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You folks are gonna love this, I was getting ready this morning and found out i have to fly to Belgium for a few days, thats just the way it goes with me and my schedule.
So looking for flights and a get a call from the crazy engineer's friend, the therapist. I answered because i did not know the number and it could be a customer. So anyway she tells me she is worried about her friend and me, She wants us to meet. I tell her i am going out of town and of course, BLAH, blah,blah about running from problems.
I politely told her to never call again and tell her friend never call again. I asked her if they were in high school still. Whats next? A note that says "do you like Me" check yes or no.
MY GOD, these two hens have jumped off the crazy meter and started a whole new level of crazy. Damn i had to cut away from one, now i have to use my hook knife to chop the reserve. Oh shit this freefall is gonna hurt!
So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend!

Hellfish #782, POPS #10664

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Maybe you could go to a session and do them both.:D



I would have to close my eyes, tape thier mouths shut and then maybe........ Ok, you saw right through that didn't ya!
So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend!

Hellfish #782, POPS #10664

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Reading this I feel as though I missed something, like maybe the rest of the story........:S Nothing like coming in at the middle of the movie and not knowing WTF is going on......



Bobbi



Ck out my earlier post, Page 2 or 3 by know, same title
So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend!

Hellfish #782, POPS #10664

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So let me get this straight.
You met a girl who was great.
You clearly defined the rules of engagement in that you told here that you were out of town a lot, enjoy your skydiving and that the relationship was ‘friends with benefits’.
In other words you were having you cake and eating.
The (not girlfriend / boyfriend relationship) carries on for a few months, at which point she clearly thinks you are the bomb and want more commitment and to wrap you up in cotton wool.
She tells you, you bolt, she then tells here mate (who happens to be a therapist).
Here mate likes the sound of what she hears and clearly wants a ‘friends with benefits’ relationship with you as well now.

The way I see it you have a number of opportunities:

You could continue a perpetual cycle of networking through your ‘friend with benefits’ relationship mantra.

Or you could just do it all in one great big Benefit party for Friends. Get em all to bring a friend and form an orderly Q. And then that will be then end of it.

You clearly have some magic or Lynx effect on women. B|

If you ever franchise what you do to women or want to share the secret, please please let me know.

BP
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So let me get this straight.
You met a girl who was great.
You clearly defined the rules of engagement in that you told here that you were out of town a lot, enjoy your skydiving and that the relationship was ‘friends with benefits’.
In other words you were having you cake and eating.
The (not girlfriend / boyfriend relationship) carries on for a few months, at which point she clearly thinks you are the bomb and want more commitment and to wrap you up in cotton wool.
She tells you, you bolt, she then tells here mate (who happens to be a therapist).
Here mate likes the sound of what she hears and clearly wants a ‘friends with benefits’ relationship with you as well now.

The way I see it you have a number of opportunities:

You could continue a perpetual cycle of networking through your ‘friend with benefits’ relationship mantra.

Or you could just do it all in one great big Benefit party for Friends. Get em all to bring a friend and form an orderly Q. And then that will be then end of it.

You clearly have some magic or Lynx effect on women. B|

If you ever franchise what you do to women or want to share the secret, please please let me know.

BP
:)



You are very wise i see grasshopper. I think these two just have issues beyond help. I like all my body parts right where they are, I dont know how to sleep with one eye open.
So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend!

Hellfish #782, POPS #10664

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Well, I don't go along with the all women are crazy crowd, but you sure found a couple that qualify.


I am sure Engineer lady put her up to it, (MAybe?) but i think iether way, Its Choppy time! (But that little Devil is sitting on my shoulder screaming at me to be evil! OH SHIT the devil just shot the Angel on the other shoulder! HELP ME!) :):):):):)
So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend!

Hellfish #782, POPS #10664

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Try and put yourself in your shoe's in a years's time thinking back on this whole buisiness. What would make you feel better, having the strength to walk away and put it down to experience.

Or obtaining some retribution.

Do what you think you'll feel proudest of.

BP
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Maybe you could go to a session and do them both.:D

I'm thinking a session with the both of them could have him, on the side of a milk carton:ph34r::ph34r::ph34r:
You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
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Honestly, on some level you're as nuts as both of the women in your story since you think it's appropriate to ridicule and humiliate them both on a public forum... it makes your behavior appear to an outsider as every bit as juvenile as theirs is.

If you don't want to attract crazy immature women, don't act like a crazy immature guy, at least when it comes to interpersonal relationships. :P


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Honestly, on some level you're as nuts as both of the women in your story since you think it's appropriate to ridicule and humiliate them both on a public forum... it makes your behavior appear to an outsider as every bit as juvenile as theirs is.

If you don't want to attract crazy immature women, don't act like a crazy immature guy, at least when it comes to interpersonal relationships. :P



Humiliate huh? Do you know their names? Were names ever mentioned? If not then how, exactly, is anyone being humiliated?
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Maybe you could go to a session and do them both.:D

I'm thinking a session with the both of them could have him, on the side of a milk carton:ph34r::ph34r::ph34r:


when the first person resorts to a theripists (friend muchless), its past time for the LEGAL restraining order.... I smell "FATAL ATTRACTION" in its most wickedless form!!

dude, when you go overseas, HIDE OUT for a years and maybe just maybe it will all go away! That downside of all this that you are a skydiver, and in small community, we are easy to find.... But then we are all FAMILY, and I am sure that your siblings here would cover your a$$ for yazzzzz...

In the meantime, get on that JET ASAP and lay low man....

peace and WATCH your backs peoples....
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There is no such thing as "friends with benefits." If she lets you hit it then she likes you....for the most part. I'm betting you gave her some before you ever established guidelines which is always a big mistake. Women are allowed their crazy moments as all people have them whether they're male or female. Perhaps a little patience, understanding, and maturity was in order but I fear your situation is irrepairable. She's hurt and you have to live with that.

I've hurt women in my past due to similar circumstances and I reasoned they were just crazy. Years later I realized they weren't crazy....I was an asshole and I now have to live with that.

Women deserve better.
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You folks are gonna love this, I was getting ready this morning and found out i have to fly to Belgium for a few days, thats just the way it goes with me and my schedule.



Take your pet bunny with you on the trip.[:/]
Don't leave the poor thing home alone.
"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones.

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Honestly, on some level you're as nuts as both of the women in your story since you think it's appropriate to ridicule and humiliate them both on a public forum... it makes your behavior appear to an outsider as every bit as juvenile as theirs is.

If you don't want to attract crazy immature women, don't act like a crazy immature guy, at least when it comes to interpersonal relationships. :P



Just sittin in the airport ready to go on my long flight and thought i would peak at this thread. I was venting my frustrations here with fellow skydivers. On some level we are all nuts, no one has denied that. My actions are not imature nor have i humiliated anyone. If you had this woman standing next to you, would you know it? Sounds like you need to get laid! OH! i think that may have been an imature statement. Now go Jump.

Humiliate huh? Do you know their names? Were names ever mentioned? If not then how, exactly, is anyone being humiliated?

So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend!

Hellfish #782, POPS #10664

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Try and put yourself in your shoe's in a years's time thinking back on this whole buisiness. What would make you feel better, having the strength to walk away and put it down to experience.

Or obtaining some retribution.

Do what you think you'll feel proudest of.

No worries mate, wont see or speak to iether of them again. Age does have its advantages some times.

BP
:)


So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend!

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There is no such thing as "friends with benefits." If she lets you hit it then she likes you....for the most part. I'm betting you gave her some before you ever established guidelines which is always a big mistake. Women are allowed their crazy moments as all people have them whether they're male or female. Perhaps a little patience, understanding, and maturity was in order but I fear your situation is irrepairable. She's hurt and you have to live with that.

I've hurt women in my past due to similar circumstances and I reasoned they were just crazy. Years later I realized they weren't crazy....I was an asshole and I now have to live with that.

Women deserve better.



Women are great, i have two daughters, three sisters and 14 aunts, grew up with women all around. I am very upfront, honest and dont play games. The rule were made very clear and then the rule suddenly change, now i shouldn't skydive or travel because that ia what she thinks i should do? My company does work all over the world, so to please her i should just quit? Kind Sir, I too once was a huge asshole, this is not the case, When i simply said no more thanks, she would not take no for answer, no yelling , screaming or other. Life is too short to have another person tell you how to live it.
So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend!

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There is no such thing as "friends with benefits." If she lets you hit it then she likes you....for the most part. I'm betting you gave her some before you ever established guidelines which is always a big mistake. Women are allowed their crazy moments as all people have them whether they're male or female. Perhaps a little patience, understanding, and maturity was in order but I fear your situation is irrepairable. She's hurt and you have to live with that.

I've hurt women in my past due to similar circumstances and I reasoned they were just crazy. Years later I realized they weren't crazy....I was an asshole and I now have to live with that.

Women deserve better.



Women are great, i have two daughters, three sisters and 14 aunts, grew up with women all around. I am very upfront, honest and dont play games. The rule were made very clear and then the rule suddenly change, now i shouldn't skydive or travel because that ia what she thinks i should do? My company does work all over the world, so to please her i should just quit? Kind Sir, I too once was a huge asshole, this is not the case, When i simply said no more thanks, she would not take no for answer, no yelling , screaming or other. Life is too short to have another person tell you how to live it.


I'm not saying you should please her. Just have some empathy. This woman obviously cares for you and isn't handling it right. Perhaps labeling her "crazy" isn't very healthy for either one of you.
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There is no such thing as "friends with benefits." If she lets you hit it then she likes you....for the most part. I'm betting you gave her some before you ever established guidelines which is always a big mistake. Women are allowed their crazy moments as all people have them whether they're male or female. Perhaps a little patience, understanding, and maturity was in order but I fear your situation is irrepairable. She's hurt and you have to live with that.

I've hurt women in my past due to similar circumstances and I reasoned they were just crazy. Years later I realized they weren't crazy....I was an asshole and I now have to live with that.

Women deserve better.



Women are great, i have two daughters, three sisters and 14 aunts, grew up with women all around. I am very upfront, honest and dont play games. The rule were made very clear and then the rule suddenly change, now i shouldn't skydive or travel because that ia what she thinks i should do? My company does work all over the world, so to please her i should just quit? Kind Sir, I too once was a huge asshole, this is not the case, When i simply said no more thanks, she would not take no for answer, no yelling , screaming or other. Life is too short to have another person tell you how to live it.


I'm not saying you should please her. Just have some empathy. This woman obviously cares for you and isn't handling it right. Perhaps labeling her "crazy" isn't very healthy for either one of you.



Well said my friend, empathy given, but you gotta admit, the therapist thing was crazy. I mean arent we all adults that should handle life. Not have her friend call me and say i need therapy because i dont want to do as i am told. I do empathise but cannot be molded, Now go jump
So i just broke up with this woman who wasn't even my girlfriend!

Hellfish #782, POPS #10664

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