A theory about "finding the right girl"

[happythoughts 0]

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I'm with you. I prefer young, educated, athletic women.
I think I should date the best possible choice that I meet.

Unfortunately, women seem to be doing the same darned thing. They are looking for the best possible choice too. Broke, middle-aged, skydiving, bourbon drinker isn't on their list.

I'm still single because they are acting like me.

Yup. Back to ladder theory- keep climbing.

When the rules to the game are helping us win, we all like them.
When the rules are not going to let us win, we are all unhappy.

People just need to accept how things are working out.
Even if 84 of your friends with you, it doesn't change reality.

[turtlespeed 220]

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I think Lucky's chart would have a slice for whip cream

..and buying $740 jump suits.

Have you ever seen an armored car following a hearse? Me neither.

Reminds me of that old lady that lost her husband recently.

He was a very successful jewler, and he always asked to be buried with all his wealth.

So as his last days were apparent, the wife consolidated all the assets, and sold the business and converted everything into high quality diamonds. She had them appraised at just over 26 million dollars.

Well, the funeral day came and she placed the small wooden box on his chest and the closed the coffin and buried him.

Her best friend came up to her and asked what was with the box, and she told her about the consolidation and the diamonds. At the end of the tale, her friend looked at her dumbfounded that the woman would adhere to his wishes and bury him with all the diamonds with him.

She looked at her puzzled and said , diamonds . . . Oh, Lord no . . . I wrote him a check.

I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

[shah269 0]

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I'm with you. I prefer young, educated, athletic women.
I think I should date the best possible choice that I meet.

Unfortunately, women seem to be doing the same darned thing. They are looking for the best possible choice too. Broke, middle-aged, skydiving, bourbon drinker isn't on their list.

I'm still single because they are acting like me.

Well yes and no. A guys we tend to age a little better and sadly we tend to make more money.
So at 20 you will be out gunned by a guy who is 30 but by the time you are 30 you can out gun a guy who is 20.
That's assuming you are not paying through the nose in legal fees.

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

[happythoughts 0]

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I'm with you. I prefer young, educated, athletic women.
I think I should date the best possible choice that I meet.

Unfortunately, women seem to be doing the same darned thing. They are looking for the best possible choice too. Broke, middle-aged, skydiving, bourbon drinker isn't on their list.

I'm still single because they are acting like me.

Well yes and no. A guys we tend to age a little better and sadly we tend to make more money.
So at 20 you will be out gunned by a guy who is 30 but by the time you are 30 you can out gun a guy who is 20.
That's assuming you are not paying through the nose in legal fees.

At 30, I had money - true. Not today.

However, according to the womens posts - short, out-of-shape, and broke is not a roadblock. Good personality and kindness are the keys. Seems to be in every post.

I just need to get some guidance from one of the women who is dating a short, unattractive guy with no money. There must be thousands.
They aren't as superficial as they give you crap for.

[shah269 0]

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However, according to the womens posts - short, out-of-shape, and broke is not a roadblock. Good personality and kindness are the keys. Seems to be in every post.

I just need to get some guidance from one of the women who is dating a short, unattractive guy with no money. There must be thousands.
They aren't as superficial as they give you crap for.

Bro don't feel bad. I make $100kish and in NJ I'm the working poor. I'm swiming in the same sea as guys who live and work in NYC and made $100k in one month! So it's not being broke. As for being short...what's the matter with you!

But for kicks if you have the cash and fun friends you can always do the "He has to be funny" drinking game. Grab a bottle, and randomly ask any girl in a bar what she looks for in a guy. If in under 1 min she says "And he has to be funny..." take a drink thank her and move on.
If her and her friend say it together at the same time that's a doubble shot!
Good luck and enjoy your liver while it lasts!

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

[LuckyMcSwervy 0]

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Bro don't feel bad. I make $100kish and in NJ I'm the working poor.

I'm in NJ and I make about that. I'm not the "working poor". I know how lucky I am and count my blessings every single second of every single day.

Always be kinder than you feel.

[shah269 0]

Darling, you are a girl, we guys really don't care how much you make. Life is a little different for you then it is for us guys.

After all, what girl would date a guy who makes $100k and lives in the burbs when she could date a guy who makes well over $300k and lives in the city?

A smart one!

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

[rehmwa 2]

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Now you are trying to find a toe hold in your rebuttal by utilizing semantics.

that's normal for DZ.com

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Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants

[rehmwa 2]

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However, according to the womens posts - short, out-of-shape, and broke is not a roadblock. Good personality and kindness are the keys. Seems to be in every post.

that's because, no matter what people "REALLY" prefer, it's more socially acceptable to write that in public forums. Still, I'm not sure how one can see personality and kindness across the room -

People see someone they find physically attractive, then they approach them - that's first. At that point, they hope the other stuff is there - and if it's not, that may break the deal. So first impressions, by definition, have to be shallow. It's the way it works. too bad, so sad, not PC at all.

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Driving is a one dimensional activity - a monkey can do it - being proud of your driving abilities is like being proud of being able to put on pants

[LuckyMcSwervy 0]

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Darling, you are a girl, we guys really don't care how much you make. Life is a little different for you then it is for us guys.

I disagree. Plenty of men care about what a women makes. Some men don't want to end up footing the bill for everything in a relationship if their partner can't afford to do the extra stuff the other person may want to do. Believe me, it gets old real quick paying for everything... I did that with a guy I've dated in the past and, depending on the person, it may cause a ton of resentment in the future.

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After all, what girl would date a guy who makes $100k and lives in the burbs when she could date a guy who makes well over $300k and lives in the city?

A smart one!

That may be what some women want but certainly not me. Guess I'm dumb.

That did not read right...

What I meant to say is that I have absolutely no problem dating someone who makes $100k and lives in the 'burbs vs. the City. Actually, I prefer the 'burbs $100k maker. So.... I guess I am dumb.

Always be kinder than you feel.

[turtlespeed 220]

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Darling, you are a girl, we guys really don't care how much you make. Life is a little different for you then it is for us guys.

I disagree. Plenty of men care about what a women makes. Some men don't want to end up footing the bill for everything in a relationship if their partner can't afford to do the extra stuff the other person may want to do. Believe me, it gets old real quick paying for everything... I did that with a guy I've dated in the past and, depending on the person, it may cause a ton of resentment in the future.

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After all, what girl would date a guy who makes $100k and lives in the burbs when she could date a guy who makes well over $300k and lives in the city?

A smart one!

That may be what some women want but certainly not me. Guess I'm dumb.

Hmmm . . . Not quite enough for you, huh?

I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

[happythoughts 0]

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However, according to the womens posts - short, out-of-shape, and broke is not a roadblock. Good personality and kindness are the keys. Seems to be in every post.

that's because, no matter what people "REALLY" prefer, it's more socially acceptable to write that in public forums. Still, I'm not sure how one can see personality and kindness across the room -

People see someone they find physically attractive, then they approach them - that's first. At that point, they hope the other stuff is there - and if it's not, that may break the deal. So first impressions, by definition, have to be shallow. It's the way it works. too bad, so sad, not PC at all.

"At that point, they hope the other stuff is there - and if it's not..."

You can always change that later.

[shah269 0]

LuckyMcSwervy your not stupid, you're personality is less based on material possessions. Though how much did you say that new suit set you back

And no you are right. I would love to find a girl who was a professional, well educated, and made half of what I made if not more. That way we could live a long happy life and not worry about money.

But that being said, there are a lot of girls / women sadly who put a huge amount of weight on thing that we guys just can't change. How tall we are and how much we make.

The other day there were three very large women at my condo pool yakking about how they wanted a guy who made no less than $150k and was no shorter than 5'11". And I assure you they were twice your size and this is what they were looking for. And it's not unusual. And no these ladies in their massive shallow splendor would not qualify as Ms. Right.

*to fix spelling errors! Bite me!

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

[Arvoitus 1]

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However, according to the womens posts - short, out-of-shape, and broke is not a roadblock. Good personality and kindness are the keys. Seems to be in every post.

I just need to get some guidance from one of the women who is dating a short, unattractive guy with no money. There must be thousands.
They aren't as superficial as they give you crap for.

Bro don't feel bad. I make $100kish and in NJ I'm the working poor. I'm swiming in the same sea as guys who live and work in NYC and made $100k in one month! So it's not being broke. As for being short...what's the matter with you!

But for kicks if you have the cash and fun friends you can always do the "He has to be funny" drinking game. Grab a bottle, and randomly ask any girl in a bar what she looks for in a guy. If in under 1 min she says "And he has to be funny..." take a drink thank her and move on.
If her and her friend say it together at the same time that's a doubble shot!
Good luck and enjoy your liver while it lasts!

Dude your priorities are completely out of whack. You say you're making 100k a year, yet I see this:

Jumps : 18
In sport : 2 years

Why the fuck do you waste your money dating women when you could be skydiving? Hell you say you've already gone through one divorce already. What more do you need?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dLBw28Ojw4c

Your rights end where my feelings begin.

[shah269 0]

Legal fees bro....legal fees have killed me this year.
This divorce has thus far cost me $3k
That and I go to school every saturday for my MBA so time isn't there either.
I try to skydive every other friday but with rentals it comes out to $100 a day. And I have to sadly watch my money.
But yeah...I know....

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

[theonlyski 8]

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LuckyMcSwervy you're not stupid, youre personality is less based on material posessions. Though how much did you say that new suit set you back ?

And no you are right. I would love to find a girl who was a professional, well educated, and made half of what I made if not more. That way we could live a long happy life and not worry about money.

But that being said, there are a lot of girls / women sadly who put a huge ammount of weight on thing that we guys just can't change. How tall we are and how much we make.

The other day there were three very large women at my condo pool yackking about how they wanted a guy who made no less than $150k and was no shorter than 5'11". And I assure you they were twice your size and this is what they were looking for. And it's not unusual. And not these ladies in their massive plender would not qualify as Ms. Right. WTH?

FIFY, not even going into the proper commas and whatnot...


That last line makes no sense...

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[LuckyMcSwervy 0]

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That way we could live a long happy life and not worry about money.

Mo' money, mo' problems. Just ask Biggie.

BTW: Twice my size wouldn't even make one large woman.

Always be kinder than you feel.

[kasch 0]

Keep eating that whip cream, we'll get some meat on them bones

Sex with sith is like sex with a stripper. A lot of flashing lights and waving of glowing sabers, but in the end you end up with something dark and wrinkely.

DPH# "-13"
TSK# "-13"

[LuckyMcSwervy 0]

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Keep eating that whip cream, we'll get some meat on them bones

I'm not a stick, I'm just not large.

ETA: Christ, Jersey!! You've seen my FB pics, right? You know I'm not a stick!!

Always be kinder than you feel.

[shah269 0]

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That way we could live a long happy life and not worry about money.

Mo' money, mo' problems. Just ask Biggie.

Well did the low money lots of problems.
Now I would like to do the OK money, her making from $40-$60k, less problems.
Actually I would love it if she had a normal schedule so we could go on vacations and or just have week ends together.

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

[billvon 2,991]

>But that being said, there are a lot of girls / women sadly who put a huge
>amount of weight on thing that we guys just can't change. How tall we are
>and how much we make.

You can't change what you make? I have; most people have.

>And I assure you they were twice your size and this is what they were
>looking for. And it's not unusual. And no these ladies in their massive
>shallow splendor would not qualify as Ms. Right.

They're shallow because they are looking for a certain income in a man - OK.

> I would love to find a girl who was a professional, well educated, and made
> half of what I made if not more.

And you're looking for a certain income in a woman?

[shah269 0]

billvon,
I make $100k now. To make $150k would be a 50% increase in income.
If you think a size 8 is bad this would be like me saying size 0.
Yes I can make $150k, but only after I have gotten my MBA and after I have paid back in time to my employer what i owe them and then if i get a job.

So yes it coudl hapen. And a size 8 girl can go down to a size 0 if she were to never eat again and die

And yes, I'm looking for a girl who makes from $40k-$60k who has a office job with a regular schedule so that we can take vacations together and spend week ends together.
Sound bad?

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

[absane 0]

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Sound bad?

No, not at all. Stick to your guns, man. I mean, why should you be the one to settle?

Don't forget to pull!

[billvon 2,991]

>I make $100k now. To make $150k would be a 50% increase in income.

Right. To do that you might need to get an MBA or a doctorate. If you really want to make more money, that's a good option. If not, then that's OK too. But that's your decision.

>And yes, I'm looking for a girl who makes from $40k-$60k who has a
>office job with a regular schedule so that we can take vacations together
>and spend week ends together. Sound bad?

No! Again, you can want whatever you want, and it sounds like you have practical reasons why being with such a person would help you both financially and timewise. It's just odd that you call other people shallow for wanting something similar.

[Roxxx 0]

the 'right girl' be the perfect girl...

Own your own ball gag!