OlympiaStoica 0 #76 July 28, 2009 Quote Last time I checked, this is a free country, and everyone is allowed to have their opinions, even if everyone doesn't agree with them. But...I know how to settle this amicably. Everyone...feel free to let me have it for starting this discussion. I'm ready! Niki … if you haven't noticed, all the other guys are in hiding ... or making popcorn thinking "cat fight"!!! Go join them, will ya? In response to the mob now forming … getting ready to administer a cyber version of stoning … just acknowledging one woman’s response (who made absolutely perfect sense) does not in any way mean I disagreed with everyone else. This is a hypothetical conversation … I have formed my opinion based on observations during every day life (outside of this forum). O Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #77 July 28, 2009 Quote Quote Quote Quote Quote I'm just saying there is some very good input from females here that is not being noticed by her. That's because women's opinions dont count. Now, go make us some sammishes. Pfffft Make yer own damned sammiches. i dont care which one of you does it but make me one too. How about sandwiches and beers all around? I'll cook... Whipped like the family pig...Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #78 July 28, 2009 Quote Quote Quote Quote Quote I'm just saying there is some very good input from females here that is not being noticed by her. That's because women's opinions dont count. Now, go make us some sammishes. Pfffft Make yer own damned sammiches. i dont care which one of you does it but make me one too. How about sandwiches and beers all around? I'll cook... We all insist you buy them for us instead... Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #79 July 28, 2009 Quote Quote Last time I checked, this is a free country, and everyone is allowed to have their opinions, even if everyone doesn't agree with them. But...I know how to settle this amicably. Everyone...feel free to let me have it for starting this discussion. I'm ready! Niki … if you haven't noticed, all the other guys are in hiding ... or making popcorn thinking "cat fight"!!! Go join them, will ya? O I am a part-time bouncer...I'm here in case things get out of hand and some people need to be thrown out Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #80 July 28, 2009 You know, I have a question... If this woman was so "old fashioned" and thinking a dude was supposed to foot the bill for everything... did she put out?? You know, that other "old fashioned" way of thinking that if a dude pays you have to put out. I bet she wasn't that traditional. Just wondering.... Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #81 July 28, 2009 Quote Whipped like the family pig... Don't get me started on you...jooo punk. Just because I like to cook doesn't mean I'm whipped. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
topdocker 0 #82 July 28, 2009 The whole reason for "dating" is to see if your values are in alignment with the person you are attracted to. "Who pays," is part of that value system. First date, asker pays,maybe the second. After that a little communication about who is in charge of what and who buys is the key. If you can't ask who's going to pay the bar tab, how are you going to talk about birth control, STD's, etc, when that time comes. On a different, but related topic, how come no one offered to cover the costs of my child care when I was a single parent? As someone pointed out upthread, a lot of the cost of going out on a date for a single parent is in the care of your children, but that isn't just for the women, a lot of dads out there have kids at home, too. topJump more, post less! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #83 July 28, 2009 Whipped like the family pig... Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #84 July 28, 2009 Well; I don't date, and I don't have kids. I'm just here to be a brat. Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #85 July 28, 2009 Quote Well; I don't date, and I don't have kids. I'm just here to be a brat. + 1 Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #86 July 28, 2009 Quote I'll get the beers. woohoo!! beers, sammiches and good company....TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 846 #87 July 28, 2009 it's the least I could do for the group date. who's gonna pay the attorney fees when we all get divorced though??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #88 July 28, 2009 Quote it's the least I could do for the group date. who's gonna pay the attorney fees when we all get divorced though??? I thought everyone was a swinger??Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 846 #89 July 28, 2009 How quickly one forgets. Sharing is icky. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tigra 0 #90 July 28, 2009 There is no mob forming- why so dramatic? You made a large sweeping generalization about women in general and people called BS. Get over it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #91 July 28, 2009 Quote How quickly one forgets. Sharing is icky. Bad joke. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #92 July 28, 2009 Quote it's the least I could do for the group date. who's gonna pay the attorney fees when we all get divorced though??? Dont go getting all commitment attached...it is just an evening of fun .....TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #93 July 28, 2009 Quote Quote it's the least I could do for the group date. who's gonna pay the attorney fees when we all get divorced though??? Dont go getting all commitment attached...it is just an evening of fun ..... Yea...who needs commitment when you can have fun on a group date? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
incendium 0 #94 July 28, 2009 Well I have to say that if he wasn't sure where to take you then he's not a real gentlemen. Then again most first dates aren't usually at Ruth Chris steak houses either......I disagree about affording it, not all people are the same, however plan accordingly and take the other enablers into account. To explain this for every situation.....well peeps would be typing for days.... Good thing everyone has an OPINION.... v/r Paul "Never argue with an idiot, they will only bring you down to their level and beat you!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 846 #95 July 28, 2009 So you're buying the condoms. Cool. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
incendium 0 #96 July 28, 2009 that was a joke....but I guess some people took it to heart....true story though.....many moons ago, dated a young lady who told me she had her dad run a background check on me through a certain agency.....talk about the willies.....yeah, that one didn't work out..... v/r Paul "Never argue with an idiot, they will only bring you down to their level and beat you!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #97 July 28, 2009 Quote So you're buying the condoms. Cool. just dont get pissed if they are the worng size, color, texture, lubed up or non lubed, etc....opps forgot glow in the dark....they have to glow in the dark...TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
topdocker 0 #98 July 28, 2009 and flavored! Jump more, post less! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #99 July 28, 2009 Quote I always run a credit and background check before a date. Best way to find out if she's worthy. But that only works if you know their names."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
