mamajumps 0 #1 October 14, 2008 Im divorced.... Going thru a wealth of emtions right now, it does suck.... but Im more glad that it is over.... Having a Divorce party this weekend.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrwrong 0 #2 October 14, 2008 With all the respect and so on (I've done that shit as well) I have to CONGRATULATE “The sum of intelligence on the planet is a constant; the population is growing.” - George Bernard Shaw He who dies with the most toys, wins..... dudeist skydiver # 19515 Buy quality and cry once! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #3 October 14, 2008 when mine was done it felt like a ton of bricks was off my shoulders. Doing a "happy dance" for ya! DPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
npgraphicdesign 3 #4 October 14, 2008 Quote Im divorced.... Going thru a wealth of emtions right now, it does suck.... but Im more glad that it is over.... Having a Divorce party this weekend.... Well judging by your post, congratulations are in order, rather than sympathy. So when/where's the party? Are single ridiculously ridiculously good-looking guys invited, as well as newly single women looking for ridiculously ridiculously good-looking guys? If you need entertainment, I'm available. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dreaming13000 1 #5 October 14, 2008 Divorce is one of the hardest things one can ever go through, and there are alot of emotions involved. But you go girl! have a good celebration this weekend, for the beginning of a new chapter! ps. I had saved my bouquet so I did a bouquet burning ceremony at my divorce "celebration"....haha just an idea for ya. here's to blue skies cheers, jess"A man only gets in life what he is believing for, nothing more and nothing less" Kenneth Hagen Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nutz 0 #6 October 14, 2008 When my divorce was final, I don't know, I didn't feel like celebrating, you know? It was a relief. Congrats? "Don't! Get! Eliminated!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cari 0 #7 October 14, 2008 My husband and I had a rough patch where he said he wanted a divorce. I really didn't want it. Then, 6 months after being separated, he decided that he wanted to get things back on track or whatever. Now I'm not so sure that's what I want anymore. I just can't seem to get past the fact that it seemed so easy for him to walk away and barely see our daughter or me. I might be joining the divorce boat soon. I really don't know yet, but things seem to be leaning that way. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #8 October 14, 2008 Quote when mine was done it felt like a ton of bricks was off my shoulders. Doing a "happy dance" for ya! Yeah that's what I feel, it still sucks. We were absolutely no good for each other. And I have an amazing, loving wonderful man now. I am very lucky... but it still sucsk..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #9 October 14, 2008 funny.... I don't recall exactly.... I remember the day I filed (1 day before our 10 year anniversary), more than the day the courts made it official. The marriage (in my eyes) had already been dead for years. I was just happy to have my life back. Congrats and best of luck with your new sweetie!!!! g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DangerRoo 0 #10 October 14, 2008 congrats! I also know how tough it is, but soon enough you will love being single and finding more things you reallly like to do for yourself but might have felt you couldnt before. enjoy your weekend (I.C.D#2 VP) ""I'm good with my purple penis straw" ~sky mama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadiDadi 0 #11 October 14, 2008 My sister got married in Vegas. When she got divorced, my husband and I took her and some friends to Vegas for a week long decadence and debauchery extravaganza. Returning to the scene of the crime so to speak. Celebrate! Just don't do what my sister did the first night - ordering your drinks by color and drinking your way through the spectrum will make for a miserable next day...If you can't laugh at yourself, I'll be happy to do it for you. **************************** Be like the cupcake and suck it up. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
galvar2439 0 #12 October 14, 2008 Quote Im divorced.... Going thru a wealth of emtions right now, it does suck.... but Im more glad that it is over.... Having a Divorce party this weekend.... HA! rookie, the second one is much easier. Enjoy and let it all go.So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend! Hellfish #782, POPS #10664 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #13 October 14, 2008 Quote Quote when mine was done it felt like a ton of bricks was off my shoulders. Doing a "happy dance" for ya! Yeah that's what I feel, it still sucks. We were absolutely no good for each other. And I have an amazing, loving wonderful man now. I am very lucky... but it still sucsk..... it does. but in all honesty it was the best thing i could have done for myself, my peace of mind and for the kids. i am a way better parent now than i was then ----- and so much happier. i knew how bad it was when my oldest son said that he thought it was the best thing i ever did. i think he was tired of watching me cry almost every night. a new chapter in your life has begun - enjoy it, find yourself and what you want to do with your life. my life now is so different, and i am so much happier now than i had ever been in the first 25 years of my life --- very weird in some ways. also found out that the previous relationship was very dysfunctional...where the one i am in now is so amazing.DPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
