go? jon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #7 December 15, 2011 Where the F, is the fun in THAT? (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
masterrig 1 #8 December 15, 2011 Quote Where the F, is the fun in THAT? Life is a big game... ya' gotta be a playah! Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
format 1 #9 December 15, 2011 Listen here... and take some notes. If you are over 15.. 20 of age - in order to survive this funny life form you're in, you will witness personality splits. Older you are - more you'll meet. Some of those like something at some times, some don't. The opposite pole has similar dilemmas! You better know when to pull out your PC. Not too high!What goes around, comes later. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
amstalder 0 #10 December 15, 2011 That's how it worked for me and my husband. The upfront simple relationship does in fact exist Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #11 December 16, 2011 Quote How did that breakup go? jon I was waiting for someone to say something. Just a curious question from me after seein how...errr...challenging some of y'all relationships are. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #12 December 16, 2011 I totally agree. I have to dumb it down for myself, because men like to think xyz, when it really was efg. So I like to make my message clear, especially when it comes to relationships.Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BrokenR1 0 #13 December 16, 2011 QuoteI totally agree. I have to dumb it down for myself, because men like to think xyz, when it really was efg. So I like to make my message clear, especially when it comes to relationships. My experience has been that men think xyz so they say xyz. Women hear xyz but take it to mean efg. Then when women say pqr they really mean some other letters that are really symbols and are read from right to left. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Rap is to music what etch-a-sketch is to art. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
oldwomanc6 52 #14 December 16, 2011 Some of us say what we mean, and mean what we say --Simple lisa WSCR 594 FB 1023 CBDB 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #15 December 16, 2011 Quote I have to dumb it down for myself, because men like to think xyz, when it really was efg. Au contraire. I think it's that men want xyz and women want efg. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #16 December 16, 2011 Quote Quote Where the F, is the fun in THAT? Life is a big game... ya' gotta be a playah! Chuck You sir, have got the right of that. (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
masterrig 1 #17 December 16, 2011 Quote Quote Quote Where the F, is the fun in THAT? Life is a big game... ya' gotta be a playah! Chuck You sir, have got the right of that. Sometimes, I get lucky... and I'll take luck over skill, any day!Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #18 December 16, 2011 Quote Some of us say what we mean, and mean what we say --Simple I'm sure both of you do. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #19 December 16, 2011 QuoteQuote I have to dumb it down for myself, because men like to think xyz, when it really was efg. Au contraire. I think it's that men want xyz and women want efg. I agree. Case in point: Man: Honey, I would like to Wife: Sure, dear. Go ahead and have a good time. Later..... Wife: Where were you yesterday? All you do is . You KNOW I don't want you doing that. Man: *sigh* ...and that's when the fight started.My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
squirrel 0 #20 December 18, 2011 Quote That's how it worked for me and my husband. The upfront simple relationship does in fact exist us too... ________________________________ Where is Darwin when you need him? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #21 December 18, 2011 Quote Quote I think u need to ask shah269! jejej Zing. It is Ba-zing-ga!!!TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #22 December 18, 2011 Quote Is that really too much to ask? Simple is good Life could be simple . . . without women.And it would be lonely. So long live the complications. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #23 December 18, 2011 Quote Quote Is that really too much to ask? Simple is good Life could be simple . . . without women.And it would be lonely. So long live the complications. You are wise between your ears John. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #24 December 18, 2011 Quote Quote Quote I think u need to ask shah269! jejej Zing. It is Ba-zing-ga!!! Slightly hung over, making dinner and working on my very last homework project....can't answer to the depth I would like to and then spend an evening defending my position. Sort answer? We are wired differently. For a good time go watch lesbians argue.....it's a great bit of fun.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
