happythoughts 0 #126 May 12, 2007 Studies show that it is 20-22% for both sexes. Neither has a monopoly on it. I have heard the lie "I have never cheated..." by so many people who think that I don't know. Then, they give me one of my two fav excuses: "We were broke up that weekend..." (I have heard this so many times) You lived with them for 3 years before and after, but that weekend was exempted? and "He wasn't meeting my needs..." (except for the check book ) Most women, that I know, have heard this from a friend who forgives them. That is part of the problem. Generally, people are happy with their life and how the other person treats them actually. It is just that an opportunity to f- someone extra-hot presents itself. It is a form of shallowness of values. People that don't place any value on the entire picture and would gamble it on a little sex. They shouldn't be disappointed if their partner becomes as uncaring as they are. Intimacy is based on trust. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #127 February 14, 2008 Quote ...men are weak creatures and their body doesn't hold enough blood to run their pecker and their brain at the same time... I had a blood test done once and the hot nurse couldn't get it done...and she wondered why. My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #128 February 14, 2008 Wow, this thread was dug up from the bowels of the Bonfire!!! The person who gave me the reason to post this, has practically completely walked away from me and his kids. He is living on the beach with a 19yro (He is in his mid 30's) and get this.... he says he has finally found someone who makes him wanna be monogamos (SP?).... this coming from a person who since age 14 has never been in a relationship where he has not cheated! It cracks me up!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #129 February 14, 2008 Quotethis coming from a person who since age 14 has never been in a relationship where he has not cheated! I hope you didn't marry him knowing that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 851 #130 February 14, 2008 beach? 19? no kids???? WTF was he THINKING??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #131 February 14, 2008 Yeah the summary of it sounds like paradise. But it has really jacked with the kids. They are really hurting over this and they dont understand. However, I never say bad things about him in front of them and trust me, when he goes 2 weeks or more w/o calling it is really hard. I can't even stand it when they are gone over night. I can't fathom how a parent can do this. All b/c he wants to live the "skydivers" dream of just floating all over the US & other countries... There is no man (or woman) or any amount of money PERIOD that could ever make me walk away from my kids, they are my breath, my heart beat, my soul. Without them, I would be nothing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JSBIRD 1 #132 February 14, 2008 Oh, I thought this was about the TV show "Cheaters". The worst piece of shit I ever saw, and a total waste of electrons to produce. Cheating? I'm human, and have participated. I have also been on the other side. BASE359"Now I've settled down, in a quiet little town, and forgot about everything" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #133 February 14, 2008 Quote I'm human, and have participated. I'm human, and have never participated. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
