Nataly 38 #1 December 14, 2009 Andrea's poll made me think.. Someone once told me she regularly looked at her husband's text messages just to keep him in check.. And I thought "fucking hell - don't you trust him??!" Until that day, it had never even occurred to me to mess around with someone else's phone.. I still think it would be a massive violation of privacy/trust.. Any thoughts on this? Ever been guilty of it? Ever caught someone looking through your phone? Or email?"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #2 December 14, 2009 Yup. I voted for "hell yeah" but that was only after my ex-husband got busted cheating. I imagine the "good stuff" had already been deleted. Other than that... I don't give a shit about someone's phone enough to sneak a peek. If I want to see something I'm just going to ask. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #3 December 14, 2009 If he had been innocent then what would you think of your invasion? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrwrong 0 #4 December 14, 2009 No way, never. For me the urge to do such a thing would only mean that I've lost all faith in her and if I'd ever do that I'd just walk away.... If someone ever would go through my phone.... I'd walk away right then and there.... No trust = No relationship.... Just my oppinion... I don't judge if others reason in other ways “The sum of intelligence on the planet is a constant; the population is growing.” - George Bernard Shaw He who dies with the most toys, wins..... dudeist skydiver # 19515 Buy quality and cry once! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
linebckr83 3 #5 December 14, 2009 I've done it before, in my extremely jealous youth days.... so like 3 years ago Both times I did it, I found something I didn't like. From then on I decided I never would. That was a good idea for a year with the new girlfriend until she cheated on me 4 times a couple months ago Luckily, the girl I'm talking to now seems very trustworthy so for now I haven't had any reason to not believe what she says. "Are you coming to the party? Oh I'm coming, but I won't be there!" Flying Hellfish #828 Dudist #52 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jf951 1 #6 December 14, 2009 no way, stuff on ur phone is personal. i know that there is stuff on my phone that i dont want others to see and i extend people the same courtesy...its private.Jump more, Bitch less. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #7 December 14, 2009 I've never done it, and never even thought twice about someone doing it to me... then someone did and it threw me for a loop! Things worked out... g "Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #8 December 14, 2009 Quote If he had been innocent then what would you think of your invasion? I would've never done it under "normal" circumstances. I always tell people "be careful when you go snooping because what you may find could change your life". Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TrophyHusband 0 #9 December 14, 2009 my wife and i look at the texts on each other's phones all the time. its not a trust thing, its a boredome thing. sometimes when we're in the car she'll look through mine and delete the ones that don't have important info like addresses or phone numbers. she then makes fun of me because everyone who texts me is female (mostly her friends that text me because she usually doesn't text back). sometimes i'll stay in the car with the kids while she goes into a store and she'll leave her phone in the car. i look through the messages and when she gets back i make fun of her for being a fuddy-duddy and only sending about 3 texts per month. "Your scrotum is quite nice" - Skymama www.kjandmegan.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
linebckr83 3 #10 December 14, 2009 True dat. If you don't trust someone enough to not have to look through their phone for "evidence", then there's major problems in that relationship that need dealing with anyway."Are you coming to the party? Oh I'm coming, but I won't be there!" Flying Hellfish #828 Dudist #52 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarkM 0 #11 December 14, 2009 Nope, never. If I don't have trust in you, then there's no point in continuing the relationship. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #12 December 14, 2009 Nope, I never would (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyrider 0 #13 December 14, 2009 I have a teenage son, So yes I have...Glad I did too, he had nude pictures of his girlfriend on there that could have easially got him arrested! (His phone was searched at school, which, "I" think should be Illegal without a warrent! Damned glad I told him to delete the pictures! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #14 December 14, 2009 or show him how to lock it! I agree, that it does seem wrong that the school intrudes like that (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 2 #15 December 14, 2009 Quote I have a teenage son, So yes I have...Glad I did too, he had nude pictures of his girlfriend on there that could have easially got him arrested! (His phone was searched at school, which, "I" think should be Illegal without a warrent! Damned glad I told him to delete the pictures! Dude: you've just confessed to looking at your son's girlfriend naked. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #16 December 14, 2009 Quote Quote I have a teenage son, So yes I have...Glad I did too, he had nude pictures of his girlfriend on there that could have easially got him arrested! (His phone was searched at school, which, "I" think should be Illegal without a warrent! Damned glad I told him to delete the pictures! Dude: you've just confessed to looking at your son's girlfriend naked. So let's have it out, was she hot? Oh wait, she was probably underage. "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andy9o8 2 #17 December 14, 2009 Anyhow, the Russians have a saying: "Trust - but verify." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
