mr_music11 0 #26 November 10, 2008 guy 1)no 2)yes 3)noIf flying is piloting a plane.. then swimming is driving a boat. I know why birds sing.. I skydive. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
caress 0 #27 November 10, 2008 1. yes. My hubby cheated a very long time ago, and I did it right back. So childish- ( He became JW later) 2 Forgetting b-day-etc etc... Hubby is a Jehovahs Witness. So I do not expect him to acknowledge it in the first place. 3. Gone for days w/lame excuse-Got some anyway-Yes-That took place a long time ago too. 10 years ago we stopped all the behavior that led to events like that, and we have never looked back. We have been happy together for 10 + years without that behavior. We have been together for 21 years, married for 18. 4 He has not ever publicly humiliated me ever. It is hard to work through betrayal. It took alot of letting go, and moving forward. We made a pact never to throw the past in each others faces. We were both wrong, and sick. Now we both walk with The Lord. He in his JW way and me in my Lutheran way. We dont even fight about that, I say if he is right, he can teach me his way, and if I am right, I can teach him. Working things out together is both of your job, if you want the relationship that much.-Caress I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fireballgrl 0 #28 November 10, 2008 1. No, I left my ex husband for this very reason 2. No, occasionally an important date will be forgotten but to entirely space out on EVERY important date does not communicate love. 3. No, hasn't ever really been an issue 4. No, again hasn't really been an issue and if it happened, communication would go a long way Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChibiKuma 0 #29 November 10, 2008 Quote 1)Have you ever stayed with a guy after he cheated more than once? Nope....cheated once and I told him to fuck off. Quote 2)Stayed with him even thought he never remembers any b/day,v/day etc.. Never really had that problem.... Quote 3)He doesnt call for days, but when he does gives big excuse and gets laid anyway This is the one I fall for every freakin time....and the dumbest thing is I tell myself "They're an ass and I shouldn't waste my time"......guess I like wasting my time Quote 4) humiliates you in public. If they humiliate me in public i do it right backTPM #131 People are just as the stars....there are bright ones and there are those that are dim. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #30 November 10, 2008 1)Have you ever stayed with a guy after he cheated more than once? Yup 2)Stayed with him even thought he never remembers any b/day,v/day etc.. Expecting a guy to remember that crap is ridiculous. If that stuff is important to you, than it's up to you to remind the guy that your bday, etc is coming up - otherwise it's your own damn fault if you don't get anything. 3)He doesnt call for days, but when he does gives big excuse and gets laid anyway nope 4) humiliates you in public. nope ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TypicalFish 0 #31 November 10, 2008 QuoteGUYS 1) Have you ever purposely treated a woman bad to establish "who is boss". Nope. Does it even work? 2) have you ever treated a woman good only to hear, "your like a brother". Sadly, yes, but I think we were both the better for it. She turned out to be one of my dearest friends. Thankfully she never saw me naked. 3) Have you hurt a womans feelings but knew she will be there when you call. Again, sadly, yes. Though without forethought about getting away with it. "I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
somethinelse 0 #32 November 10, 2008 Yeah, ok, I'll play too. 1) No, not knowingly. 2) Sometimes, Since nobody's perfect, so a lapse once in awhile is understandable, I don't even remember all of my siblings B-days. But if it becomes a pattern, it's a sign of big trouble or disrespect and lack of caring. 3) No... when this happens, no "excuse" really works, since I see 'it' for what it is... and that is either there is somebody else, or he doe not appreciate, value & care about me. Wow. Wild to believe that women/men would willingly and knowingly put up with/do this sort of crap. All of these are wild waving red warning flags, and personally I want, expect and deserve better than having anybody treat me like that, let alone a man I love. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
futuredivot 0 #33 November 11, 2008 Guy 1-yes 2-yes 3-yes At different stages in my lifeYou are only as strong as the prey you devour Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Redline165 0 #34 November 11, 2008 Guy 1. No 2. Yes 3. Yes Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
denete 3 #35 November 11, 2008 QuoteGUYS 1) Have you ever purposely treated a woman bad to establish "who is boss". No. Quote2) have you ever treated a woman good only to hear, "your like a brother". Yes. Quote3) Have you hurt a womans feelings but knew she will be there when you call. Yes. Didn't do it on purpose though.SCR #14809 "our attitude is the thing most capable of keeping us safe" (look, grab, look, grab, peel, punch, punch, arch) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SarahC07 0 #36 November 11, 2008 Ya know what's interesting? Of the 5 people who responded and did NOT repeat all the questions in their response, almost all of them were males. Interesting. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #37 November 11, 2008 Quote Guy 1-yes 2-yes 3-yes At different stages in my life You get a free pass for your yes answer to #1 anyway. Your first wife was really a psycho. "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SuFantasma 0 #38 November 11, 2008 QuoteOk, a few threads here got me to thinking about relationships. Let me start by asking people to be honest. Please put aside your emotions for a moment and just answer the questions honestly. Women say they want a nice guy, but more often than not, nice finishes last, this holds true in bussiness as well by the way. I dont know why but its like your not man or macho enough or maybe women find it boring? Before someone goes postal here, i am not saying this is the way it should be, i am saying its what i have observed. These are my opinions and am only asking out of curiousity and at some points in my life, Frustration. 1)Have you ever stayed with a guy after he cheated more than once? 2)Stayed with him even thought he never remembers any b/day,v/day etc.. 3)He doesnt call for days, but when he does gives big excuse and gets laid anyway 4) humiliates you in public. There are so many others i could ask, but it might be pushing it GUYS 1) Have you ever purposely treated a woman bad to establish "who is boss". 2) have you ever treated a woman good only to hear, "your like a brother". 3) Have you hurt a womans feelings but knew she will be there when you call. 1) Childish 2) Yes, my sisters, I always treat them good , and I will always be their brother 4) Yes, my mother... God bless her, she has always been there Treat all women like your mother, they will love you like your sisterY yo, pa' vivir con miedo, prefiero morir sonriendo, con el recuerdo vivo". - Ruben Blades, "Adan Garcia" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #39 November 11, 2008 QuoteGUYS 1) Have you ever purposely treated a woman bad to establish "who is boss". No. Quote2) have you ever treated a woman good only to hear, "your like a brother". Yes Quote3) Have you hurt a womans feelings but knew she will be there when you call. NoYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #40 November 11, 2008 1)Have you ever stayed with a guy after he cheated more than once? never even stayed with a guy that cheated ONLY once. 2)Stayed with him even thought he never remembers any b/day,v/day etc.. I've never been with someone like this, but I'd rather not be with someone who is that absent minded 3)He doesnt call for days, but when he does gives big excuse and gets laid anyway no 4) humiliates you in public. no thanks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baksteen 84 #41 November 11, 2008 QuoteGUYS 1) Have you ever purposely treated a woman bad to establish "who is boss". 2) have you ever treated a woman good only to hear, "your like a brother". 3) Have you hurt a womans feelings but knew she will be there when you call. 1) Not just no, but HELL no! Every relationship is/should be based among other things on respect. On the other hand, if a woman treats ME like shit (it has happened) I'm outta there. 2) Yes. Usually from women who are like a sister to me. 3) Not to my knowledge, and definitely not on purpose."That formation-stuff in freefall is just fun and games but with an open parachute it's starting to sound like, you know, an extreme sport." ~mom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HeatherObscura 0 #42 November 11, 2008 1. No, but he dumped me for the one he cheated with 2. No, i make sure they dont forget:) 3. It has happened 4. Fuuuck no Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
