airtwardo 7 #26 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote What does 'fancy someone' mean...use a NEW roll of duct tape? I thought it meant you would break out the lingerie for them. I have to shave my legs again?! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #27 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Hmmm... The poll results so far pretty much confirm what I was thinking... I'm sorry. But... the phone works both ways ya know... Yeah, I know that - it's not super straightforward, this one... Without getting into it, he actually gave me his details. I texted him and we met up. Haven't heard boo since (not even a response to my text). That was 4 days ago. Sorry to read that. Maybe he just wasn't into you. Give it another day or two then move on."Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #28 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote Quote What does 'fancy someone' mean...use a NEW roll of duct tape? I thought it meant you would break out the lingerie for them. I have to shave my legs again?! You still have hair to shave? "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #29 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote What does 'fancy someone' mean...use a NEW roll of duct tape? I thought it meant you would break out the lingerie for them. Pswah - He breaks out the "Man's" dress shirt for that!I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #30 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Quote Hmmm... The poll results so far pretty much confirm what I was thinking... I'm sorry. But... the phone works both ways ya know... Yeah, I know that - it's not super straightforward, this one... Without getting into it, he actually gave me his details. I texted him and we met up. Haven't heard boo since (not even a response to my text). That was 4 days ago. Sorry to read that. Maybe he just wasn't into you. Give it another day or two then move on. I'm just a bit upset, to be honest. I have *never* felt such a strong connection with anyone - not even the love of my life who convinced me to drop everything and move to England... And if everything he said to me was a load of bollocks I just can't believe I was so utterly wrong about him."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #31 November 18, 2010 Quote I'm just a bit upset, to be honest. I have *never* felt such a strong connection with anyone - not even the love of my life who convinced me to drop everything and move to England... And if everything he said to me was a load of bollocks I just can't believe I was so utterly wrong about him. Sounds like someone needs a little sympathy sex.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #32 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Hmmm... The poll results so far pretty much confirm what I was thinking... I'm sorry. But... the phone works both ways ya know... Yeah, I know that - it's not super straightforward, this one... Without getting into it, he actually gave me his details. I texted him and we met up. Haven't heard boo since (not even a response to my text). That was 4 days ago. Did you bang him? If so, I'd consider that a hit and run.Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #33 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote I'm just a bit upset, to be honest. I have *never* felt such a strong connection with anyone - not even the love of my life who convinced me to drop everything and move to England... And if everything he said to me was a load of bollocks I just can't believe I was so utterly wrong about him. Sounds like someone needs a little sympathy sex. Jesus, I probably do!! Haven't gotten laid in about 6 months Although to be fair it hasn't been due to a lack of opportunity so I can't really complain."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 2 #34 November 18, 2010 Quote Did you bang him? Ah, Jersey girl. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #35 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote Did you bang him? Ah, Jersey girl. I thought Jersey girls were not to be fucked with? "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 2 #36 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Did you bang him? Ah, Jersey girl. I thought Jersey girls were not to be fucked with? That's correct. Actually, I was busting on McSwervy, as in "spoken like a true Jersey girl." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #37 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Quote Did you bang him? Ah, Jersey girl. I thought Jersey girls were not to be fucked with? That's correct. Actually, I was busting on McSwervy, as in "spoken like a true Jersey girl." Sorry. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #38 November 18, 2010 Well I guess fancy is out the door and plain has taken over. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #39 November 18, 2010 Quote Sounds like someone needs a little sympathy sex. There's nothing like catching 'em on the rebound. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #40 November 18, 2010 Sorry. ~she says as she kills him.... ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Southern_Man 0 #41 November 18, 2010 Original scenario--call the next day. Nataly's actual scenario--call the next day. At least a "thank you for a nice time" call, regardless of intentions for another date or not. I don't get falling for somebody off a few brief contacts or one date or whatever, though. Takes me quite a while to get my feelings involved strongly. In Nataly's case I would just move on."What if there were no hypothetical questions?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Heatmiser 0 #42 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Guys: you meet a girl and you *really* fancy her. You ask for her number and she gives it to you. How long do you wait before you call her? Feel free to elaborate. I usually just roll over Divot and tell Twardo good morning! How is Twardo these days? FIFYWhat you say is reflective of your knowledge...HOW ya say it is reflective of your experience. Airtwardo Someone's going to be spanked! Hopefully, it will be me. Skymama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #43 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Quote Guys: you meet a girl and you *really* fancy her. You ask for her number and she gives it to you. How long do you wait before you call her? Feel free to elaborate. I usually just roll over Divot and tell Twardo good morning! How is Twardo these days? FIFY LMAO! "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MikeJD 0 #44 November 18, 2010 Quote He's not up my ass 24/7 I can't believe this hasn't been quoted yet. I went all the way to the end of the thread to check. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #45 November 18, 2010 QuoteI don't get falling for somebody off a few brief contacts or one date or whatever, though. Takes me quite a while to get my feelings involved strongly. In Nataly's case I would just move on. + 1Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #46 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote I don't get falling for somebody off a few brief contacts or one date or whatever, though. Takes me quite a while to get my feelings involved strongly. In Nataly's case I would just move on. + 1 Well, it's the first time I experienced this and the circumstances are a bit unique. Argh.. I started to write up the whole story, but any way I write it I feel more and more like an ass.. Whatever. You're probably all right. I'm an ass and should move on and not believe sweet-talkers no matter how sincere they seem. Fuck, fuck, fuck."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TriGirl 333 #47 November 18, 2010 QuoteQuoteI don't get falling for somebody off a few brief contacts or one date or whatever, though. Takes me quite a while to get my feelings involved strongly. In Nataly's case I would just move on. + 1 +1 more. This is why I don't "date" someone I've just met. I have to know someone before I know if I'm even attracted to him!See the upside, and always wear your parachute! -- Christopher Titus Shut Up & Jump! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #48 November 18, 2010 Fuck, fuck, fuck. You little sweet talker you! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #49 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote Quote I don't get falling for somebody off a few brief contacts or one date or whatever, though. Takes me quite a while to get my feelings involved strongly. In Nataly's case I would just move on. + 1 Well, it's the first time I experienced this and the circumstances are a bit unique. Argh.. I started to write up the whole story, but any way I write it I feel more and more like an ass.. Whatever. You're probably all right. I'm an ass and should move on and not believe sweet-talkers no matter how sincere they seem. Fuck, fuck, fuck. Don't be so hard on yourself!! I'd just file it away and remember how this made you feel next time you're inclined to jump in with both feet so fast. And for once, I'm practicing what I preach. Scuba Boy fucked my head so badly it has taken me months and months and months to get over it, with lots and lots of introspection and even with a little get back together time in between "the end" and "THE END". The sad part is this new boy could end up paying the price for SB's attitude towards me. I'm usually very upfront and direct with what I want and expect. This time I'm letting him come to me if he wants to see me. I'm not initiating anything. It's not game playing, it's keeping me from getting attached too soon and then getting my little heart crushed by some hot dude whom I presume is a player. I'm sure this is just a little fun fling. It is what it is... I just keep telling myself that. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #50 November 18, 2010 Quote Quote He's not up my ass 24/7 I can't believe this hasn't been quoted yet. I went all the way to the end of the thread to check. You know what I meant! Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
