warpedskydiver 0 #26 November 3, 2009 Quote First an only real love...i mean the fairy-tale kind of love where everything about them is perfect, even their imperfections, where anything that you do is perfect, where you can spend 24 hours together or a few days every few months, and you'll still love each other. That was 10 years ago. She was in the US for 6 months, visiting her sister. Left to go back to Morocco. She's still there...and I'm still here. In the Freudian sense, I still haven't gotten over her. Peter, it is not like you cannot afford a plane ticket or two. If she is not married or attached permanently if you showed up she would feel like a fairy tale princess or at least you would know that it would not work. Man up. So what the hell are you going to do about it? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #27 November 3, 2009 Quote Quote First an only real love...i mean the fairy-tale kind of love where everything about them is perfect, even their imperfections, where anything that you do is perfect, where you can spend 24 hours together or a few days every few months, and you'll still love each other. That was 10 years ago. She was in the US for 6 months, visiting her sister. Left to go back to Morocco. She's still there...and I'm still here. In the Freudian sense, I still haven't gotten over her. Peter, it is not like you cannot afford a plane ticket or two. If she is not married or attached permanently if you showed up she would feel like a fairy tale princess or at least you would know that it would not work. Man up. So what the hell are you going to do about it? Wrong name You must think I'm someone else. Besides, I'm Jewish, she's Muslim. I have no problem with religion, but she asked me to convert to Islam. That I will not do for obvious reasons... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #28 November 3, 2009 Hey my mistake, must be old timers disease.And you know what? That would not matter if both of you wanted it to work. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #29 November 3, 2009 Quote Quote Let's just say I'm not the father. It probably would have been different if she was honest with you. I don't think you are the kind of guy that would cut and run. Thank goodness for court admissable DNA testing. www.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #30 November 3, 2009 Quote It's not long-distance anymore. What she said. I've been in a couple that didn't work, but my relationship with Muttley started with a 340 mile separation that included two mountain passes. We (mostly me, but sometimes her) made that drive almost every weekend during our first winter. The following summer she moved from her very cool area to my not so cool area, and we're now in our 4th year together. (And just moved into our 3rd home in that span ). Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
madhatter 0 #31 November 3, 2009 Thanks for giving a spark of hope. After reading the previous posts I really needed to know there CAN be a positive outcome! & that's all I'm gonna say in this thread! A VERY MERRY UNBIRTHDAY TO YOU!!! D.S # 125 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
diablopilot 2 #32 November 3, 2009 Quote Quote Quote Short and simple version: Boy meets girl, they fuck, several months later boy get's really tired that it's always he who has to drive 4 hours one way to meet during the week ends so boy decides to end the relationship.... The end!!! DING ! g I wouldn't drive 4 hours for the best sex in the world. That's just me. So California is out of the question then?---------------------------------------------- You're not as good as you think you are. Seriously. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #33 November 3, 2009 Quote I wouldn't drive 4 hours for the best sex in the world. That's just me. Quote So California is out of the question then? I'm gonna say yup.Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #34 November 3, 2009 Quote Quote I wouldn't drive 4 hours for the best sex in the world. That's just me. Quote So California is out of the question then? I'm gonna say yup. But you could fly from NJ to CA in 4 hours. "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #35 November 3, 2009 Quote Quote Quote I wouldn't drive 4 hours for the best sex in the world. That's just me. Quote So California is out of the question then? I'm gonna say yup. But you could fly from NJ to CA in 4 hours. Yeah, but I'm not fighting the security line at PHL for some ass. Call me crazy. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #36 November 3, 2009 What if he was Andy Garcia? www.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nerdgirl 0 #37 November 3, 2009 Trans-Atlantic, July 2002 - early 2006. Me in Illinois, California, and DC. Him in Oslo. We met at a 10-day workshop on technical arms control issues. He ended up extending his stay in the US by a month. And it actually worked really, really well. It took effort, but he was very much worth it. Split up for lots of reasons - changing feelings and different directions & desires for the future - he wanted me to move to Oslo and live with him. We're still very good friends. I'll be at The Hague next week, and he's coming over from Brussels for dinner. (Really, just dinner.) He jokes that in 40 years he's going to buy me a cabin adjacent to his north of Sognefjord so that we can retire and write together ... and argue about policy/politics. /Marg Act as if everything you do matters, while laughing at yourself for thinking anything you do matters. Tibetan Buddhist saying Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #38 November 3, 2009 Quote What if he was Andy Garcia? His hot ass can come to me. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #39 November 3, 2009 Quote Quote What if he was Andy Garcia? His hot ass can come to me. Wow you're high maintenance www.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #40 November 3, 2009 Quote Quote Quote What if he was Andy Garcia? His hot ass can come to me. Wow you're high maintenance That is a well known FACT. And I'm off for a date.... catcha later. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #41 November 3, 2009 Don't let him realize you are schizophrenic!Have fun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #42 November 4, 2009 Long Distance Love Story? My wife commutes 1500 mile to work. Sometimes I love it when she's home...sometimes I love it when she's gone! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DFWAJG 4 #43 November 4, 2009 Quote Quote Quote I wouldn't drive 4 hours for the best sex in the world. That's just me. Quote So California is out of the question then? I'm gonna say yup. But you could fly from NJ to CA in 4 hours. Nope, 6 one way, 8 hours the other. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #44 November 4, 2009 Quote Quote Quote Quote I wouldn't drive 4 hours for the best sex in the world. That's just me. Quote So California is out of the question then? I'm gonna say yup. But you could fly from NJ to CA in 4 hours. Nope, 6 one way, 8 hours the other. Oh. I figured it was about 4... oh wait, that's the air time from Atlanta to LAX."Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Skydave103 0 #45 November 4, 2009 she lived there, I didn't. end of story LifeshouldNOTbeajourneytothegravewithawellpreservedbody,buttskidinsideways,cigarinone hand,martiniintheother,bodythoroughlyused upandscreaming:"WOO HOO!! What a ride!!!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #46 November 4, 2009 Quote Quote What if he was Andy Garcia? His hot ass can come to me. Now the so-called cougar expects dinner to be brought up by room service."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hcsvader 1 #47 November 4, 2009 Thats how she make sme feel. I wish she wsn't 4500km away. I hope someday life will bring us back together again.Have you seen my pants? it"s a rough life, Livin' the dream >:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
katecooper 0 #48 November 4, 2009 Him: Denmark Me: Southern California Met: 2002 I moved: 2006 3rd wedding anniversary: TODAY! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kmills0705 0 #49 November 4, 2009 QuoteHim: Denmark Me: Southern California Met: 2002 I moved: 2006 3rd wedding anniversary: TODAY! I like this story!Kim Mills USPA D21696 Tandem I, AFF I and Static Line I Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MrLicious 0 #50 November 4, 2009 We got married!!!!! Sheesh!!! the things a guy has to do to get his licious name. There are no pessimists in skydiving. My Advice: It's worth what you pay for it, and I'm an expert at it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
