woady 0 #1 July 2, 2008 I wanted to ask what ya'll thought about this. So yeah, he's going back, he's an MPI, military police investigator ( basically a detective, sorta) and he came home for two weeks. He's 23, young and dumb, and full of...you get the point. He's been dating this girl who's 21 or 22 for about 5 months. When they first started dating he knew it wasn't going to last. He knew he's going back to Iraq and it was just for fun. Within a month they'll have broken up and that'll be the end of it. Its happened before, I guarantee it's going to happen again. So, now, he's back, he's been back for a week and spent practically every second with her and my family and I have only seen him about 3 hours total. My brother-in-law bought my little brother and himself a tandem jump and they haven't had a chance to go jump yet. I wanted to go and at least watch them jump or jump with them. I had planned since he got home for us to jump on a day we can all go, this Thursday afternoon. Low and behold his g/f has all these things planned and wants him to go Wednesday, the day I'll be at the station working 24 that day. He's coming up with excuses about how the weather may be bad, or that skydiving isn't that important to him as it is to me. LOOK at the friggin weather! Its got a 10% chance of raining in Rockmart on Thursday! Besides, this isn't about what I really do love and enjoy, this is about spending time with your family. Its about BROS before HOES! lol. My brother is pussy whipped and a month after he's in Iraq she won't matter any more. What do you think I should say to him? Other than he's needs to get to shots of Jack or Jim, drink one and pour the other on his gapping VAGINA!You know what's similar between Cops and Firefighters? They both wanna be firefighters. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
labrys 0 #2 July 2, 2008 QuoteMy brother is pussy whipped and a month after he's in Iraq she won't matter any more. What do you think I should say to him? Other than he's needs to get to shots of Jack or Jim, drink one and pour the other on his gapping VAGINA! I think you might just let him do his thing and leave it be. He's going to Iraq, not you. Let him spend his time however he wants. Think about whether you're thinking of him or yourself.Owned by Remi #? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kenz 0 #3 July 2, 2008 i would straight up tell him it upsets you that he's making more of an effort to spend all his time with her - it's understandable that he'd want to spend time with her, however it also is important that you guys spend time together- i wouldn't jump down his ass and yell cause that will make him put up some serious defensiveness and good luck from that point - but i would just sit him down and let him know what you're thinking - if you're that bothered by it at least try to let him know - maybe he doesnt realize how frustrated your family is - i don't know it's a tough situation cause as the last poster said it is his time - but as his sibling you are entitled to time too good luck"life does throw curveballs sometimes but it doesn't mean we shouldn't still swing for the homerun" ~ me Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydemon2 0 #4 July 2, 2008 I think you should slap him around and let him know you and the family want to spend some time with him skydiving or not. Its not like hes going to a stateside base, he is going to iraq and nothing sucks more than brothers not coming back from there. So see him every chance you can. Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes clean to the bone! I like to start my day off with a little Ray of Soulshine™!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
woady 0 #5 July 2, 2008 I agree with what ya'll have said. It's his time and he should do what he wants, but I know my bro, and I know he'll regret not spending enough time with his family. Besides, he knows if he doesn't I'll punch him square in the testicles. Its in the brother hand book I got when he came home from the hospital. Rules are rules.You know what's similar between Cops and Firefighters? They both wanna be firefighters. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydemon2 0 #6 July 2, 2008 He should do what he wants but as you said family first, if he doesnt get it then deliver the swift punch to the testicle region. Rules are rules, he is in the frickin military, he should understand that.... Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes clean to the bone! I like to start my day off with a little Ray of Soulshine™!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GaryRay 0 #7 July 2, 2008 i know where he is coming from and sadly it will just take him a heartbreak or 2 to figure out what is really important. that and when you go to iraq for a while it sucks not getting laid at all, or seeing any good looking girls. just keep pushing the issue and make sure he knows that family is important as well as girls, but also dont kick him out of the house....JewBag. www.jewbag.wordpress.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lilDevil 2 #8 July 2, 2008 Quotei know where he is coming from and sadly it will just take him a heartbreak or 2 to figure out what is really important. that and when you go to iraq for a while it sucks not getting laid at all, or seeing any good looking girls. just keep pushing the issue and make sure he knows that family is important as well as girls, but also dont kick him out of the house.... Let him do what he wants to do, you have no idea whats going through his head about going back to Iraq, if he wants to spend his time humping then let him, he need to know hi family love him and will support him. But I also understand what your family is feeling, the two weeks before my SO went over all he wanted to do was drink, he totaly lost his sex drive, didnt make me feel good, but you dont know whats going on in his head.``````````````````````````````````` " Cant keep a good woman down " Angels have wings, but devils can fly ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
auburnguy 0 #9 July 2, 2008 just remember this.... vaginas are magical."If you don't like your job, you don't strike! You just go in every day, and do it really half assed. That's the American way." - Homer Simpson Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #10 July 2, 2008 Quote just remember this.... vaginas are magical. Yes, EVIL magic. Funny how one little vagina can make men do all sorts of crazy things. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 140 #11 July 2, 2008 Quote this is about spending time with your family. Its about BROS before HOES! get him to the DZ, do the tandem, and after that share a 3 way with him and his girlfriend. scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #12 July 2, 2008 Patrick, you answered your own question when you said, "He's 23, young and dumb, and full of...you get the point." The guy's whipped alright and there's little to nothing you can do about it. The shot to the testicles won't even slow him down. Give the guy a break, eh? Maybe you could switch shifts with someone? Trying to compete with a vagina opens up second place at best. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RkyMtnHigh 0 #13 July 2, 2008 Tell him how much you love him. You'll be glad you did. _________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
woady 0 #14 July 2, 2008 Quote Quote this is about spending time with your family. Its about BROS before HOES! get him to the DZ, do the tandem, and after that share a 3 way with him and his girlfriend. Puts a whole new meaning to "Brotherly Love". They got their tandems a few months back at ASC, but I've been jumping at STF. I really want them jumping at STF but ASC doesn't do refunds. If they went to STF, THEN I could get my lvl 7 in while they did their tandems. :DYou know what's similar between Cops and Firefighters? They both wanna be firefighters. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #15 July 2, 2008 Some brother you are. Brothers don't let brothers jump at Skyride. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hausse 0 #16 July 2, 2008 Want some vagisil dude? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piisfish 140 #17 July 2, 2008 QuoteWant some vagisil dude?is that a Vigil set in Vagina mode ?scissors beat paper, paper beat rock, rock beat wingsuit - KarlM Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #18 July 2, 2008 QuoteI wanted to ask what ya'll thought about this.hrm... I think you need to relax and realize that he is your brother he isn't you for example my entire famly knows they are welcome to come out and jump whenever they would like to including my own older brother... the fact that none of them have chosen to do so... is just fine with me. I agree that family is very important... but that's why it should be just fine for your brother to go off and do what HE wants to do in lieu of doing what you want him to do.Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
woady 0 #19 July 2, 2008 Quote Want some vagisil dude? Can I use some of yours?But only if you'll put it on for me.You know what's similar between Cops and Firefighters? They both wanna be firefighters. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hausse 0 #20 July 2, 2008 What I meant was harden the fuck up. Your brother is getting laid so go out and find somebody to screw with yourself. Then everybody is happy... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
woady 0 #21 July 2, 2008 QuoteWhat I meant was harden the fuck up. Your brother is getting laid so go out and find somebody to screw with yourself. Then everybody is happy... Forgive me if I would actually like to see my brother before he leaves again for a year. Last time he was there he ran over a IED which blew his tires off and got shot at, luckily he was alright other than the therapy thing. Don't get me wrong, I'm all about my brother getting laid and all but family needs to be thrown in there somewhere.You know what's similar between Cops and Firefighters? They both wanna be firefighters. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hausse 0 #22 July 2, 2008 I only see my family once a year too, so I know how it is but honestly, I would never even consider telling my sister to stop seeing her boyfriend to do something with me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mnealtx 0 #23 July 2, 2008 QuoteI only see my family once a year too, so I know how it is but honestly, I would never even consider telling my sister to stop seeing her boyfriend to do something with me. While I understand your point, it's an ENTIRELY different situation - look at where his brother is going.Mike I love you, Shannon and Jim. POPS 9708 , SCR 14706 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #24 July 2, 2008 Perhaps my brother and I have a different kind of relationship because if that were us I'd just tell my bro that I as well as the family want to spend some time with him (without her) before he deploys. Relationships aren't really as complicated as we make them out to be.www.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
woady 0 #25 July 3, 2008 She's working the day we originally planned too so all the more reason to go too, but I think it was about her wanting to go and he was trying to go when she could and that was the day I couldn't. I'm cool with her being around our family when we are spending time together, my whole family has said that too, but he's simply not spending as much time as we'd like (being more than 3 hours in two weeks).You know what's similar between Cops and Firefighters? They both wanna be firefighters. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
