banesanura 1 #1 January 16, 2009 So I live with two guys. One is a great guy and the other one is quite franky a fucking BUM. When I first moved in he said that he was going to be buying a bed turns out that he's been sleeping on the couch for - the past year. Then I notice my vodka running lower than usual. He drinks my liqour with out replenishing it! Then the cable gets cut off. He hasn't paid the bill even though I gave him money! He doesn't buy toothpaste he uses mine- he doesn't buy shampoo he uses mine. He doesn't clean- my house boys have to. So I've had to litterally hide things in my room so he wouldn't touch them! At this point I don't even know what to do. I'm concerned because he's always drunk or high and I think he needs serious help. I don't care what people do, but its negatively affecting his life and mine. Any advice?!Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #2 January 16, 2009 get one of your house boys to harass him! “Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d_squared431 0 #3 January 17, 2009 talk to him and tell him how you feel about him using your things and not pating the bill. If it doesn't work then tell him to move and find another roommate.TPM Sister#130ONTIG#1 I love vodka.I love vodka cause it rhymes with Tuaca~LisaH You having a clean thought is like billyvance having a clean post.iluvtofly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #4 January 17, 2009 Is his name on the lease? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chiquita24 0 #5 January 17, 2009 My last roommate was kind of similar to this only she was girl and she did have her own bed. But she'd have people over at like 3 am being loud and obnoxious, ate my food, drank my alcohol, used all my shampoo/toothpaste etc. And her cat destroyed my furniture and she told me should would pay me for it and never did. I tried talking to her and it didn't help a whole lot-maybe a little bit. Luckily we both had plans and at the end of our lease that was it-we went our separate ways. So I would try talking to him first and for sure make him get his own bed! That would drive me insane! If that doesn't work, I say kick him out! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #6 January 17, 2009 yeah his name is on the lease. I was thinking about speaking to an attorney who specializes in evictions about kicking him out.Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LongWayToFall 0 #7 January 17, 2009 Tell him not to mess with your crap. If it persists, Nair in the shampoo. Epicac in the liquor. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #8 January 17, 2009 QuoteTell him not to mess with your crap. If it persists, Nair in the shampoo. Epicac in the liquor. Preparation H in the toothpaste tube."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #9 January 17, 2009 I was also going to add bleach to the detergent and write a big DO NOT USE sign on it. If clothes have splotchy stains on it then I know who messed with my shit.Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gonzalesna 0 #10 January 17, 2009 Quote I was also going to add bleach to the detergent and write a big DO NOT USE sign on it. If clothes have splotchy stains on it then I know who messed with my shit. Try this...Some people refrain from beating a dead horse. Personally, I find a myriad of entertainment value when beating it until it becomes a horse-smoothie. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #11 January 17, 2009 Quote Quote I was also going to add bleach to the detergent and write a big DO NOT USE sign on it. If clothes have splotchy stains on it then I know who messed with my shit. Try this... Hey! She gets $500 for doing that to guys with money. You can't expect her to do it for free!"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #12 January 17, 2009 Kinda like this...... This is NSFW!Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #13 January 17, 2009 is that an X of yours? www.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #14 January 17, 2009 Quote is that an X of yours? That is what she does to guys who don't buy her enough shoes and handbags."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #15 January 17, 2009 I think I just found myself a new best friend... Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hypsin 0 #16 January 17, 2009 Quote When I first moved in he said that he was going to be buying a bed turns out that he's been sleeping on the couch for - the past year. Nothing wrong with that - I slept on a couch (even though I had a bed) for 2 yrs - best sleep of my life! Too bad it broke... I say just set up a camera in your room - who knows what else he could be doing to/with your stuff. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #17 January 17, 2009 The key is communication. Just have an honest talk with him. That usually solves the problem. Include the other roommate too, so there isn't a behind-your-back bitch session. Make sure everyone is on the same page. In my last apartment, I had two roommates. Our ground rules were: 1- Your room is your business. 2- Clean the bathroom. 3- Whatever you mess up in the living room or kitchen, you clean. 4- Whoever cooks, the other two clean up. Generally, it is younger people who don't understand cleanliness, courtesy, or respect other peoples boundaries. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 800 #18 January 17, 2009 She could just sell them as "soiled panties" on the interwebbie now! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #19 January 17, 2009 Quote is that an X of yours? Well, I can think of one that I'd like to string up like that and then poke with hot needles for a bit. Oh wait, that's what voodoo dolls are for. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #20 January 17, 2009 Quote Quote is that an X of yours? That is what she does to guys who don't buy her enough shoes and handbags. Nah. I buy my own stuff. That little joke was just when I was married. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #21 January 17, 2009 Quote I think I just found myself a new best friend... Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #22 January 17, 2009 I don't mind people that sleep on the couch but I told him to put it in his room. I bring people over and its weird to have to walk past a sleeping dude on the couch in my living room.Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hypsin 0 #23 January 17, 2009 QuoteI don't mind people that sleep on the couch but I told him to put it in his room. I bring people over and its weird to have to walk past a sleeping dude on the couch in my living room. If he is sleeping in the shared area - I say he is fair play - staples, superglue, perm markers - get creative. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #24 January 17, 2009 QuoteI don't mind people that sleep on the couch but I told him to put it in his room. I bring people over and its weird to have to walk past a sleeping dude on the couch in my living room. You have a list of stuff that bothers you. You should mention it to him. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #25 January 17, 2009 QuoteQuoteI don't mind people that sleep on the couch but I told him to put it in his room. I bring people over and its weird to have to walk past a sleeping dude on the couch in my living room. If he is sleeping in the shared area - I say he is fair play - staples, superglue, perm markers - get creative. handcuffs, ball-gags...."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
