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Nataly

MEN: What's with not calling after sex??

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If she wants a guy to call her, maybe she shouldn't have sex with him on the same night she meets him in a bar. What on earth did she expect? :S

She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man,
because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon

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Hi Mama/Nataly

One night stands from a lucky night at a bar can be a lot worse than a missed phone call.B|

Here's a movie starring Diane Keaton and R Gere about the singles bar scene from a womens view (1977)

http://stores.videovintage.com/-strse-18/Looking-for-Mr.-Goodbar/Detail.bok?gclid=CLGAl7qqgp4CFSFRagodREkXpg

This movie was pre nasty STD's but getting Lucky with a one night stand almost cost the female character her life.B|

On the flip side Clint Eastwood starred in the movie " "Play Misty for me" where his one night stand almost cost him his life.B|

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If she wants a guy to call her, maybe she shouldn't have sex with him on the same night she meets him in a bar. What on earth did she expect? :S



How should I know?? He must have told her he would call.. So I'm guessing she was expecting him to call!! I honestly can't understand why this would be upsetting, personally.. I mean, it's not like you can build up an emotional connection to someone that quickly. Or at least, I can't.

I never really know what to say to her.. She got upset with me once for not taking her seriously.. And to that I just said it's hard to take her seriously when I know that in a week she will be calling me to tell me everything is wonderful because she has met the new "love of her life", only to repeat the heartbreak cycle the following week, etc.. Then she said something that made me feel a bit bad.. She said no matter how frivolous I may think she's being, her feelings are real and when she feels upset she's like any girl with a broken heart. And she added of all people, I must know what that feels like. She had a point.. :S

So I don't know. She's my friend and I take her for who she is. I don't understand how she could be so emotional but I do *try* to be considerate toward her feelings.

Maybe next time I'll just tell her to take it for what it was - just a bit of fun. Somehow I'm not sure it'll make much of a difference, but maybe it's better than saying "uhh.. I dunno.."
"There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse."
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I LOVE bad sex.


Its my favorite. Along with akward sex, wierd sex, and high fiving after wards.




Yeah, yeah, yeah....that's not what you told me when I broached the subject.
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My reality and yours are quite different.
I think we're all Bozos on this bus.
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Am I the only girl who wouldn't want the guy to call me? I have never met a guy and then slept with that night...but if I had...Holy crap. Don't call me! The odds of much or a relationship building on that are very slim. "Remember how we knew each other for an hour, and then had sex? How many other people have you done that with?" No thank. You meet a guy in a bar, and have sex- you just had a one night stand. Leave it at that. And for sure say thank you if you got off!:P Especially if you mande animal noises!

I woke up next to a blowup doll Ash....so what do you think?

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Thoughts?



Did he get her number? or write it down correctly?
Why can't she pick up the phone and call him, he's probably thinking why hasn't she called me? do i suck in bed etc :P
LifeshouldNOTbeajourneytothegravewithawellpreservedbody,buttskidinsideways,cigarinone hand,martiniintheother,bodythoroughlyused upandscreaming:"WOO HOO!! What a ride!!!"

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Awww.. I shouldn't laugh.. But I just did :D:D:D



Have you ever seen "How to lose a guy in 10 days"? I think that movie is great!!!

Maybe your friend cried during sex and said she loved him. LOL:D

Does anyone else find it funny that we made a SPORT out of an EMERGENCY PROCEDURE?!?!

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Awww.. I shouldn't laugh.. But I just did :D:D:D



Have you ever seen "How to lose a guy in 10 days"? I think that movie is great!!!

Maybe your friend cried during sex and said she loved him. LOL:D


is that why i'm still alone!? :|
“Some may never live, but the crazy never die.”
-Hunter S. Thompson
"No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try."
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Maybe it was the crazy sex that is great with a stranger, but you would never do with someone you want to take to meet Mom and Dad.

OR..


OK I gotta say it, maybe she wasn't *morning fresh*. Some girls need to work a little harder at cleanliness. Perhaps this link might help.

http://www.ehow.com/how_2209636_maintain-feminine-hygiene.html

Don't Pull Low... Unless You ARE!!!
The pessimist says, "It can't get any worse than this." The optimist says, "Sure, it can."
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why buy the cow...



A: I am not a cow.
B: I am not for sale.
C: Why buy the bull when he'll fuck you anyway and you don't have to deal with his inability to vacuum or piss inside the toilet only and not get any down the sides?
"If you can't be a good example, then you'll just have to be a horrible warning." ~Catherine Aird

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Am I the only girl who wouldn't want the guy to call me? I have never met a guy and then slept with that night...but if I had...Holy crap. Don't call me! The odds of much or a relationship building on that are very slim. "Remember how we knew each other for an hour, and then had sex? How many other people have you done that with?" No thank. You meet a guy in a bar, and have sex- you just had a one night stand. Leave it at that. And for sure say thank you if you got off!:P Especially if you mande animal noises!



+ 1

SkyMama and Cheach already said exactly what I said.

If you have sex with a guy after meeting him in a bar - do NOT expect him to call back and if he does - RUN!

He got what he wanted. Great sex or not. And just my opinion if they were both drunk then it wasn't great sex.
Kim Mills
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Meh, the dude is prolly married or has a GF....and dealing with two chatty women in your calling circle at the same time will make any mans skull spontaneously explode, this has been proven:|
It is also may create rips in the space time fabric.:P

Beware of the collateralizing and monetization of your desires.
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I'm thinking I wouldn't want to ever see a guy again if I had a one night stand with a stranger. I'd be too mortified at my behavior and would die of embarassment if I ever saw him again. Good sex or not.

I've never had a one night stand and I intend to keep it that way. :)

Always be kinder than you feel.

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