Slappie 9 #101 June 20, 2008 Make her look like this! http://www.raspydesign.com/bloodyangie4.jpg "Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JoeyRamone 0 #102 June 20, 2008 Bang her mom if you can. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RhondaLea 4 #103 June 20, 2008 QuoteWhat would you guys do if you went to a boogie and on Saturday night in the middle of the party your girlfriend who you came with wandered off for a few hours and you couldn't find her and then the next day she admitted to hooking up with some guy who you know and knew that you two were together and did it anyway? Dump them both. There is no justification for cheating in a relationship. If there were issues in the relationship which your girlfriend brought to your attention, and you refused to work on those issues, she certainly would be justified in ending the relationship. She would not be justfied in abusing you, yet that's exactly what she did. If you allow someone to treat you abusively at the outset, the relationship will only become more abusive as time goes on. Don't stand for it. (Note: In a long-term, committed relationship, people sometimes falter, and there may be good reason(s) to work it out, to rebuild trust, to stay. That doesn't apply here.)If you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airdvr 210 #104 June 20, 2008 QuoteQuoteQuoteNo way either of these excuses are remotely acceptable. They can be filed right behind - I was drunk. I disagree. It takes two people to make a relationship and two people to break a relationship. If she was blissfully happy, there would have been no reason for her to cheat. If she was unhappy, she should have been talking to him about it rather than bumping uglies with his friend. +1Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RastaRicanAir 0 #105 June 21, 2008 Quote It takes two people to make a relationship Yes it does. Quote and two people to break a relationship. No it ABSOLUTELY F*CKING DOES NOT! Really, Andrea, is someone of your wisdom and life experience saying that every person who was ever f*cked over by an ex- was 50% responsible for it?! Even if you yourself have never been blindsided out of a relationship where you thought everything was going pretty well, I'm sure you wouldn't have to poll too many of your girlfriends -or guy friends- to find a hefty percentage who have. Quote If she was blissfully happy, there would have been no reason for her to cheat. However, that is a fantastic rationale! I just might use that the next time I'm not "blissfully happy" with my poker hand, or my monthly salary, or the way my tired old Talon looks sitting next to someone else's brand new Mirage in an empty hangar. Imagine how much more plush life would be if I had a legitimate "reason" to cheat my poker buddies out of their money, embezzle funds from my employer, or walk off with another jumper's hard earned gear! "Sorry, I violated your trust and stabbed you in the back f*cker, but I was feeling not-so-blissful".Andrea, please tell me that you accidentally left your laptop logged on and these comments were actually posted by some half-drunk post-adolescent girl, because I'm slack-jawed wondering where your notorious and admirable sensibility just went. I mean, maybe I missed a couple articles in Cosmo, but at what point in a not-quite-"blissful" relationship does it become acceptable to throw trust, respect, and simple decency out the window (...Or, in this case, probably out the tent flap) rather than addressing the situation like a respectful adult? And like most men, the longer I live the less I understand women, but exactly what sort of missing "emotional fulfillment" would a woman be able to recapture by f*cking her partner's "friend" while her partner's 150 yards away looking for her? Perhaps I misunderstand the essence of your Dad's sage advice, but does looking at someone and asking: "Pardon me, but why did you f*ck that friend of mine at that boogie I took you to?" really qualify as "finger pointing?" Yeah, I know I'm just an old-fashioned old fart, and personal accountability went out of vogue in this society about the same time as really hot McDonald's coffee, but my Dad had charming little maxims he passed down to me as well. His favorite was: "the two lowest things you can be in this world are a thief and a damned liar." By my calculations cheating requires a person to be both of those things, and a coward to boot.OrFunV/LocoBoca Rodriguez/Sonic Grieco/Muff Brother #4411 -"and ladies....messin with Robbie is venturing into territory you cant even imagine!-cuz Robbie is Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #106 June 21, 2008 +1“Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Beerlight 0 #107 June 21, 2008 Quote she sounds like she's sorry, or at least says that. but ya gottawonder if she's just saying that so i won't be mad at her and how long til she does it again. doin shit again is easier than doin it the first time. not sure I can trust her anymore, she did this once, ya smell me? She did it once, she will do it again. Well, probably, maybe......more than likely.....who knows.....Anyway, sorry. But that's just the facts of life. But, you wanna still give it a try that's cool. I definitely wouldn't go back in with throttles set on 100% though......... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RastaRicanAir 0 #108 June 21, 2008 Quote She did it once, she will do it again. .... (To paraphrase the King of the Delta Blues, Robert Johnson.) As far as giving someone advice on whether or not to re-build their fractured relationship. F*ck that! I know better! All I can say is if you decide to stick it out, just expect it to be harder than you ever expected it to be. Even after you've recovered from the initial hurt, humiliation, anger and disgust, you'll have to consider how you're going to feel the next 50 times you turn around at a boogie and she's just wandered off to the bathroom. (Not to mention the next time you find yourself and the both of them standing around the same bonfire!) Trust isn't impossible to regain, just damned near so.OrFunV/LocoBoca Rodriguez/Sonic Grieco/Muff Brother #4411 -"and ladies....messin with Robbie is venturing into territory you cant even imagine!-cuz Robbie is Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StreetScooby 5 #109 June 21, 2008 Quote Was it OK to see other people? Sounds like there was more than just "seeing" involved here...We are all engines of karma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpin_Jan 1 #110 June 21, 2008 In addition to my previous comments consider this; Since they snuck off she may have shit on the other fucker too, by spilling the beans. Sounds to me like some seriously tainted pussy. Name and shame, everyone on the DZ deserves to know what to expect from either of them. The same goes for anyone who aided and abetted. PULL! jumpin_Jan"Dangerous toys are fun but ya could get hurt" -- Vash The Stampede Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StreetScooby 5 #111 June 21, 2008 Quote Dump her asap. Yep.We are all engines of karma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StreetScooby 5 #112 June 21, 2008 Quote THERES ONLY ONE WAY TO HANDLE THIS, WATCH BELOW.....!!!! LAO!!!We are all engines of karma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #113 June 21, 2008 Pass her around, and recycle afterwards. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
denete 3 #114 June 21, 2008 Quote If you are bigger/badder and have better flying skills you could invite him on a 2 way every time you see him. I would totally mind fuck them as they are doing/did to you! I'm sure there's no revenge in the accidental "2-way-free-flying-heads-down-dock-on-his-reserve-handle" trick. SCR #14809 "our attitude is the thing most capable of keeping us safe" (look, grab, look, grab, peel, punch, punch, arch) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
denete 3 #115 June 21, 2008 Quote If I break if off with a chick I will send her to you. Twisted images of the movie Se7en are popping into my head. Quote What about if I break it off with a guy? Damn. You and Lorena Bobbitt need to start a support group. SCR #14809 "our attitude is the thing most capable of keeping us safe" (look, grab, look, grab, peel, punch, punch, arch) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #116 June 21, 2008 The only thing that's missing from this is Dennis Miller's. "Of course, that's just my opinion, and I could be wrong..." Seriously dude, I was hoping just for you that you wouldn't have seen this one... Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happythoughts 0 #117 June 21, 2008 (To no one in particular) Ok. Somebody got cheated on, in a fairly stupid fashion. Person A treated Person B fairly poorly. However, even in jest, people are suggesting stupid stuff. Time to let it go. If a person wants a relationship with certain definitions, then they need to walk away from people like this. That said, people will continue to be deceived and hurt by others. You don't get any clearer signals of future behavior than this. People sometimes want revenge because of pain. That never works. Besides, for a person who self-destructs value in their life, living their own life is the worst possible outcome. In this situation, it is best to walk away, have dinner with friends, see a movie. Live life as it should be and not try to fix the unfixable situation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpin_Jan 1 #118 June 21, 2008 Quote Quote If you are bigger/badder and have better flying skills you could invite him on a 2 way every time you see him. I would totally mind fuck them as they are doing/did to you! I'm sure there's no revenge in the accidental "2-way-free-flying-heads-down-dock-on-his-reserve-handle" trick. I wouldn't ever fuck with somebodys reserve in the air. If he had a mal he would be severely limited in his options. I don't even joke about reserves, I'm a rigger and take it very seriously. If there are witnesses the USPA will drop your membership and pull ratings. (it happened in Quincy in '94 or '95) I agree it _IS_ an option, just not one I would recommend. PULL! jumpin_Jan"Dangerous toys are fun but ya could get hurt" -- Vash The Stampede Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JoeyRamone 0 #119 June 21, 2008 Move the hell on you are letting this whore rent way too much space in your head. A ton more good ladies out their that will love you and be loyal. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #120 June 21, 2008 would you introduce me to one!?“Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
banesanura 1 #121 June 21, 2008 Sell her panties lingere to men via the internet. hahahah. you could make quite a chunk of change. Take your next girlfriend out to a nice dinner with that money.Best Girl Scout Ever. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
caress 0 #122 June 21, 2008 Walk away from both.-Caress I've learned.... That being kind is more important than being right. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
downwardspiral 0 #123 June 21, 2008 Quote would you introduce me to one!? Is meeting women the problem or getting them to like you enough to go out on a date? Finding a girlfriend is very similar to finding a job... I mean employment. www.FourWheelerHB.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #124 June 21, 2008 Quote Make her look like this! http://www.raspydesign.com/bloodyangie4.jpg Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 798 #125 June 22, 2008 ummm...ewwwww....just ewwww!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
