Squeak 17 #26 December 29, 2009 Quote Well there was the crazy chick who kept calling the radio station where I worked and asking me to play "Misty" for her. Well stop putting her in your moviesYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #27 December 29, 2009 Quote Quote Well there was the crazy chick who kept calling the radio station where I worked and asking me to play "Misty" for her. Well stop putting her in your movies Ooh, that was a good one!"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xtravrtsoul 0 #28 December 29, 2009 Quote Quote Yes and it is a life changing, scary as f*cking hell, bunch of shit that I wish on NO ONE. But was able to contain the shit and now I live a peaceful life. Shwoo... Shit.. Sorry to hear that.. Glad it's over with, though.. Thank you but the good that came out of it; is the strenght I have now to stand up for myself and know how to deal with really tough situations without panicking. Knowing that no one can take control over my life like that again as well as standing up to the police department to realize I was not some crazy woman crying wolf and that I was someone to listen to. But I am great now and love life to the fullest everyday!! You create life, life does not create you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lpdwntnd 0 #29 December 29, 2009 One, made the mistake of shacking up with a crazy. She wouldn't leave me alone, would show up to shows I was playing 500 miles from where she lived. She would show up at my door at 3am, had her arrested once. She would leave messages saying we were soul mates and that she would kill herself if she couldn't be with me(kind of wanted her too, she would of left me alone then!). She was insane. Good times. Last I heard she moved to LA.Stop looking at me Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #30 December 29, 2009 Quote Thank you but the good that came out of it; is the strenght I have now to stand up for myself and know how to deal with really tough situations without panicking. Knowing that no one can take control over my life like that again as well as standing up to the police department to realize I was not some crazy woman crying wolf and that I was someone to listen to. But I am great now and love life to the fullest everyday!! You know, it's funny you should say that.. I was bullied a lot in school, and I consider it one of the best things that's ever happened to me. It may sound perverse, but it really taught me not to let people treat me like shit. I'm not saying the victim is to blame by any means, but I do think you can learn to avoid many bad situations. Glad you stuck up for yourself. It's really shameful that domestic violence/abuse is one of the most poorly handled issues by the law - it's too often not treated with the seriousness it deserves. Lots of women suffer in silence and live their lives in fear.. It must be truly horrible."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nigel99 473 #31 December 29, 2009 QuoteNo reason for this poll except I'm slightly bored. I never really had a stalker. I had one guy look me up in the email directory at university and send me an email saying he thought I was hot. But given I never heard from him again, I don't really think it properly counts as "stalking" behaviour... I haven't stalked or been stalked but I do know a true situation. The office manager where I worked was quite hot and one of the engineers (Shah?) got the hots for her. He continually harassed her, sent her pics of himself wanking from the toilets/phoned her while he was wanking/followed her home at night. It scared the hell out of her and she was convinced that he would rape her. He was sacked and a restraining order put in place - but she was terrified for about a year after he was gone.Experienced jumper - someone who has made mistakes more often than I have and lived. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #32 December 29, 2009 Quote . . . Last I heard she moved to LA. Yep - California . . . Land of the fruits and nuts! I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Coreece 190 #33 December 29, 2009 I wouldn't really call it a threatening situation, but this one chick would steal my stuff just so she could come over and give it back to me. Your secrets are the true reflection of who you really are... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Smirniof 0 #34 December 29, 2009 QuoteNo reason for this poll except I'm slightly bored. I never really had a stalker. I had one guy look me up in the email directory at university and send me an email saying he thought I was hot. But given I never heard from him again, I don't really think it properly counts as "stalking" behaviour... Never been stalked...would love to be stalked by a few hot women ;)....between 18 and 40 :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
elightle 8 #35 December 29, 2009 No, but my wife has one now but I've never run into him and he hasn't actually propositioned her. He just follows her some when she goes to the supermarket. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnDeere 0 #36 December 29, 2009 Quote Quote . . . Last I heard she moved to LA. Yep - California . . . Land of the fruits and nuts! I was gonna say she would be welcomed with open arms there!Nothing opens like a Deere! You ignorant fool! Checks are for workers! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
birdshit 0 #37 December 30, 2009 Yes, its scary and dangerous.. I had a girl that destroyed my house, broke a bunch of my stuff, called me hundreds of times, told me after we had sex that she had aids, flipped my motorcycle over and did $1500 damage to it. Tried to have me ejected from college. Then she tried to have me prosecuted for rape. I was almost arrested by the police. Its not fun. Its scary. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #38 December 30, 2009 Holy crap.. I think that's beyond stalking and well into the "psycho" section.. "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xtravrtsoul 0 #39 December 30, 2009 QuoteYes, its scary and dangerous.. I had a girl that destroyed my house, broke a bunch of my stuff, called me hundreds of times, told me after we had sex that she had aids, flipped my motorcycle over and did $1500 damage to it. Tried to have me ejected from college. Then she tried to have me prosecuted for rape. I was almost arrested by the police. Its not fun. Its scary. I so get what you are saying, it started small with me ending every week with something bigger, with my car getting torched. It was not fun and looking over your shoulder everywhere you go and do sucks.You create life, life does not create you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #40 December 30, 2009 Quote It was not fun and looking over your shoulder everywhere you go and do sucks. Yeah, isn't it awesome when guys will peer into windows of bars to watch you? And then break into your apartment when you're not home to take the stuff they've bought you over the course of the relationship (man, I miss those skis)... and then leave notes and flowers on your car in your work parking lot? And call and have your utilities turned off? And go out and buy an engagement ring and come over your house, barge in the front door (when your new boyfriend is on his way over for dinner) and try to put the ring on your finger?? And send 6 dozen roses with fucking psycho love poetry... And go to your Mom's office and beg her to "talk some sense into her"? And drive by your house every single night, multiple times. And try to befriend your brothers with gifts of football box seats and shit like that?? OMG. Man, stalkers fucking rock. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Misternatural 0 #41 December 30, 2009 holyKaren.... Like I said people are a risky investment- you never know who is going to turn into a vindictive psycho....Wouldn't it be nice if we could all just go about our lives meeting people and not think about the consequences...No can do, I think after age 25 people learn that the world of dating aint all fun and games, it's serious business.... mostly because of people's own insecurities. lets not forget about the damage people do to each other reputation wise. on the bright side sounds like you got a good dude now. Beware of the collateralizing and monetization of your desires. D S #3.1415 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #42 December 30, 2009 Quote holyKaren.... Yeah, and it was someone I've known since freaking grade school. And it was a million years ago but I finally had to tell my Dad and he took care of his "fascination with me". Quote on the bright side sounds like you got a good dude now. He was a really nice surprise. Happened when I wasn't expecting or looking for it... And he's an engineer!! Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xtravrtsoul 0 #43 December 30, 2009 Quote Quote holyKaren.... Yeah, and it was someone I've known since freaking grade school. And it was a million years ago but I finally had to tell my Dad and he took care of his "fascination with me". Quote on the bright side sounds like you got a good dude now. He was a really nice surprise. Happened when I wasn't expecting or looking for it... And he's an engineer!! Awe my hubby is an engineer too. That is the nice guy right there.You create life, life does not create you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #44 December 30, 2009 Quote Awe my hubby is an engineer too. That is the nice guy right there. See? Proves engineers can pull in some hot chicks. But... I didn't know mine was an engineer at first. We met when he was my scuba instructor. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xtravrtsoul 0 #45 December 30, 2009 Quote Quote It was not fun and looking over your shoulder everywhere you go and do sucks. Yeah, isn't it awesome when guys will peer into windows of bars to watch you? And then break into your apartment when you're not home to take the stuff they've bought you over the course of the relationship (man, I miss those skis)... and then leave notes and flowers on your car in your work parking lot? And call and have your utilities turned off? And go out and buy an engagement ring and come over your house, barge in the front door (when your new boyfriend is on his way over for dinner) and try to put the ring on your finger?? And send 6 dozen roses with fucking psycho love poetry... And go to your Mom's office and beg her to "talk some sense into her"? And drive by your house every single night, multiple times. And try to befriend your brothers with gifts of football box seats and shit like that?? OMG. Man, stalkers fucking rock. Mine did the utility thing too but not calling the company he went to the main box and switched the main circuit off outside. But he did not think I was smart enough to figure that out. Oh and shooting out my parents door and then leaving messages of gun shots on my phone. (changed the number twice and he still got the new one) That was towards the end. Once I did the protection order and the detectives were up his ass he stopped. And he still denied it was him. He was nuts. I can go on and on about what he did but what counts is I am alive and I am here for my son. I have a greatman now and he stuck through the crap and never left my side because of it. You create life, life does not create you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xtravrtsoul 0 #46 December 30, 2009 Quote Quote Awe my hubby is an engineer too. That is the nice guy right there. See? Proves engineers can pull in some hot chicks. But... I didn't know mine was an engineer at first. We met when he was my scuba instructor. Thats funny. I had known mine for a long time even before he started school for engineering. We worked at the casinos together and he was so cute in that uniform of his. lol. You create life, life does not create you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #47 December 30, 2009 Quote Quote It was not fun and looking over your shoulder everywhere you go and do sucks. Yeah, isn't it awesome when guys will peer into windows of bars to watch you? And then break into your apartment when you're not home to take the stuff they've bought you over the course of the relationship (man, I miss those skis)... and then leave notes and flowers on your car in your work parking lot? And call and have your utilities turned off? And go out and buy an engagement ring and come over your house, barge in the front door (when your new boyfriend is on his way over for dinner) and try to put the ring on your finger?? And send 6 dozen roses with fucking psycho love poetry... And go to your Mom's office and beg her to "talk some sense into her"? And drive by your house every single night, multiple times. And try to befriend your brothers with gifts of football box seats and shit like that?? OMG. Man, stalkers fucking rock. LOOK - ALRIGHT - ENOUGH ALREADY - I said i was sorry - It was just a little misunderstanding. The door was already open when I got there and I knew how much you liked the skis, so i took them for safe keeping.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #48 December 30, 2009 Quote LOOK - ALRIGHT - ENOUGH ALREADY - I said i was sorry - It was just a little misunderstanding. The door was already open when I got there and I knew how much you liked the skis, so i took them for safe keeping. Damn, so you really ARE a gentleman. I misread you. So, so sorry. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #49 December 30, 2009 Quote Quote LOOK - ALRIGHT - ENOUGH ALREADY - I said i was sorry - It was just a little misunderstanding. The door was already open when I got there and I knew how much you liked the skis, so i took them for safe keeping. Damn, so you really ARE a gentleman. I misread you. So, so sorry. I told you! . . . Don't MAKE me tell you again!I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #50 December 30, 2009 Quote Damn, so you really ARE a gentleman. I misread you. So, so sorry. Quote I told you! . . . Don't MAKE me tell you again! Or you'll spank me?? Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
