stitch 0 #51 November 4, 2008 Quote Quote So . . . blah blah blah . . . What now? Fuck Her! Go O.J. On her ass! Turtle is being a bit extreme. Although, a good anal pounding does usually staighten them out. You have to be agressive in a marriage. Cave-man rules."No cookies for you"- GFD "I don't think I like the sound of that" ~ MB65 Don't be a "Racer Hater" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LOSTandCRAZY 0 #52 November 4, 2008 Yeah, take the high road, then BASE jump off of it, perform a maximum performance, 180 degree turn @ 300 ft., and swoop down upon her ass like Samuel L Jackson said in Pulp Fiction (with your lawyer, though. No OJ shit)."Get these balls!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LOSTandCRAZY 0 #53 November 4, 2008 Quote Quote Quote So . . . blah blah blah . . . What now? Fuck Her! Go O.J. On her ass! Turtle is being a bit extreme. Although, a good anal pounding does usually staighten them out. You have to be agressive in a marriage. Cave-man rules. Yeah, fuck going OJ, go "Ron Jeremy" on her ass(literally?)"Get these balls!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
flyinhi79 0 #54 November 5, 2008 I met with a counselor today and setup another appointment on Friday. It really helped! She advised me to speak with a lawyer but to also not give up just yet. We will see where this goes. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aprilcat 0 #55 November 5, 2008 I feel for you, very self-centered gal you go there. You have kids together, so without reading all your replies, my $.02 is to GO FOR COUPLES COUNSELING. You love her, you both love your kids and even if she's got a roving eye SHE NEEDS to find out why she can't be fair with you. If it takes a counselor to get that out of her, it will be good for her to say it outloud (she probably can't tell herself the truth) and work with it from there, even if you're not going to be in the picture. Good luck to you and your kids and no, you did nothing wrong with going to school and she should appreciate you putting her up first! Good luck~ ~~~April Camelot II, the Electric Boogaloo! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 226 #56 November 5, 2008 Quote I do not recommend or condone how any spouse can go OJ on another. I cannot even condone going Lorena Bobbitt on a spouse. I'm sure at some deeper level, many married people can somewhat understand it. But not condone it. Don't you dare use those sexual innuendos with me - Bucko! I'll condone YOU!I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
somethinelse 0 #57 November 5, 2008 Dude Okay. I see a pattern, the guys are BURN her! And the chicks are, be careful, be fair... blah blah blah But really. From a woman with a different perspective... Dont be so quick to be all nicey-nice about this. I have seen, known, too many guys who go this route, and then after the divorce, and the realilty of how it is, or how things can never be NOW that the divorce is LEGAL and FINAL they realize the mistakes they made by trying to be "too civil" and "reasonable" and end up SORRY that they were not wise- You REALLY need to go for what was is owed and due to you and what you do need NOW! You can go about this and go for it without excess hatred, but Hey, if you do get really angry, hurt, mad or feel hatred now or for awhile, that too is understandable. Get yer head on straight man. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites