Nataly 38 #1 November 10, 2009 Oh my god.. I just got off the phone to my friend who was sobbing because this guy she slept with hasn't called her.. The (shortened) conversation went a little like this: Her: "was I that bad? Does it mean he thinks I'm ugly?" Me: "who knows??? Where did you meet?" Her: "In a pub" Me: "so he's pretty much a stranger - why are you so upset about it??" Her: "But surely you would think that is a guy has just had sex with a girl he would want more, so if he doesn't call I must have done something wrong" Me: "No idea, hun.. None.. He's just some guy - he doesn't even know you and doesn't know what he's passing up.. Try not to get all upset about it ok? It's just not worth it.." I said something lame to try and make her laugh, but mostly I didn't know what else to say .. So guys.. Help me out.. Have you ever had great sex with someone you just met and then not ever called them? Was there a particular reason why you didn't? (I thought she had a fair point.. If the guy knew he could have sex, you actually would think he might call..) Oh dear.. Thoughts?"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #2 November 10, 2009 I didn't know people talked after sex. News to me.Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #3 November 10, 2009 Hey Orchid and Dave, I was mistaken when i said i had women figured out.But seriously. It sounds like she just wants more cock. So i was right after all. Sort of. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #4 November 10, 2009 Awww.. I shouldn't laugh.. But I just did "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #5 November 10, 2009 Have you ever had great sex with someone you just met and then not ever called them? How do you know it was "great"? Maybe it was ho hum and the boy is a bum? I once had this one night stand, and due to the great sex....and it was epic great sex.....we ended up dating for about 6 months during which time I gave up eating meat due to her being a vegetarian. But that was due to the great sex. So...maybe it wasn't great sex?Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #6 November 10, 2009 I LOVE bad sex. Its my favorite. Along with akward sex, wierd sex, and high fiving after wards.Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #7 November 10, 2009 Yes the sex was great but in the morning when I sobered up and realized her laugh was still the same I couldn't bring myself to call her. Yes I know a laugh is a silly reason not to call someone but you would understand if you heard her laugh.www.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #8 November 10, 2009 Quoteand high fiving after wards. Not during?Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #9 November 10, 2009 QuoteHave you ever had great sex with someone you just met and then not ever called them? How do you know it was "great"? Maybe it was ho hum and the boy is a bum? I once had this one night stand, and due to the great sex....and it was epic great sex.....we ended up dating for about 6 months during which time I gave up eating meat due to her being a vegetarian. But that was due to the great sex. So...maybe it wasn't great sex? I thought that was pretty obviously implied in the question.. But nonetheless, there *could* be reasons why he didn't call even if the sex was great.. I don't know.. I don't pick up random people at the pub, and I'm not a man!!! How would I know why one would or wouldn't call??!"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #10 November 10, 2009 During is more of moose noises and buffalos in heat. Or blue whale noises. eeeeehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ehehhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hcsvader 1 #11 November 10, 2009 Yeah, pretty much anytime I have a one night stand and don't call the girl back its because the sex wasn't that great. Your friend might have thought it was great sex but him maybe not so much.Have you seen my pants? it"s a rough life, Livin' the dream >:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #12 November 10, 2009 Quote During is more of moose noises and buffalos in heat. Or blue whale noises. eeeeehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ehehhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! OMG you crack me up!! High-fiving Whale noises "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #13 November 10, 2009 Quote Quote During is more of moose noises and buffalos in heat. Or blue whale noises. eeeeehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ehehhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! OMG you crack me up!! High-fiving Whale noises Strangely enough, when I start making whale noises, its not so well received.Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #14 November 10, 2009 Quote I thought that was pretty obviously implied in the question.. But nonetheless, there *could* be reasons why he didn't call even if the sex was great.. I don't know.. I don't pick up random people at the pub, and I'm not a man!!! How would I know why one would or wouldn't call??! Look just because it was good for your friend doesn't mean it was great for him. Just as women can have "bad" sex so can us guys. And some times it's better to leave it at that. Because let's face it who wants to have that conversation with a woman. Him "Miss, I'm sorry but the sex we had last night was some of the worst sex I have ever had and baring me having to go to prison for a few years odds are I will never crave this low quality of sex ever again." Her "So what can I do to make it better? Him "Nothing.....you just aren't very good" And some people just aren't very good. Just like some people just can't look sexy.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quade 4 #15 November 10, 2009 Men talk to women so they can have sex. Women have sex with men so they can talk. There's your problem right there.quade - The World's Most Boring Skydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #16 November 10, 2009 Quote Men talk to women so they can have sex. Women have sex with men so they can talk. There's your problem right there. AHA, but if he wanted more sex, he would have to talk to her, no? Edit: That's just made me visualise talking *during* sex.. Ha ha ha!! "So, the weather was nice today, huh" "mmm hmm.. oh yeah.." "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #17 November 10, 2009 When she woke up next morning, was there a gnawed-off arm under her? "There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shah269 0 #18 November 10, 2009 Quote AHA, but if he wanted more sex, he would have to talk to her, no? only if it was good sex. look.....some girls....are just bad lays.Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
quade 4 #19 November 10, 2009 QuoteQuoteMen talk to women so they can have sex. Women have sex with men so they can talk. There's your problem right there. AHA, but if he wanted more sex, he would have to talk to her, no? We can flip that right around and say if she wanted to talk to him again, she should give him a booty call. It's a two way street.quade - The World's Most Boring Skydiver Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CSpenceFLY 1 #20 November 10, 2009 Maybe she sucks in bed and uses her teeth when giving head. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #21 November 10, 2009 QuoteQuoteQuoteMen talk to women so they can have sex. Women have sex with men so they can talk. There's your problem right there. AHA, but if he wanted more sex, he would have to talk to her, no? We can flip that right around and say if she wanted to talk to him again, she should give him a booty call. It's a two way street. Yes, true.. What I don't know is whether they exchanged numbers or if she just gave hers.."There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pmags88 0 #22 November 10, 2009 maybe she scared him with a little bit of her crazy or maybe he is in a relationship and needs to end it quick Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Orchid 0 #23 November 10, 2009 QuoteThoughts? In my opinion, his vision might be blurred by a strong lust to the degree where he himself don't know what he want until after he satisfy his sexual urges. Thus, a guy who thinks that he is interested in your friend might change his mind immediately after having sex with her, realizing that he wants nothing else from her but what he just received. Maybe you could recommend this movie to her: "He's Just Not That Into You"."Love is doing small things with great love." Lacrosse: Legally beating men with sticks since 1492 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Orchid 0 #24 November 10, 2009 Quote Hey Orchid and Dave, I was mistaken when i said i had women figured out. >>>> "Love is doing small things with great love." Lacrosse: Legally beating men with sticks since 1492 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #25 November 10, 2009 QuoteI didn't know people talked after sex. News to me. You should let him take the gag out earlierYou are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
