wildfan75 1 #1 September 19, 2008 "It will get better over time." Guess what people? It doesn't. One day more is just another day longer that I didn't get to hug him or look into his eyes, another day longer that I didn't get to talk to him or hear him laugh. What's the stupid things you've heard people say? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kbordson 8 #2 September 19, 2008 Quote What's the stupid things you've heard people say? "Just get over it." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CSpenceFLY 1 #3 September 19, 2008 Quote What's the stupid things you've heard people say? "Well, at least they died doing what they loved." All things being equal,if it happens to me, I will be no happier no matter what I was doing when it happened. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JohnMitchell 16 #4 September 19, 2008 Quote "Well, at least they died doing what they loved." No kidding. I don't want to die doing what I love, I want to die doing something I hate, like my taxes or something. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LuckyMcSwervy 0 #5 September 19, 2008 "He's no longer suffering." That was said to me when my younger brother died of a heroin OD in November 2002 - while IN rehab, no less. I'm like, "Yeah, he's no longer suffering because he's fuckng dead, you asshole. Fuck off."Always be kinder than you feel. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GaryRay 0 #6 September 19, 2008 "I like cheese"JewBag. www.jewbag.wordpress.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jac42 0 #7 September 19, 2008 Quote "I like cheese" But i do Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lippy 918 #8 September 19, 2008 Quote "I like cheese" But I say that all the timeI got nuthin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GaryRay 0 #9 September 19, 2008 Quote Quote "I like cheese" But I say that all the time thank you for proving my point ;)JewBag. www.jewbag.wordpress.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #10 September 19, 2008 This may sound stupid, but i try to find a positive side to death in which the other side is way better than here. It's filled with all the good ones we know who got there before us. They are sorry to leave so soon, but they are not sorry they lived life the best they could. One day more is for you to live life the best you can. That's what they would want for you. He is in your heart and you are in his soul. Pretty stupid. I told ya. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The_Don 0 #11 September 19, 2008 Not stupid. good post.I am NOT being loud. I'm being enthusiastic! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dynamicedge 0 #12 September 19, 2008 Fuck I love cheese! Especially when it's melted on stuff! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #13 September 19, 2008 Quote Fuck I love cheese! Especially when it's melted on stuff! hmmm.... I've got some Gouda cheese in the fridge.... be right back! "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GaryRay 0 #14 September 19, 2008 i can give ya some fromunda cheese if you would like.JewBag. www.jewbag.wordpress.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisaH 0 #15 September 19, 2008 I heard a lot of these same things when my brother died. Never once thought they were stupid. Some people are just at a loss for words. Appreciate the gesture, it's the thought that counts. And no, it doesn't get better. It gets easier. Be yourself! MooOOooOoo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tuna-Salad 0 #16 September 19, 2008 "He would of wanted it this way" I cannot think of a specific example but I think some of us have heard that phrase.Millions of my potential children died on your daughters' face last night. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #17 September 19, 2008 This is gonna hurt me more than it hurts you. This is only gonna hurt for a second. Turn your head and cough. Pay no attention to the snap of the rubber glove. I got everything under control. I'm surprised nobody has yet said, "Hold my beer and watch this".My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #18 September 19, 2008 Mostly, people don't say things to hurt us but after a loss, there really isn't anything that they could say that will help and silence wont help either. They just want to easy our pain in the best way that they can. (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dynamicedge 0 #19 September 19, 2008 Ya when my father passed away a few months ago at 60 years old friends told me "It's all part of god's plan". I know they meant well but most of my friends know me enough to know that I don't buy into that type of talk. God's plan blows, but that's life. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Baksteen 84 #20 September 19, 2008 -So... You're washing up then? Er, no - I'm teaching the cutlery how to swim -Can I ask you something? You just did. -Would you mind working this weekend? What do YOU think? -Money doesn't buy happiness Yeah, well - neither does poverty. I'd rather be unhappy and rich. At least I'd get to jump more.. "That formation-stuff in freefall is just fun and games but with an open parachute it's starting to sound like, you know, an extreme sport." ~mom Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billeisele 130 #21 September 19, 2008 Some days you are the windshield Some days you are the bugGive one city to the thugs so they can all live together. I vote for Chicago where they have strict gun laws. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nutz 0 #22 September 19, 2008 Quote Quote What's the stupid things you've heard people say? "Well, at least they died doing what they loved." All things being equal,if it happens to me, I will be no happier no matter what I was doing when it happened. "Its ok" I can't believe I said that. "Don't! Get! Eliminated!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
galvar2439 0 #23 September 19, 2008 In this world, if you are going to be Stupid, you better be tough!So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend! Hellfish #782, POPS #10664 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airathanas 0 #24 September 19, 2008 How about: "This too shall pass." ARGH my mom says that all the time; it's very annoying. What about: "A little pain never hurt anybody." That's BS b/c of course it hurts- that's what pain IS!http://3ringnecklace.com/ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tuna-Salad 0 #25 September 19, 2008 money cant buy happiness - no but it makes misery easier to live withMillions of my potential children died on your daughters' face last night. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites