guppie01 0 #1 June 28, 2011 I'm 41 and I don't have any children of my own (1 step-son). At this stage in life, coupled with the fact my husband has had a vasectomy, it's not going to happen and I'm ok with that. So many people find this shocking... Curious if I'm that much of an oddity... g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #2 June 28, 2011 Quote Curious if I'm that much of an oddity... g Nope You are not alone. She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #3 June 28, 2011 Kids. Blech! Well, they are ok as long as they live somewhere else. I'm quite content with the fact I could never have kids. Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
david3 0 #4 June 28, 2011 Quote coupled with the fact my husband has had a vasectomy, it's not going to happen Curious if I'm that much of an oddity... g We can work around that. Well actually I can't. 46, no children and a vasectomy and I'm okay with that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 8 #5 June 28, 2011 You sound perfect for Shah!"I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
missbrz 0 #6 June 28, 2011 Quote You sound perfect for Shah! except that pesky married part...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 8 #7 June 28, 2011 Quote Quote You sound perfect for Shah! except that pesky married part...... eeneR isn't married..."I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #8 June 28, 2011 Quote Quote Quote You sound perfect for Shah! except that pesky married part...... eeneR isn't married... I was gonna say since when????? News to me....She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #9 June 28, 2011 Quote You sound perfect for Shah! I am a fat Data Center Engineer, not even close She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 8 #10 June 28, 2011 Quote Quote You sound perfect for Shah! I am a fat Data Center Engineer, not even close Not what I heard!"I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #11 June 28, 2011 Quote Kids. Blech! Well, they are ok as long as they live somewhere else. I'm quite content with the fact I could never have kids. bawahaha Love it Lisa! g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #12 June 28, 2011 Quote Quote Quote You sound perfect for Shah! I am a fat Data Center Engineer, not even close Not what I heard! To Shah's standards I am fat... She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 8 #13 June 28, 2011 Quote Quote Quote Quote You sound perfect for Shah! I am a fat Data Center Engineer, not even close Not what I heard! To Shah's standards I am fat... To his standards a #2 pencil is fat."I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BIGUN 1,314 #14 June 28, 2011 I had my first and only child at the age of 50... I'll let that sink in for a second... > > > > > > > > > > > Where's the unplanned, never wanted kids, totally unexpected, but having accomplished almost every goal in this life, was more ready to be a daddy than ever before and able to change my life to spend as much time with her as possible option?Nobody has time to listen; because they're desperately chasing the need of being heard. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #15 June 28, 2011 Quote Quote Quote Quote Quote You sound perfect for Shah! I am a fat Data Center Engineer, not even close Not what I heard! To Shah's standards I am fat... To his standards a #2 pencil is fat. Stop Hijacking G's thread on not wanting kids!!! She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #16 June 28, 2011 Quote Quote coupled with the fact my husband has had a vasectomy, it's not going to happen Curious if I'm that much of an oddity... g We can work around that. Well actually I can't. 46, no children and a vasectomy and I'm okay with that. Yes, reversals are an option, but highly unlikely those swimmers will be of much use after 24 years being stagnant. g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #17 June 28, 2011 It's not abnormal. Indeed, evenm as a parent I have absolutely zero issue with those who do not want kids so long as theyu are honestabout it. Kids really do require complete changes to life. There are plenty who are happy with their lives - my best friend among them. I take issue with anybody who would attempt to foist their ideas of happiness on others. It is no less tolerable for anyone to say that it's abnormal not to want kids as it is for someone to say it is abnormal to want them. Anybody who would seek to make you feel bad about it then refer them to me and I'll let them know that a father of three thinks they are out of line. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #18 June 28, 2011 Quote Where's the unplanned, never wanted kids, totally unexpected, but having accomplished almost every goal in this life, was more ready to be a daddy than ever before and able to change my life to spend as much time with her as possible option? How awesome for you! xoxo g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #19 June 28, 2011 Gimme a puppy or two, any day of the week. (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #20 June 28, 2011 Quote Stop Hijacking G's thread on not wanting kids!!! g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #21 June 28, 2011 Now where is the option for the guys: No,(AFAIK), and don't want them "There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #22 June 28, 2011 Quote Anybody who would seek to make you feel bad about it then refer them to me and I'll let them know that a father of three thinks they are out of line. Aww, good to know I have a lawyer who has my back! You're one of the good ones Jerr! g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
eeneR 3 #23 June 28, 2011 Quote Quote Stop Hijacking G's thread on not wanting kids!!! g Hey it's a thread I belong in! I must help keep its integrity She is not a "Dumb Blonde" - She is a "Light-Haired Detour Off The Information Superhighway." eeneR TF#72, FB#4130, Incauto Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #24 June 28, 2011 Quote Quote Quote Stop Hijacking G's thread on not wanting kids!!! g Hey it's a thread I belong in! I must help keep its integrity Well, truth be told, I wanted them badly when I was younger, however the ex-husband kept saying the time wasn't right. In retrospect it was probably a good thing we never had kids together. Now, the Step-son is starting college this fall, I'm so content with being with my honey and spoiling the nieces, nephews & grandbabies (if they should happen). g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #25 June 28, 2011 Not so much-my wife and I both like kids but when we found out that it would be doubtful that we would have any, I got clipped. We thought it best (and it was) to make peace with the way things were and plan out lives accordingly.You are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
