jbh186 0 #1 April 20, 2009 Edited cause I got my answer...I'm an asshole. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Heatmiser 0 #2 April 20, 2009 Depends. Has she historically been given decision making priveleges at your home? Decorating, etc? If so, maybe so.What you say is reflective of your knowledge...HOW ya say it is reflective of your experience. Airtwardo Someone's going to be spanked! Hopefully, it will be me. Skymama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #3 April 20, 2009 Forget about it.... Tell the girlfriend to make sure the stones are gone when you get home Sunday night from Cross Keys' Luau Wow season opener this weekend. Edited to say I voted WTF was she thinking.... Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sletzer 3 #4 April 20, 2009 Dump all the rock into the trunk of her car........ I will be kissing hands and shaking babies all afternoon. Thanks for all your support! *bows* SCS #8251 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydiverbry 0 #5 April 20, 2009 I think it would have been nice of he to aleast consult you. But what the hell do I know about relationshipsBry -------------------------------------------------- Growing old is mandatory.Growing up is optional!! D.S.#13(Dudeist Skdiver) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jbh186 0 #6 April 20, 2009 Oh...I would absolutely love to come to Cross Keys this weekend, but still waiting for the rig to come in. It's a little pricey renting gear at other dz's. edited...keeping my other issues off the internet. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #7 April 20, 2009 Maybe she was trying to use them to create a foundation for your relationship (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Heatmiser 0 #8 April 20, 2009 Then....nope. Make her get rid of them. Or landscape. What you say is reflective of your knowledge...HOW ya say it is reflective of your experience. Airtwardo Someone's going to be spanked! Hopefully, it will be me. Skymama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #9 April 20, 2009 If somebody I lived with made it "very clear it's MY house," I'd move. What kind of relationship is that?? So she brought some rocks home. If you don't want them for anything, maybe she can create a garden and use them around it. If not, tell your neighbor you don't want them and give them back. If that doesn't work, just haul them away and call it a day.Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #10 April 20, 2009 She was thinking "free rocks" for my man. Looks like she ain't gettin no rock from her man. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Beerlight 0 #11 April 20, 2009 Sounds like she was trying to do something nice for you.....albeit in her own way but nothingless, being nice. It's just another one of lifes lessons. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jbh186 0 #12 April 20, 2009 I think they're heading to the pea pit at the dz...they're almost the exact same thing that's there. It's just HOW exactly I'm going to get them there... can't really put the rocks in the trunk of the Lexus... edited cause I can't spell. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #13 April 20, 2009 Time to buy a truck. Man up. rock n roll. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #14 April 20, 2009 Quote I think they're heading to the pea pit at the dz...they're almost the exact same thing that's there. It's just HOW exactly I'm going to get them there...ever can't really put the rocks in the trunk of the Lexus... I'm sure you can find someone at the dz that has a truck. Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #15 April 20, 2009 It's a pile of river rock, not the end of the world. If you basically "flipped the fuck out", I suspect it was really over something more significant but less obvious than a pile of rocks, and you just used them as an excuse to vent. Then again I could be wrong...maybe you're just a bit more tightly strung than most folks. In any case, I'd ask her if she has any ideas for using them, and if not I'd explain the reason why they need to be moved asap, and ask her to help with that effort. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyBastard 0 #16 April 20, 2009 man the fuck up. get rid of the stone and kiss your girlfriend for dealing with YOUR neighbour. get pissed if you like, you'll miss her when she's gone.Dude #320 "Superstitious" is just a polite way of saying "incredibly fucking stupid". DONK! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jbh186 0 #17 April 20, 2009 You hit the nail on the head....it's just one of the many underlying issues...not getting into them on here. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #18 April 20, 2009 Quote In any case, I'd ask her if she has any ideas for using them, Might want to be careful how he asks or he could be looking UP at the pile!! (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Heatmiser 0 #19 April 20, 2009 What's a "pea pit"? We've got a big orange plywood X! http://www.google.com/maps?ie=UTF8&ll=35.064586,-97.893924&spn=0.002239,0.004807&t=h&z=18What you say is reflective of your knowledge...HOW ya say it is reflective of your experience. Airtwardo Someone's going to be spanked! Hopefully, it will be me. Skymama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #20 April 20, 2009 Did you *ask* her why she accepted them?? Maybe the *neighbor* is an asshole & he told her you said you wanted them.. Sounds like maybe he was pushy and she felt uncomfortable & just didn't know what to say.. If I were your girlfriend, living in YOUR house, I certainly wouldn't want to be responsible for getting the neighbor upset.. Sounds like she was in a lose-lose It may be YOUR house, but if you're going to share it's not gentlemanly to keep pointing it out... "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jbh186 0 #21 April 20, 2009 Thanks everyone...at least I now understand where she's coming from with the other issues... On the bright side, they're heading to the dropzone. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nataly 38 #22 April 20, 2009 Quote Edited cause I got my answer...I'm an asshole. Awww.. Just beg for forgiveness and give her *really* good oral "There is no problem so bad you can't make it worse." - Chris Hadfield « Sors le martinet et flagelle toi indigne contrôleuse de gestion. » - my boss Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #23 April 20, 2009 Quote I think they're heading to the pea pit at the dz...they're almost the exact same thing that's there. It's just HOW exactly I'm going to get them there... can't really put the rocks in the trunk of the Lexus... edited cause I can't spell. Hey - do you know the "secret of the peas"?? Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #24 April 20, 2009 ummm sounds to me like you did overreact just a tad bit.... Silent treatment will solve nothing. Talking will definitely help! Good luck with the girlfriend and the rocks. g "Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CSpenceFLY 1 #25 April 20, 2009 Damn people, the quote button is your friend. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
