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why can a woman be superficial and a guy can't?



Ok, there are superficialities (is that a word?) on both sides and they usually find each other and all is good. I don't want that and I don't want to be with a woman that wants that so I really don't give two shits about superficial people. I just wonder why you care so much about the subject? Does it really affect your life?

Hey girls, wanna know how much I make?! :P

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I don't think most made it past the first sentence... :P


why can a woman be superficial and a guy can't?

I'm sorry I don't get it. I wonder if I has replaced guy with drag queen. Can RuPall be superficial? ;)
well thanks for your response.


How about because if women are superficial and put out, most men don't care if they are superficial.

But if men are superficial, most women (at least the ones with class) aren't going to give them a second look.

Go back a couple posts and read about high-end keychains.

Oddly enough, my Porsche keychain has a Porsche key on it. The reaction of the women to it is usually in inverse proportion to their availability.

The ones who go the most nuts over it (I had one who wanted to feel the upholstry) are married.

The single women go "Oh, it's nice".

Good thing I didn't buy it to pick up women isn't it:D:D:D
"There are NO situations which do not call for a French Maid outfit." Lucky McSwervy

"~ya don't GET old by being weak & stupid!" - Airtwardo

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Equality? :o

There's no equality and there never will be as we are all different. Different strengths, weaknesses, etc.

Our society doesn't value equality, just likes to be perceived as it does.

IMO the term equality these days tends to get thrown around when someone isn't willing to work for something.

Equality=excuse.


Bolas,
In a way I agree with you. But being a bit....I don't know a dreamer?...i had hoped technology would help?
I work with a lot of people via phone and internet. I don't care if they are a guy or a girl, gay or straight if they do a good job I let their boss know. And the same goes about expressing their wants in a partner.
Ok she wants a tall guy who makes $500k...GREAT!
But allow me to say what I want in a partner.

I don't know, I guess I had thought we had evolved but i guess we are still just hairless monkeys?
Maybe one day? Maybe?


In business I agree that technology has helped equality. With emails and text chats, strong accents or other things aren't an issue like they once were.

But the focus of a job is the work, not a personal connection.

You can try for anything you want in an SO, but when you automatically eliminate people based on certain changeable physical characteristics or materialistic ones, it's sorta shallow and causes people to wonder if you only like someone's body versus the whole package and should they happen to change would that person leave them.

On the flip side there are women who are fine with that but they tend to be shallow/materialistic as well. Those qualities generally aren't found in many skybabes. :)
To sum it up, they tend to talk about physical preferences while you seem to have physical standards.
Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting
If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh.

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I don't think most made it past the first sentence... :P



You playa playa, you!! ;););)

So, does this rag smell like chloroform to you??


:D:D:D:D

I was referring to this sentence:
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Imagine if the world was just a bunch of Bolas guys running around.


Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting
If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh.

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Does it really affect your life?


At the moment no but it's a Persian thing.
To ask questions about life, love, art and kebab in a cafe or near a bonfire.
Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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why can a woman be superficial and a guy can't?



Youre asking SKYDIVERS.... How many of these guys do you know that absolutely will not be with a woman if she isnt Barbie???

We spend our weekends outside in the nasty heat/cold doing what we love. And that's skydiving. I know maybe one girl that still looks drop dead gorgeous while doing it (I know I dont) but that doesnt mean they arent damn sexy.

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Does it really affect your life?


At the moment no but it's a Persian thing.
To ask questions about life, love, art and kebab in a cafe or near a bonfire.


So it's a Persian thing to whine about things?

We all question things and are curious about life's little intricacies. What you seem to be doing is not questioning "life, love art etc.." but more like what a little kid does when he complains to mommy when the next door neighbor kid can do something he can't.

Just sayin':|

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OK, serious Q&A time.

I want you to think about this very hard.

Question: Who in any relationship is the person with the most control? That's ANY relationship. Boss/employee, man/woman, human/pet . . . ANY relationship.











Answer: The one that cares the least.









That just might be the smartest thing I've heard all year. :ph34r:
The best things in life are dangerous.

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why can a woman be superficial and a guy can't?



Youre asking SKYDIVERS.... How many of these guys do you know that absolutely will not be with a woman if she isnt Barbie???

We spend our weekends outside in the nasty heat/cold doing what we love. And that's skydiving. I know maybe one girl that still looks drop dead gorgeous while doing it (I know I dont) but that doesnt mean they arent damn sexy.



Okay, that brings up a question I've been wondering for a while.

Why are skydiver women so hot?

They may not all be "supermodel" beautiful, but every last one of them is super sexy.

It's almost an "aura" around them. I don't understand it (and really don't care if I ever do or not), but something about them is really attractive.

And no, I don't mean just in the airplane when I can blame it on hypoxia.
"There are NO situations which do not call for a French Maid outfit." Lucky McSwervy

"~ya don't GET old by being weak & stupid!" - Airtwardo

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why can a woman be superficial and a guy can't?



Youre asking SKYDIVERS.... How many of these guys do you know that absolutely will not be with a woman if she isnt Barbie???

We spend our weekends outside in the nasty heat/cold doing what we love. And that's skydiving. I know maybe one girl that still looks drop dead gorgeous while doing it (I know I dont) but that doesnt mean they arent damn sexy.



Okay, that brings up a question I've been wondering for a while.

Why are skydiver women so hot?

They may not all be "supermodel" beautiful, but every last one of them is super sexy.

It's almost an "aura" around them. I don't understand it (and really don't care if I ever do or not), but something about them is really attractive.

And no, I don't mean just in the airplane when I can blame it on hypoxia.



My guess, confidence. I mean real confidence.

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Okay, that brings up a question I've been wondering for a while.

Why are skydiver women so hot?

They may not all be "supermodel" beautiful, but every last one of them is super sexy.

It's almost an "aura" around them. I don't understand it (and really don't care if I ever do or not), but something about them is really attractive.

And no, I don't mean just in the airplane when I can blame it on hypoxia.



As my dearly departed friend Dan Kulpa once told me, "Only bad girls jump outta airplanes". :P
Always be kinder than you feel.

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Thank you every one, if you were at my place I would have offered you some tea, great conversation. I guess the more we become "equal" the more our traditional rolls stay put.
Well good night sleep tight and thank you for the enlightening conversation. :)

Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay.

The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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Guys "can" and are superficial. That's exactly why many women feel the need to be a 6-8, or even smaller. Sure, some women do it for themselves because they like to be in shape and feel healthy. But the whole reason we find that look to be desirable is because men have idolized it. How is that not men being superficial? And isn't everyone a bit superficial? We like what we like. If you are only in to "big girls"....That would not qualify you as a good guy because you don't care about looks. No, that is the look you are in to....Just saying....
I woke up next to a blowup doll Ash....so what do you think?

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Geez....you guys are off the wall today.

What's up with all the Shah bashing?
The guy asks a question and you all go off with the PAs and snide remarks.

Falling back on the "whine" platform is soooooo lame.

All-in-fun razz is one thing but you guys are over the limit here.
My reality and yours are quite different.
I think we're all Bozos on this bus.
Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239

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It's the old "double standard". It's a fact of life...and it works both ways.

Like, "why can a guy screw anything that moves and brag about it while if a woman did that she'd be labeled a whore/slut, etc."

Humans...such strange animals we are.

But, alas, it makes for an interesting world, eh?
But not enough to lose sleep over it.


Kudos to LMcS for nailing it right off the bat.
:D:D:D

My reality and yours are quite different.
I think we're all Bozos on this bus.
Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239

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