ZigZagMarquis 9 #1 August 20, 2010 When a married person has an affair with a single person are they both cheating or is just the married person cheating? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverkeith 1 #2 August 20, 2010 QuoteWhen a married person has an affair with a single person are they both cheating or is just the married person cheating? QuoteAnytime you pass up sex, you're cheating on yourself. -Road TripBlue skies, Keith Medlock Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheCaptain 2 #3 August 20, 2010 One is cheating and the other is a low life for being involved with someone in a commited relationship IMHO.Kirk He's dead Jim Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #4 August 20, 2010 QuoteOne is cheating and the other is a low life for being involved with someone in a commited relationship IMHO. +1 unless it's an open relationship.Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #5 August 20, 2010 Many times married people of both genders don't reveal that they are married, so how could the single person be at fault in that situation? Also, it was the married person who took a vow, not the single person."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #6 August 20, 2010 QuoteOne is cheating and the other is a low life for being involved with someone in a committed relationship IMHO. Bingo!"Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 800 #7 August 20, 2010 What if single person doesn't know the other is married? If they do know but don't know the spouse? If they do know and are friends with the spouse? I've seen all flavors of this. Humans, what are you gonna do? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #8 August 20, 2010 Quote What if single person doesn't know the other is married? If they do know but don't know the spouse? If they do know and are friends with the spouse? I've seen all flavors of this. Humans, what are you gonna do? All good points. Have to judge on a case by case basis..."Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #9 August 20, 2010 Quote I've seen all flavors of this. Humans, what are you gonna do? "Everybody's banging everybody. It's a horny world." -- "The Boston Strangler" (1968)"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 800 #10 August 20, 2010 There's always the chance of "extenuating circumstances" as well. Lots of variables. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #11 August 20, 2010 QuoteMany times married people of both genders don't reveal that they are married, so how could the single person be at fault in that situation? Also, it was the married person who took a vow, not the single person. Or in relationships. Unless the single person has asked and been lied to about the other's status and has no reason to doubt them, they're at fault too. If the the single person would have no issue with a SO or spouse of theirs having an affair without their knowledge, than they should feel free to as well. If not, then respect the relationships of others.Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Darius11 12 #12 August 20, 2010 If you know your fucking a married person then yes you’re an ass hole as well. If you were lied too and had no clue then its just the married persons fault. Unless they have really bad amnesiaI'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmills0705 0 #13 August 20, 2010 Quote What if single person doesn't know the other is married? If they do know but don't know the spouse? If they do know and are friends with the spouse? I've seen all flavors of this. Humans, what are you gonna do? None of it is right... and I have seen all of the above also. I have two basic rules on this... I don't mess around with another womans man. Nor would I ever mess around when I have my own man. So you have to be single to be fair game. Pretty simple isn't it?!Kim Mills USPA D21696 Tandem I, AFF I and Static Line I Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wayneflorida 0 #14 August 20, 2010 Ask Bill Cinton or Prince Charles or John Edwards or Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 800 #15 August 20, 2010 So you ARE still single! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #16 August 20, 2010 Quote What if single person doesn't know the other is married? If they do know but don't know the spouse? If they do know and are friends with the spouse? I've seen all flavors of this. Humans, what are you gonna do? More threeways Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 800 #17 August 20, 2010 Nah. Sharing is icky. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #18 August 20, 2010 Quote Nah. Sharing is icky. depends on who the two guys are Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #19 August 20, 2010 I'm giving a serious response despite the light-hearted nature of this thread... For me it's simple: I don't like to share. If I'm going to invest my emotions into someone, I want the same level of commitment from the other person - I don't think that kind of emotional commitment/respect is possible when there are 3 people (or more!) in a relationship... I imagine it's possible for some people to be happy in mutually agreed-upon open relationships... But that is NOT the same as lying to/cheating on your partner... ETA - If you're knowingly in a relationship with someone who is married / seeing someone else, you either don't respect yourself or you are an arsehole. IMO. FWIW."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kasch 0 #20 August 20, 2010 sharebear does not agree!Sex with sith is like sex with a stripper. A lot of flashing lights and waving of glowing sabers, but in the end you end up with something dark and wrinkely. DPH# "-13" TSK# "-13" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #21 August 20, 2010 Quote I imagine it's possible for some people to be happy in mutually agreed-upon open relationships... Subtle use of italics noted Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #22 August 20, 2010 Quote Quote I imagine it's possible for some people to be happy in mutually agreed-upon open relationships... Subtle use of italics noted Well, it must be possible, but in my experience someone always ends up feeling left-out! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amazon 7 #23 August 20, 2010 Quote Quote Quote I imagine it's possible for some people to be happy in mutually agreed-upon open relationships... Subtle use of italics noted Well, it must be possible, but in my experience someone always ends up feeling left-out! It takes true talent to insure no one is "left out" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #24 August 20, 2010 Quote Quote Well, it must be possible, but in my experience someone always ends up feeling left-out! It takes true talent to insure no one is "left out" Ah ha ha!! Now I'm picturing someone trying to buy insurance for a threesome!! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davjohns 1 #25 August 20, 2010 If you and your buddy go to kill Ed and your buddy kills Ed, guess what we charge you with? Murder. If you know the other person made a vow and you help them break it, you are an adulterer. It took both of you to break the vow. This poll reminds me of Clinton's claim that Monica had sex, but he didn't. Really?I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
