billvon 3,067 #101 December 7, 2009 >are you saying I have a small penis? Well, you do sorta have one. A very small one. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #102 December 7, 2009 Quote >are you saying I have a small penis? Well, you do sorta have one. A very small one. Look.. To some degree they are anatomically similar.. But my "head" has like a bezillion more nerve-endings, so they are NOT created equal!!! (On the other hand, I can't write my name legibly in the snow.. )"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #103 December 7, 2009 Nat, please pardon me if I offend. But the guys who turned you down? Were they via the web or were they in person? And what do you mean turn you down? I'm having a hard time tracking. Because, yes you are not an ugly girl. You went up, said hi, introduced your self, got his name spoke for a few minutes and asked for his phone number? Or were these guys taken?Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #104 December 7, 2009 Quote Nat, please pardon me if I offend. But the guys who turned you down? Were they via the web or were they in person? And what do you mean turn you down? I'm having a hard time tracking. Because, yes you are not an ugly girl. You went up, said hi, introduced your self, got his name spoke for a few minutes and asked for his phone number? Or were these guys taken? Where shall I begin??! First, nothing you have said has ever offended me - I just happen to disagree with a lot of what you say!!! In all seriousness, if I thought you were a total dickhead, I wouldn't bother responding to any of your posts.. (Ha ha!! My spell-check doesn't recognise "dickhead"!!) Um.. Yes.. Rejection.. Well, I've been rejected a number of ways.. I've had: ONLINE -no response (which from someone who is regularly/actively on the site I believe counts as a rejection) -"not interested" response (ie: I don't think you're really my type kind of message..) IN PERSON -a variety of responses including laughter, -a plain "no thanks" -several "you're kidding, right?" -"listen.. I think you're cute, but you're not my type" -"you're too much of a perfectionist" -"I'm busy.." I've been rejected loads of times over my lifetime! I mean, I haven't gone up to "random strangers" exactly.. Which in a way is kind of worse! Oh well.. Maybe I come on too strong.. Do you think it was the whip or the nipple clamps that scared them away?? Edit: Oh yeah, and I forgot.. I got rejected in April/May by this guy I hooked up with (the first and last sex I had in 2009) on the basis that I was a "slut"!!!"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #105 December 7, 2009 You forgot to mention where the rejections took place. http://www.rathergood.com/gaybar Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Southern_Man 0 #106 December 7, 2009 I think it is just as hard for a girl to find what she wants as it is for a guy. I think this is just a matter of competibility being a complex matter w/ a lot of factors. I've gone out w/ a variety of women and sometimes I've not been interested in them and sometimes they haven't been interested in me for a variety of reasons. Takes finding somebody who is compatible in a number of areas and at the same point in wanting a similar dating relationship. That said, I've just started dating somebody regularly and hope that it works out for the long term. Enjoy the process of dating. I view the dates I had as a success because I met a lot of interesting people and had a lot of good times and conversation even w/ people who turned out not to be Mrs. Right for me."What if there were no hypothetical questions?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #107 December 7, 2009 Quote ONLINE -no response (which from someone who is regularly/actively on the site I believe counts as a rejection) -"not interested" response (ie: I don't think you're really my type kind of message..) I usually get lines like this: Quote Umm.. NO. But nice try!! "There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #108 December 7, 2009 Quote Quote ONLINE -no response (which from someone who is regularly/actively on the site I believe counts as a rejection) -"not interested" response (ie: I don't think you're really my type kind of message..) I usually get lines like this: Quote Umm.. NO. But nice try!! But mate.. You're half-way across the world.. I have to assume that your attempts to mount me are not exactly serious!! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #109 December 7, 2009 Quote But mate.. You're half-way across the world.. I have to assume that your attempts to mount me are not exactly serious!! OK, that choice of words has me ROTF!Yes, that is the advantage of the distance; I don't need to worry about following up."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyBastard 0 #110 December 7, 2009 *sigh*Dude #320 "Superstitious" is just a polite way of saying "incredibly fucking stupid". DONK! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billvon 3,067 #111 December 7, 2009 >To some degree they are anatomically similar.. But my "head" has >like a bezillion more nerve-endings, so they are NOT created equal! Well, I can't speak for your end of things (so to speak) but it sure seems like there's a good number of them down there in guys. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pontiacgtp00 0 #112 December 7, 2009 Quote You forgot to mention where the rejections took place. http://www.rathergood.com/gaybar Indeed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #113 December 7, 2009 Quote ONLINE -no response (which from someone who is regularly/actively on the site I believe counts as a rejection) -"not interested" response (ie: I don't think you're really my type kind of message..) IN PERSON -a variety of responses including laughter, -a plain "no thanks" -several "you're kidding, right?" -"listen.. I think you're cute, but you're not my type" -"you're too much of a perfectionist" -"I'm busy.." ! OK I don't know much about online. It's a new world to me. OK laughter....talk about rude! I hope you kicked him. But the way you made it sound and this is just my reading of it. You knew all these guys? And were trying to push an acquaintance into the next level. After all how would they know that you are a perfectionist? I'm talking about going to a non gay bar, though there is nothing wrong with gay bars they have great mixed drinks, looking for a guy, walking up to him, extending a hand, saying hi, starting up a conversation and if you like him getting his number. That's the challenge I have put forth before this Bonfire. To go up to and say hi to perfect strangers in hopes of changing the world.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #114 December 7, 2009 To those who replied to my LAst post. "Mother rapers. Father stabbers. Father rapers! Father rapers sitting right there on the bench next to me! And they was mean and nasty and ugly and horrible crime-type guys sitting on the bench next to me. And the meanest, ugliest, nastiest one, the meanest father raper of them all, was coming over to me and he was mean 'n' ugly 'n' nasty 'n' horrible and all kind of things and he sat down next to me and said, "Kid, whad'ya get?"" Anyway, Nataly, You're in the UK, right? I Think you are originally from the US though. I may be wrong I haven't really been on DZ regularly for a few years now. Anyway if that is true can I assume that most men (people) over seas have no/poor dental plan? So, if you are saying hello to the straight -white- toothed- guy you may be hitting on the self indulged elective surgery-type guy who is too into materialistic things to noticed you're alive. LOL (that's a tongue-in-cheeck response. Just a total goof about sterotypical britteeth.) Look, You are pretty and I don't know much more about you than that but if you ARE from the US I would suggest that your accent isn't very popular with the locals over there. You may just be fishing with the right bait in the wrong pond. Most of the world sees americans as ignorant douche bags who live in a bubble of self illusion. Edit to add the word toothed.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #115 December 7, 2009 She's French Canadian, different set of jokes needed. Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #116 December 7, 2009 I'm sorry to hear it. Nataly, there's no hope for you. My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Heatmiser 0 #117 December 7, 2009 Quote Dude, don't argue with women. Don't think you understand them. Don't try to predict their next move. Don't generalize anything about them. All we can do is love them. If they love us back, yay, that's cool. If they don't, yay, that's cool too. What he said.What you say is reflective of your knowledge...HOW ya say it is reflective of your experience. Airtwardo Someone's going to be spanked! Hopefully, it will be me. Skymama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #118 December 7, 2009 Quote She's French Canadian, different set of jokes needed. Oh I love French Canadian girls! And for some odd reason...they seem to like me! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davjohns 1 #119 December 7, 2009 QuoteTo those who replied to my LAst post. "Mother rapers. Father stabbers. Father rapers! Father rapers sitting right there on the bench next to me! And they was mean and nasty and ugly and horrible crime-type guys sitting on the bench next to me. And the meanest, ugliest, nastiest one, the meanest father raper of them all, was coming over to me and he was mean 'n' ugly 'n' nasty 'n' horrible and all kind of things and he sat down next to me and said, "Kid, whad'ya get?"" . And I told him, "They caught me for littering"....and all those nasty people moved away from me. "And being a public nuisance." And they all moved back!I know it just wouldnt be right to kill all the stupid people that we meet.. But do you think it would be appropriate to just remove all of the warning labels and let nature take its course. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #120 December 7, 2009 Quote And I told him, "They caught me for littering"....and all those nasty people moved away from me. "And being a public nuisance." And they all moved back! And they all came back, shook my hand, and we had a great time on the bench, talkin about crime, mother stabbing, father raping, all kinds of groovy things that we was talking about on the bench."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #121 December 7, 2009 Quote >To some degree they are anatomically similar.. But my "head" has >like a bezillion more nerve-endings, so they are NOT created equal! Well, I can't speak for your end of things (so to speak) but it sure seems like there's a good number of them down there in guys. That is a good thing, since many of us make some of our most important decisions with that "head"."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jf951 1 #122 December 7, 2009 nataly just come across the pond, it will solve all ur problems. plus if you play up that british accent a little bit u'll have more guys interested in you than you'll know what to do with!Jump more, Bitch less. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #123 December 7, 2009 Quote I would suggest that your accent isn't very popular with the locals over there. You may just be fishing with the right bait in the wrong pond. Most of the world sees americans as ignorant douche bags who live in a bubble of self illusion. Meh.. I'm sure the accent doesn't help, but not all those rejections were in the UK - some of them were from back home as well!!! *sigh*.. That's life, isn't it? I'm living-breathing proof that being hot is just not enough! "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OlympiaStoica 0 #124 December 7, 2009 Single and loving it … I’ve been most happiest in the past 2+ years since my divorce … minus the brief period of times when I attempted dating and I was reminded that the world is full of lonely, crazy people (note “people” … not “men”). On the other hand, I think I’ve been waiting for someone as witty, honest and charming as SHAH to come along … Man, I’ve been gone a few months and it seems not much has changed. O Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #125 December 7, 2009 There seems to be some discussion about hot chicks hitting on guys. First off... they do, all the time, every day. There are two approaches - direct and indirect. "Direct" - just walking up and talking works best for the clueless. "Indirect' - is more subtle. Sometimes it is just getting in the line of sight and doing a quick hair side-toss or, more aggressively, the hair flip. Or, just going over and standing near the target until he notices and tries to make contact. If still unnoticed, some overly loud talking is next. If that doesn't work, the "accidental" contact. bump "Oh sorry" with eye contact. (A boobie rub is an excellent bump-hint.) Or, listening to the conversation and then disagreeing with the content in a challenging way, "The Steelers suck." Last resort - the Blondes mating call - "I am sooo drunk." The announcement that judgment is seemingly compromised. Few get direct action. Most everyone gets the subtle moves. Not everyone correctly reads the subtle clues. For guys over 40 who complain that they aren't getting attention from hot 23yo women - get a life. You are just being creepy, stalkerish, or stupid if you are actually expecting that to happen. Almost everybody gets the attention that they deserve. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
