livendive 8 #26 May 17, 2010 QuoteQuoteOk.. You're with someone who is very incompatible with you in the bedroom.. Is it possible for the relationship to work?? For a while, sure. Long term, never. If the sex isn't "right on" there will be no long lasting bond. So you don't think paraplegics have any chance at rewarding, long-term relationships? I think sex is an important part of a relationship, but any relationship which relies on it first and foremost is likely to be shallow and short-lived. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #27 May 17, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Quote Ok.. You're with someone who is very incompatible with you in the bedroom.. Is it possible for the relationship to work?? Why you gotta post our shit out in public like this?Besides - that was a GOOD helicopter!Sorry about the bruise. It wasn't the bruise that was the problem - just didn't like it when you played with the other guy more than I did!! You just got BURNED turtle! Yeah - I tried to recover - but I don't think it was a very good recovery - she got me.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
theonlyski 8 #28 May 17, 2010 Quote Quote Quote Quote Quote Ok.. You're with someone who is very incompatible with you in the bedroom.. Is it possible for the relationship to work?? Why you gotta post our shit out in public like this?Besides - that was a GOOD helicopter!Sorry about the bruise. It wasn't the bruise that was the problem - just didn't like it when you played with the other guy more than I did!! You just got BURNED turtle! Yeah - I tried to recover - but I don't think it was a very good recovery - she got me. SO, she got the turtle on his back huh?"I may be a dirty pirate hooker...but I'm not about to go stand on the corner." iluvtofly DPH -7, TDS 578, Muff 5153, SCR 14890 I'm an asshole, and I approve this message Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #29 May 17, 2010 Well, at least she got to you come out of your shell a little. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #30 May 17, 2010 Quote Ok.. You're with someone who is very incompatible with you in the bedroom.. Is it possible for the relationship to work?? Yes, those can end up being great friendships.But that's about all. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dgskydive 0 #31 May 17, 2010 If the sex is bad then he really isnt in to you. or your not into him. either way, your doomed Dom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #32 May 17, 2010 Quote Quote Ok.. You're with someone who is very incompatible with you in the bedroom.. Is it possible for the relationship to work?? Yes, those can end up being great friendships.But that's about all. Yeah.. I think he's a *great* guy, and we've remained friends.. So once again it would seem you're right, John - no surprise there!! I personally think what happens (or doesn't happen) in the bedroom reflects the relationship in general. In my recent situation, I felt we were really out of sync in a general way, *and* on top of that our libidos were totally different.. I'm sure we were both quite frustrated in the end.. And can I just say.. Shah.. That was a very lovely post.. More sincere than I expected from you (sorry - I know that sounds a bit like an insult!).. I know you're usually "brutally honest", but I thought that was more ballsy than your "ruder" posts.. Nicely done for opening up As for couples who have no sex.. Well.. I think if it's a mutual decision, I can easily believe that it can work.. Or if there is a tremendous amount of love and something happens (one of the two becomes paralysed), that it can be overcome.. But I do think it's the exception and not the rule. Generally speaking a couple that is not having any sex is a very unhappy couple indeed..."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Snowwhite 0 #33 May 18, 2010 QuoteOk.. You're with someone who is very incompatible with you in the bedroom.. Is it possible for the relationship to work?? RUN! RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN! Hey, we've been together for 36 years and I still LUST after Streaker! I can hardly wait to see him again! I remember walking in on my mom and dad having sex in the kitchen when they had been married for 32 years. It's VERY important!skydiveTaylorville.org freefallbeth@yahoo.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #34 May 18, 2010 Quote And can I just say.. Shah.. That was a very lovely post.. More sincere than I expected from you (sorry - I know that sounds a bit like an insult!).. I know you're usually "brutally honest", but I thought that was more ballsy than your "ruder" posts.. Nicely done for opening up .. I live I learn I a bit sad I wish you the best.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
