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Nataly

Shame.. No chemistry..

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English girls are pretty easy



Excuse me?? :o

I read all the way to the end of this thread. And I can only assume that no English girls have stumbled across it yet. >:(


and if they have, they would agree!

:D:D:D

where is the shah when you need him!?

:D:D:D
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So yeah.. Not sure what the next move should be, really. Open to suggestions, though :)



Sure, be okay with the idea you want animal fuck-me-now passion and you just don't see this guy throwing you up against the wall for a pull your hair make-out session.

Next, don't lead the dude on at any level. If he's puppy dogging you around you have to shut that shit down no matter how uncomfortable or "mean" that makes you feel. Worst thing for this dude right now would be to waste his time on you when he could be putting his attention on other girl he might up vibing with.

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I'm just personally disappointed that I didn't feel any chemistry because he's so much fun. I *want* there to be chemistry, but you can't force these things..



You just weren't using the enough of the right chemical;
Liberal use of alcohol has been known to produce spontaneous reactions.:ph34r:
"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones.

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Nataly!!!...... date Divot...



My wife would have a problem with that, she's funny that way:)
But, in the Nice Guy bucket, Nataly blows off this perfectly nice guy that evidently has a thing for her. I'm an over the hill, butt ugly jackass with a beautiful wife who adores me:S
I'm glad life isn't fair



Note that I did not just blow him off.. I'm just personally disappointed that I didn't feel any chemistry because he's so much fun. I *want* there to be chemistry, but you can't force these things.. That being said, I haven't written him off, but equally, I don't want to lead him on..

It's just a bit tricky. I want to see him again, but I have to be honest with myself (and him) that if no chemistry develops it's just not gonna happen.. I'm reluctant to go down the "just friends" route, because it's been my experience that this is just a bad situation, period.

So yeah.. Not sure what the next move should be, really. Open to suggestions, though :)


Sometimes it just takes time to develop the chemistry. Look at me. My wife thought I was a dork when we first met. It took a long while but she eventually took some interest, found out I skydived, did a couple tandems, then fell in love with me while dancing at a friend's wedding party.

Just that not all relationships can be realized right off the bat. Go out with that guy again.:)
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English girls are pretty easy



Excuse me?? :o

I read all the way to the end of this thread. And I can only assume that no English girls have stumbled across it yet. >:(


Awww.. It's not meant as an insult. :P Nor is it meant as a wide-sweeping statement.. The same thing could probably be said of most nations who have a culture of pubbing/clubbing, which in turn inspires ladies to go on the hunt and men to go on the pull :D:D

Again.. Not meant to encompass ALL women/men who hang out in pubs/clubs!!



Edit to add: Anyway.. You're just upset because you know it's true and yet you still can't pull!! :o:o:D:D:P
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Look at me. My wife thought I was a dork when we first met.



So what happened?

a) She decided you weren't a dork.

b) She decided she would settle for a dork?

:D
"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones.

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Sometimes it just takes time to develop the chemistry. Look at me. My wife thought I was a dork when we first met. It took a long while but she eventually took some interest, found out I skydived, did a couple tandems, then fell in love with me while dancing at a friend's wedding party.

Just that not all relationships can be realized right off the bat. Go out with that guy again.:)


Moral of the story? Go to a wedding and dance with him! ;)


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Look at me. My wife thought I was a dork when we first met.



So what happened?

a) She decided you weren't a dork.

b) She decided she would settle for a dork?

:D


I vote B.
:D;):P
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Look at me. My wife thought I was a dork when we first met.



So what happened?

a) She decided you weren't a dork.

b) She decided she would settle for a dork?

:D


Maybe, but she realized I could take good care of her and later on be a great dad to two wonderful girls. Not the sleazebag charmer she dated a couple times when I met her. He's got 5 kids with 4 different women and lives in a trailer by himself now. :P
"Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban

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Sometimes it just takes time to develop the chemistry. Look at me. My wife thought I was a dork when we first met. It took a long while but she eventually took some interest, found out I skydived, did a couple tandems, then fell in love with me while dancing at a friend's wedding party.

Just that not all relationships can be realized right off the bat. Go out with that guy again.





Yeah but OTOH, sometimes there IS instant chemistry that's real and undeniable...B|


I met my wife at an airshow performer party, while we were being introduced we made some serious eye contact, as she was reaching out to shake my hand she ask...Did you just feel that? :)

YES, I had! :$

...we've been together since that night, almost 20 years ago.


Sure you can 'learn to like' and hope something worthwhile and meaningful comes of it...but I think most women are pretty perceptive when it comes to matters of the heart, they can tell pretty quick if a new recruit has the basic materials.

If they don't get that read fairly early on then it's best to just release the small fry and bait the trap again...more often than not failure is imminent because of the self fulfilling prophecy from the initial assessment.










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I met my wife at an airshow performer party, while we were being introduced we made some serious eye contact, as she was reaching out to shake my hand she ask...Did you just feel that? :)



She was probably asking about your other hand; The one grabbing her ass.:P
"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones.

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I met my wife at an airshow performer party, while we were being introduced we made some serious eye contact, as she was reaching out to shake my hand she ask...Did you just feel that? :)



She was probably asking about your other hand; The one grabbing her ass.:P



The funny part was I was sitting down when we met, we talked for an hour or so before deciding to wander out to the hangar to look at her plane, I'm 6'4" & she 5'...she looks up and smiled sayin' "Wonder how we're gonna make THIS work!" :$;)B|










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Jim,

Everybody in the world know how bad I'm crushing on your Mrs. I absolutely adore her and hold her in the highest regard, but girls like that don't make mistakes that bad often enough to be a valid data point in the equation.




You're a rare breed ole Divot, one of those few that can actually stab ya in the back...while lookin' ya in the eye! :P










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