drdive 0 #26 October 15, 2008 Quote Quote If I EVER consider getting married again, I trust one of you fine people to please hunt me down and hit me in the head with a brick. That should knock the sense back into me. Can that brick be used other times? IE: Caveman pickup technique? I mean, ya said you watch your drinks... Bolas, you are suck a romantic"We saved your gear. Now you can sell it when you get out of the hospital and upsize!!" "K-Dub" " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
madhatter 0 #27 October 15, 2008 I've got too much on my plate to mess up anybody else's life at the moment. A VERY MERRY UNBIRTHDAY TO YOU!!! D.S # 125 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #28 October 15, 2008 Quote Quote If I EVER consider getting married again, I trust one of you fine people to please hunt me down and hit me in the head with a brick. That should knock the sense back into me. Can that brick be used other times? IE: Caveman pickup technique? I mean, ya said you watch your drinks... Nah...... brick upside the head is for talk of marriage only. Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tmaricle55 0 #29 October 15, 2008 Me. When/if it's meant to be. Muff Brother # 3883, SCR # 14796 ICD # 1 - Pres. Yeah, I noticed and I think it's funny! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrwrong 0 #30 October 15, 2008 Been there done that. Learned the lesson the first time and I don't feel that I ever have to try again. Nothing changes just beacuse she gets a ring on her finger. I love her just as much now as I would if we were married. And btw, it's much more fun to live in sin “The sum of intelligence on the planet is a constant; the population is growing.” - George Bernard Shaw He who dies with the most toys, wins..... dudeist skydiver # 19515 Buy quality and cry once! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #31 October 15, 2008 I am not.... as of Yesterday afternoon... I was for 10 years... will never do it again.... and don't say "never say never".... ya'll can make bets on this never....I don't see the point in it, you can love someone just as much, and be just as committed without having that expensive piece of paper and having to go thru all the BS when it's over.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lauraliscious 0 #32 October 15, 2008 I'm not married....yet. But ask me again in 6 months or so... I would give the reasons why, but I don't want to hijack your thread. Enemiga Rodriguez, PMS #369, OrFun #25, Team Dirty Sanchez #116, Pelt Head #29, Muff #4091 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SuFantasma 0 #33 October 15, 2008 Quote Divorced in 1984. Never looked back and never had any regrets, Kinda miss the easy access to sex sometimes...... Your memory is faulty too....Y yo, pa' vivir con miedo, prefiero morir sonriendo, con el recuerdo vivo". - Ruben Blades, "Adan Garcia" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ChibiKuma 0 #34 October 15, 2008 In a relationship but in no hurry to spend all that money to do "the deed" and then (if it doesn't work out) spend all that money to undo it. If the commitment is there then what is the big deal? TPM #131 People are just as the stars....there are bright ones and there are those that are dim. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tmaricle55 0 #35 October 15, 2008 Quote I'm not married....yet. WHOO HOO... I am so excited for you! Marriage can be a BEAUTIFUL thing with the right person. Both you and Gia, give us great things to look forward to. Seems not everyone feels the same way about a commitment but, it takes a little bit of everyone to make the world go round! Muff Brother # 3883, SCR # 14796 ICD # 1 - Pres. Yeah, I noticed and I think it's funny! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roundcanopy 0 #36 October 15, 2008 I was but had a spinning spouse malfunction and just HAD to cutaway. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #37 October 15, 2008 Quote Shall we list all the reasons why? ... or just discuss why it's working for you? Raises Hand . . . . . . It's because I am selfish and an a-hole.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #38 October 15, 2008 Quote I am not.... as of Yesterday afternoon... Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #39 October 15, 2008 Quote Bolas, you are suck a romantic Intentional or not, it's hilarious. Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
millertime24 8 #40 October 15, 2008 Quote Quote Shall we list all the reasons why? ... or just discuss why it's working for you? Raises Hand . . . . . . It's because I am selfish and an a-hole. Same here. Selfish a-hole. But a very happy, financially stable, do-whatever-I-want selfish a-hole.Muff #5048 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rstanley0312 1 #41 October 15, 2008 I just hear and have recently dealt with the whole.... "you will quit jumping once you have a family" well that may be true which is why I don't want marriage right now because I don't plan on quitting skydiving. I think it is possibly to find a whuffo that understands but once I had kids I think I would think about it even more. Things happen and good people die in skydiving through no fault of their own. I guess I am just selfish because I only want to be responible for me! I do think marriage can be a great thing though. It's just not for me right now..... Blues!! RobLife is all about ass....either you're kicking it, kissing it, working it off, or trying to get a piece of it. Muff Brother #4382 Dudeist Skydiver #000 www.fundraiseadventure.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Darius11 12 #42 October 15, 2008 Not married I simply do not believe in it. I can’t find one reason why people would get married and need a contract…Tax Brake? I am not a player I have been with my girl for 4 years and we have been friends for more then 8. We both do not believe in cohabitation, we do believe in commitment, and a monogamous relationship. The way I always have looked it is this. If you love someone you want him or her to be happy. So if she decides one day she does not want to be with me then I should want her to go, and the same for me. Why try to have a contract to force someone to be with you? How is that love? I will say this. If She decides she wants to get married then I would to make her happy, but to me my commitment is not defined by a piece of paper.I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dreaming13000 1 #43 October 15, 2008 I was for a whole 8 years I am not sure how I feel about marriage now, though my boyfriend recently asked me if I want to date him for 20 years I responded, "only 20?" but the point is, I enjoyed his question of dating indefinately..... as others have pointed out, the paper / contract is only that, paper. The committment, growth and self-less love is where a real "union" is formed after all. "A man only gets in life what he is believing for, nothing more and nothing less" Kenneth Hagen Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airathanas 0 #44 October 15, 2008 I'm not married. I intend on keeping it that way. I've been mutually exclusive with the same guy for 2 years and he doesn't want to get marrried either. Honestly you want to know why I don't want to get married? Because I don't want to get divorced!!!!!! http://3ringnecklace.com/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DFWAJG 4 #45 October 15, 2008 I miss being married. I loved having someone to come home to and to call my husband. I was very proud to have been married. Unfortunately, I was the only one in the marriage. I really hope I find a husband again, with this time, the husband really being into me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #46 October 15, 2008 I'll get married when I'm older. Because then when I promise to spend the rest of my life with one person, it won't be for *that* long. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
galvar2439 0 #47 October 15, 2008 Divorced twice and said all that never again crap. Just living each day and taking care of me and my daughters. Anything after that is up in the air.So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend! Hellfish #782, POPS #10664 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stitch 0 #48 October 15, 2008 Quote I miss being married. I loved having someone to come home to and to call my husband. I was very proud to have been married. Unfortunately, I was the only one in the marriage. I really hope I find a husband again, with this time, the husband really being into me. I'm sure you meet plenty of men where you work that like green jello. "No cookies for you"- GFD "I don't think I like the sound of that" ~ MB65 Don't be a "Racer Hater" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DavidB 0 #49 October 15, 2008 Divorced since 1981. We just couldn't live together. Even tried it after the divorce... Still can't, but we are each others' best friend. Hell, we can even argue politics. I only see her once a year though, as she lives 1300 miles away.When the only tool you have is a hammer, every problem looks like a nail. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stitch 0 #50 October 15, 2008 Nope. For now though, I'm happy being a fool and spoiling the last fascinatingly beautiful woman that rejected me. "No cookies for you"- GFD "I don't think I like the sound of that" ~ MB65 Don't be a "Racer Hater" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
