JohnMitchell 16 #51 December 22, 2010 Wow, I haven't dated in years. Don't people ever just do it just because they're in lust? That's probably why I didn't pick up women in bars. I didn't much care for all the tit-for-tat games. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #52 December 22, 2010 Quote Wow, I haven't dated in years. Don't people ever just do it just because they're in lust? That's probably why I didn't pick up women in bars. I didn't much care for all the tit-for-tat games. My question is how much would be charged . . . I made a new poll for thatI'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #53 December 22, 2010 First rule in dating, 1) never buy a girl a drink. You set up a bad trend. Dinner, coffee ok....but don't buy her a drink.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #54 December 22, 2010 Quote First rule in dating, 1) never buy a girl a drink. You set up a bad trend. Dinner, coffee ok....but don't buy her a drink. But it is so fun watching her drink it with no hands.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #55 December 22, 2010 Quote First rule in dating, 1) never buy a girl a drink. You set up a bad trend. Dinner, coffee ok....but don't buy her a drink. If you slip roofies into her non alcoholic drink, she'll get suspicious when she gets "tipsy." Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #56 December 22, 2010 They get suspicious when he starts looking at them. And worried when he asks their dress size! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #57 December 22, 2010 Quote And worried when he asks their dress size! Ah the classic Shah date #1 question. "So nice outfit, looks very good on you, so what is your dress size?"Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Arvoitus 1 #58 December 22, 2010 QuoteQuoteIn Sweden a woman can prostitute herself as much as she wants to. If a man buys her services he is going to have trouble with the law. In other words its legal to sell but illegal to buy. The feminist crazies have been, for years, trying to push a similar law in my country(Finland) thankfully, so far, they've been unsuccessful. In this part of the world its the men who are being demonised because of prostitution, not women. Women are always victims. Its because of a pimp/human trafficking/the evil patriarchal society which oppresses women and denies them changes to have a proper job which causes women to become prostitutes. Not because they're grown ups who can make decisions for themselves. Well, men may (in your country and/or Sweden) get a slap on the wrist by the law, but to say (or imply) that the women bear no risks is silly.. Prostitutes may not get arrested, but they do get beaten, hurt, killed.. And in *most* countries, the law regularly reprimands prostitutes, but not the "consumers".. There is an awful lot of inequality/unfairness/hypocrisy around this subject, I think. Bottom line is, it takes 2 to tango.. Forgot to mention that it is also illegal to buy in Norway and Iceland. And the maximum punishment in Sweden for buying is 6 months in jail, which is hardly a slap on the wrists. Prostitutes are best off in places where its legal and accepted. For instance in Amsterdam in the red light districts the police patrol the area. If woman (or man) is having issues with a client they have an alarm system in place to get the patrolling police to help them out.Your rights end where my feelings begin. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #59 December 22, 2010 Wait she can sell but he can't buy? How about rent?Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Arvoitus 1 #60 December 22, 2010 QuoteWait she can sell but he can't buy? Well the law uses gender neutral language but thats basically the gist of it. QuoteHow about rent? The word used in the law is 'ersättning' which can be translated to mean reimbursement, compensation, payment among other things so I guess renting is out of the window too.Your rights end where my feelings begin. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #61 December 22, 2010 So can you be arrested if you are out with your GF and she says, buy me that $500 dress I don't need and I will go down on you like a starving hooker? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #62 December 22, 2010 Dude that's dumb! I mean in theory.....every time you buy dinner and you "happen" to get some you are "buying". And let's not forget that freaking ring thing!Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billvon 2,990 #63 December 22, 2010 >Women are always victims. Its because of a pimp/human trafficking/the >evil patriarchal society which oppresses women and denies them changes >to have a proper job which causes women to become prostitutes. Not >because they're grown ups who can make decisions for themselves. Unless they are in a place that prostitution is legal. Then they, in general, do not get abused, oppressed or forced to do something they don't want to do. The ultimate threat of the pimp is "I will go to the cops." Take that threat away and being a prostitute is no more anti-woman than, say, being a waitress is. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #64 December 22, 2010 Quote>Women are always victims. Its because of a pimp/human trafficking/the >evil patriarchal society which oppresses women and denies them changes >to have a proper job which causes women to become prostitutes. Not >because they're grown ups who can make decisions for themselves. Unless they are in a place that prostitution is legal. Then they, in general, do not get abused, oppressed or forced to do something they don't want to do. The ultimate threat of the pimp is "I will go to the cops." Take that threat away and being a prostitute is no more anti-woman than, say, being a waitress is. Bill on this you have no clue whatsoever. I have friends in the FBI working on trafficking that would tell you otherwise. It is really sickening. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Arvoitus 1 #65 December 22, 2010 QuoteSo can you be arrested if you are out with your GF and she says, buy me that $500 dress I don't need and I will go down on you like a starving hooker? QuoteDude that's dumb! I mean in theory.....every time you buy dinner and you "happen" to get some you are "buying". And let's not forget that freaking ring thing! Well the Swedish feminists think that marriage is a legalized form of prostitution, so if you put a ring on that finger then its a-okay to pay for sex. If you're trying to find some logic in all this, then you have to realise that these feminists aren't trying to protect these poor suffering women. Its all about controlling male sexuality. Because if there is one thing these feminists hate, its healthy straight male libido. Quote>Women are always victims. Its because of a pimp/human trafficking/the >evil patriarchal society which oppresses women and denies them changes >to have a proper job which causes women to become prostitutes. Not >because they're grown ups who can make decisions for themselves. Unless they are in a place that prostitution is legal. Then they, in general, do not get abused, oppressed or forced to do something they don't want to do. The ultimate threat of the pimp is "I will go to the cops." Take that threat away and being a prostitute is no more anti-woman than, say, being a waitress is. I think there is a miscommunication here. The part you quoted isn't what I think but what the feminist say/believe who push these laws.Your rights end where my feelings begin. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #66 December 23, 2010 Quote Where's the option for, "never thought about it because I have too much self-respect"? + 1 Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #67 December 23, 2010 Suuuuuure Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #68 December 23, 2010 I think a great place to have conducted this poll is the gate area of the late afternoon Friday flight from FLL-LAS. Every chick at the gate looked like a FLL stripper head to work in Las Vegas for the weekend.Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #69 December 23, 2010 They probably are, most of them married too. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #70 December 23, 2010 Why the hell do guys think if they bought dinner or whatever and the girl sleeps with him, he just "Bought it""?? Are men really that stupid? generally women only sleep with guys they are attracted to. every woman is attracted to different things. Some women are looking for a provider. But those are getting to be fewer and further between. Most are just looking for someone to connect with. Are guys just looking to get laid?? Many to most.. yep. Cant help it that is the way we are wired. Lets look at the financial aspects of a "date". Yep, the guys usually picks up the tab for dinner, drinks and what ever. The female.. well most spend a stupid amount of money on Make up, the right out fit and the right shoes (Which I don't think most guys even know exist). Guys, even if you buy a $200 dinner.. you can bet she spent close to the same amount so she could look her best, Who paid more for the sex at the end of the night?? Debatable. The bottom line.. If she likes you. you might get some. If she doesn't .. you just blew some cash on the night.. But so did she. How many women consciously rented themselves?? Most likely very few, Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billvon 2,990 #71 December 23, 2010 >I have friends in the FBI working on trafficking that would tell you >otherwise. Where is it occurring? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #72 December 23, 2010 Quote>I have friends in the FBI working on trafficking that would tell you >otherwise. Where is it occurring? Most major cities. Up until a few years back they were smuggled in from Albania, most of the girls from the Ukraine and Russia. Now they realized it is cheaper to kidnap them here. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #73 December 23, 2010 QuoteWhy the hell do guys think if they bought dinner or whatever and the girl sleeps with him, he just "Bought it""?? Are men really that stupid? generally women only sleep with guys they are attracted to. every woman is attracted to different things. Some women are looking for a provider. But those are getting to be fewer and further between. Most are just looking for someone to connect with. Are guys just looking to get laid?? Many to most.. yep. Cant help it that is the way we are wired. Lets look at the financial aspects of a "date". Yep, the guys usually picks up the tab for dinner, drinks and what ever. The female.. well most spend a stupid amount of money on Make up, the right out fit and the right shoes (Which I don't think most guys even know exist). Guys, even if you buy a $200 dinner.. you can bet she spent close to the same amount so she could look her best, Who paid more for the sex at the end of the night?? Debatable. The bottom line.. If she likes you. you might get some. If she doesn't .. you just blew some cash on the night.. But so did she. How many women consciously rented themselves?? Most likely very few, No arguments here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #74 December 23, 2010 Quote Guys, even if you buy a $200 dinner.. you can bet she spent close to the same amount so she could look her best, Who paid more for the sex at the end of the night?? Debatable. The bottom line.. If she likes you. you might get some. If she doesn't .. you just blew some cash on the night.. But so did she. But she can wear that outfit and shoes again on another date with someone else. We can't get the food and drinks back. Well not in any way they could be used again. Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #75 December 23, 2010 QuoteWhy the hell do guys think if they bought dinner or whatever and the girl sleeps with him, he just "Bought it""?? Are men really that stupid? generally women only sleep with guys they are attracted to. every woman is attracted to different things. Some women are looking for a provider. But those are getting to be fewer and further between. Most are just looking for someone to connect with. Are guys just looking to get laid?? Many to most.. yep. Cant help it that is the way we are wired. Lets look at the financial aspects of a "date". Yep, the guys usually picks up the tab for dinner, drinks and what ever. The female.. well most spend a stupid amount of money on Make up, the right out fit and the right shoes (Which I don't think most guys even know exist). Guys, even if you buy a $200 dinner.. you can bet she spent close to the same amount so she could look her best, Who paid more for the sex at the end of the night?? Debatable. The bottom line.. If she likes you. you might get some. If she doesn't .. you just blew some cash on the night.. But so did she. How many women consciously rented themselves?? Most likely very few, THANK YOU. Well put."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites