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Take Hugh Hefner's new fiancee, for example. You just know that that's all about true love.



It's GOTTA be!
Why else would he endanger his life like that?
:D:D
My reality and yours are quite different.
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Actually of the "list" 8 of items listed are character.
One has to do with the cats and one has to do with body type. And that has to do with lifestyle and well...my choice of bikes.
Maybe if i were to invest in a side car I could "adjust" the list :)
But nah! Why should I?



I knew someone who had a list but could never find anyone that filled the requirements. Finally came to the conclusion, "close enough, fuck it".:ph34r:
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Well the Hungarian girl I was dating after me explaining why each one of the 10 things was there agreed it wasn't too much or crazy.
Case in point one is "Must like the cats."
I have two, they were here first, I doubt there is anything a woman can say or do that would make me send these two off to the pound.
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I was so upset when I realized I just could not be with her. She was here in the country illegally and though she was everything a guy would have wanted in a life partner I was just not in a place where I could deal with that.

I'm sure she is going to make some guy very happy one day. Sadly, it's not going to be me. [:/]

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a checklist that must be met.


well there is really nothing wrong with that. You have to know what you "want" in life.
I have a list, right on my kitchen wall. And it's not an impossible list. And yes there is a "body type" listed.

But who has the right to walk in look at my list or any ones "list" and start making changes or start judging what makes me or any one happy? Thus why I just tell those who have the audacity to even suggest or criticize to go pound salt.

And to the OP I highly suggest the same thing. After all what are you going to do if you do lower your standards or "adjust" your wants and needs and after a few years you realize that you are unhappy? Then who do you blame? Yourself for lacking the will to stand up for what you believe in or your family or friends who pressured you?



Well there are consequences for having standards or "lists" or what ever. I know that for me, personally, due to my standards its likely I'll never find/meet a woman who not only meets my standards but is interested in me. So its very likely I'll be alone for the rest of my life. But then again I'd rather be alone then in a miserable relationship.
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I have this friend who was dating a really nice guy. She wasn't "totally feeling it" with this perfect on paper guy. So, she gets home from a vacation, sees an eHarmony commercial on television and has a bright idea to join to see what it's all about.

3 days later she's sitting in the doctor's office and her cell phone beeps with a couple of emails from eHarmony. 1st email said, "Meet your new match, XXXXX". Second email said, "XXXXX has sent you a message".

Oops. Busted. It was the guy she was dating. :o

Her standards were so "tight" that she's only received about 5 "matches" (that were all rejected by her for not clicking in the looks) in about 3 weeks.

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Well the Hungarian girl I was dating after me explaining why each one of the 10 things was there agreed it wasn't too much or crazy.
Case in point one is "Must like the cats."
I have two, they were here first, I doubt there is anything a woman can say or do that would make me send these two off to the pound.



So what you are saying is that you won't give up two pussies to get just one.
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Well the Hungarian girl I was dating after me explaining why each one of the 10 things was there agreed it wasn't too much or crazy.
Case in point one is "Must like the cats."
I have two, they were here first, I doubt there is anything a woman can say or do that would make me send these two off to the pound.



So what you are saying is that you won't give up two pussies to get just one.


I just lost it. :D:D:D:D:D:D

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I gotta teach you to swoop. :S:P:D


Can you swoop a 7 cell?

Nah my list isn't that nutty!
I think off the top of my head the top few that i remember are.
Must have 4 years of post high school education.
Not allergic to cats.
Like to travel.
Easy to live with.
Size medium / 8

Funny thing is that most people ignore all the other items on the list and fixate on that mediu/size8. Even if they themselves are a small or mediu.

I never got that!
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

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Had a very interesting discussion with a relative, and I was told that at this point in my life (31 years old and getting younger :P) I should be looking for a relationship that's more practical and makes more sense for long term, rather than seeking that fire, passion, one and only, excitements, etc etc etc.

So...would you rather have...

a. A series of short-lived or semi-short (read: not for the rest of your life) relationships, where there is the fire, passion, excitement, etc, is present every single day, but it fizzles out eventually?

or

b. A lasting relationship that's more practical, in the sense that your s/o is a good partner, make a good wife/mother, and it's a life-long relationship, but the fire/excitement/passion isn't as prevalent as in option 'a'.

What do y'all crazy skydivers think? :P



What ever you decide to do, DO NOT under any circumstance ever, get married.

That is the single most worst mistake a young man can do.

Never, ever marry.

Here read this

A man reads his wives gmail, finds out she is a cheating whore, ends up in a divorce(initiated by the woman) and he might end up in prison for 5 fucking years.

In society this sick, there is no sane reason for a man to marry.
Your rights end where my feelings begin.

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And if that isn't enough to scare you there are some great books out there as well!
http://www.womensinfidelity.com

Look it's a risk. Take it froma guy who has been there and done that. It's a risk. Just like any thing else you do in your day.
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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Most women don't want to be married, they just want to have a huge ass bridezilla wedding.

The fact is: 50% of marriages end in a divorce, out of which 70% are initiated by women.

So a man marrying has a 35% (~ 1 in 3) chance of ending up in a divorce.

If I told you that you had a 50% chance of dying on skydive and there would be a 70% that your death would not be your own fault, ie. plane crashing at take off, would you jump? No sane person would.

But for some fucked up reason thousands of men every year think they can beat the odds at marriage.

The only reason I can think of is arrogance fueled by ignorance and delusions in thinking they won't get hurt.

If you get married you've given the woman you've married legal rights to destroy your life. And it will happen, its just a matter of time until it does.
Your rights end where my feelings begin.

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Wow you are right. I never thought of it that way.

Ladies? Thoughts on this? I mean the guy does have some very valid point.
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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I gotta teach you to swoop. :S:P:D
Can you swoop a 7 cell?

Yes, but that's not what I meant. :P
When I started jumping, swooping was diving down and docking quickly on the formation. We were jumping rounds so canopy swooping had yet to be invented. Swooping also meant to be the first person to dive down and "dock" on an available female. ;)

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Wow you aer old! Did you use to jump at the wright brothers DZ?

Ha ha....I'm seeing this immage....one girl and what 50 odd guys going no I'm first no I'm first!

I'm so glad I'm not in this sport to meet girls. What are the numbers? 50/1 100/1 if you take out the girls who are married?
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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Well, okay, if ya got no competitive spirit.:P

And yes, I got almost 20 years on you. But I started jumping in my teens. :)



Competitive spirit?

The guy goes to a YOGA class to meet women . . .

nuff said.
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
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Competitive spirit?

The guy goes to a YOGA class to meet women . . .

nuff said.


That's right I am a GOD ummong men! :P
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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Competitive spirit?

The guy goes to a YOGA class to meet women . . .

nuff said.


That's right I am a GOD ummong men! :P


You mean like in 300? The God King?:o
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
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You mean like in 300? The God King?:o


Yes but less gay......not that there is anything wrong with that it's just that I lack the motivation to stay that good looking and that healthy or dress that good!
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

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