Damn! They are ALWAYS taken!

[tigra 0]

You implied that being a "homewrecker" didn't necessarily involve intent or a conscious act, as if its just a consequence of someone's looks and/ or personality. That's what I call BS on. And, also, it takes two to tango. Isn't the person that is actually cheating the real homewrecker?

[MarkM 0]

4. Realize that his shit still stinks. You're only into him because you can't have him and find out what an ass he is. And that you should move on to the next available guy.

[Shotgun 1]

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And I'm telling you, whether it's biological, visual, olfactory, or otherwise, that alot (if not all) of us are susceptible to temptation, especially if it has a Brazilian.

This kind of Brazilian?

[chuckakers 426]

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Naturally in my array of human selection I find that the ones that have piqued my interest always have a girlfriend or in a "complicated" relationship.

Questions are:

1. Do you tell them you are interested, meanwhile? Or resume the "friend" role?

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Get him drunk so he'll do something with you he'll regret in the morning. Then, push the issue with his girlfriend, saying he obviously doesn't want her since he was fooling around with you. After that, dissappear for a couple weeks. While you're gone, he and the girlfriend will very likely break up, but you won't be around to catch any crap during the firefight. Now show back up in the picture, save the day by being the shoulder he needs so badly, and ride off together in the sunset.***

2. Once and IF they become available- if you are taken- break up with your current boyfriend/girlfriend?

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Yer thinkin' too far ahead, gurl. This ain't chess. Besides, it depends who makes more money.***

3. You are going to visit them soon- but have to hold back your feelings, and its killing you- how do you alleviate this?

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see answer #1

Hope this helps,

Dr. Goodlove

[Gato 0]

I'm sorry, that wasn't the intent. I agree that it takes two to tango, and yes, I suppose the person who cheats is the real homewrecker.

But I have met quite a few people (I was a bartender for a few years, and you hear about this shit) who found themselves in situations they didn't intend. Of course, when the time came, they CHOSE to take their clothes off, and there is clearly conscious intention behind that act.

However, who you are attracted to, who you develop love for, is not a choice. It just happens. I'm not excusing bad behavior, please understand. People who are not secure in their current relationship are more vulnerable to temptation, and I happen to think men are more likely to wonder if the grass really is greener on the other side.

I heard Jim Carrey say this, once: "Madness is as close as saying yes to the wrong impulse."

T.I.N.S.

[Gato 0]

Gosh, he must work out.

T.I.N.S.

[banesanura 1]

Okay so I am going to patent a book called

"confessions of a skydiver"

And have all of life's question's answered by skydivers all over the world.



Man- that would brain wash young adults everywhere.
Or make for a HILARIOUS reality show.

Best Girl Scout Ever.

[mnealtx 0]

Mike
I love you, Shannon and Jim.
POPS 9708 , SCR 14706

[LisaH 0]

Be yourself!
MooOOooOoo

[Conundrum 1]

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2. Once and IF they become available- if you are taken- break up with your current boyfriend/girlfriend?

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Um... no. That'd be pretty fucked up.

I guess that depends on the quality and time of the current relationship, but it's better than cheating.

[McBeth 0]

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Don't try so hard to "establish" yourself.

Let life happen.

I think that is the best advice in this thread.

[RastaRicanAir 0]

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I'm with Tigra and Shotgun on this; just because a guy is talking to me, I'm not going to assume he's hitting on me. Seems a little egotistical, some people are just friendly!

.....................but you're wrong.

OrFunV/LocoBoca Rodriguez/Sonic Grieco/Muff Brother #4411
-"and ladies....messin with Robbie is venturing into territory you cant even imagine!-cuz Robbie is

[stitch 0]

I'm sorry. I'm saving myself for someone else.

"No cookies for you"- GFD
"I don't think I like the sound of that" ~ MB65
Don't be a "Racer Hater"

[skybytch 273]

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I guess that depends on the quality and time of the current relationship, but it's better than cheating.

Playing with someone's emotions by dating them and then dumping them if something "better" comes along isn't fucked up?

[Bolas 5]

Treat others as you yourself wish to be treated...

Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting
If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh.

[Bolas 5]

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I'm with Tigra and Shotgun on this; just because a guy is talking to me, I'm not going to assume he's hitting on me. Seems a little egotistical, some people are just friendly!

.....................but you're wrong.

C'mon now, after it's determined there's no chance, we can be social and platonic with hot women.

Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting
If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh.

[Conundrum 1]

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I guess that depends on the quality and time of the current relationship, but it's better than cheating.

Playing with someone's emotions by dating them and then dumping them if something "better" comes along isn't fucked up?

I would respect someone more for breaking it off with me to be with someone else than cheating on me or staying with me but not wanting to be with me.

[kbordson 8]

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I'm with Tigra and Shotgun on this; just because a guy is talking to me, I'm not going to assume he's hitting on me. Seems a little egotistical, some people are just friendly!

.....................but you're wrong.

Come on now... I have LOTS of male friends. OK... some of them truly are gay. And others do know that both I and my husband can hit a man sized target at a thousand yards. But... I rarely feel "hit on" and never assume that the guy is just talking to me cuz he wants to "get jiggy."

Men CAN be gentlemen.

[turtlespeed 226]

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Come on now... I have LOTS of male friends. OK... some of them truly are gay. And others do know that both I and my husband can hit a man sized target at a thousand yards. But... I rarely feel "hit on" and never assume that the guy is just talking to me cuz he wants to "get jiggy."

Men CAN be gentlemen.

We haven't met, have we?

I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

[ACMESkydiver 0]

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I'm sorry. I'm saving myself for someone else.

-A chick with a ____?
Cool! So is the OP, y'all should compare notes.

~Jaye
Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action.

[cocheese 0]

Take me for example.

[banesanura 1]

Hmmmm...

I had an interesting conversation with a few coworkers today about society and male vs. female roles in dating.

I tend to have the stereotypical "male" role.
I like the conquest-the challenge-and of course the spoils of war. Now, don't take this as me trying to hook up with people that are attached- thats too much drama- way too messy. And I don't feel like getting shanked or stalked hahaha.

I just enjoy people who are "out of my league" per say.


So question to every one:
Is there really a boundry that separates people from society that makes some one really "unattainable" (this question only implies people that are single)

Does social status really impact the demographic of people you generally date?

I remember my mother telling me "love Is wonderful but it doesn't pay the bills" (advising me to marry a rich man)

Best Girl Scout Ever.

[Squeak 17]

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I just enjoy people who are "out of my league" per say.


So question to every one:
Is there really a boundry that separates people from society that makes some one really "unattainable" (this question only implies people that are single)

Does social status really impact the demographic of people you generally date?

Only if you allow it, it has a lot more to do with confidence and perserverance than status.
However there are those so shallow as to only stay within a a particular bracket for status reasons

You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

[flyawaygirl78 0]

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You poor poor girl...

I have a whole suitcase full of them! I have discovered that most men (excluding my boyfriend of course) are not worth the headaches they cause.

Bob's come with many benefits:
1) they only want it when you do
2) they dont bitch when you get off and wanna stop
3) you dont have to put up with them in the rest of your life
4) no bullshit included, no arguing, etc etc
5) BOB will NEVER cheat on you
6) batteries are cheaper than most men...
7) BOB's come in a wide variety and sizes, you go for men like that and you get a nasty label attached to your ass
8)BOB's dont transmit STD's

HAHAHA; Agreed w/ya on all of it completely girl!! I too have a whole treasure trove of BOB's and they are so much better than having to deal w/the bs of stupid men!!!

"Sex.... It's just like cuddling - only damper."
Flying Hellfish#695
Muff Brother#3885
Rodriguez Brother#1526-Tronca Rodriguez

[RastaRicanAir 0]

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I remember my mother telling me "love Is wonderful but it doesn't pay the bills" (advising me to marry a rich man)

You think we may have just hit a little closer to the hypothetical source of your hypothetical relationship issues?

OrFunV/LocoBoca Rodriguez/Sonic Grieco/Muff Brother #4411
-"and ladies....messin with Robbie is venturing into territory you cant even imagine!-cuz Robbie is