skymama 37 #1 February 7, 2008 I've always given my kids a little something for Valentine's Day. When they were little, it was something small like a card, candy, a stuffed animal, a t-shirt...usually under $20 worth of stuff. Now, I'm planning on giving them cash which will be the equivalent of just buying them a tank of gas. It was argued with me yesterday that Valentine's Day is for adults only and if you give anything to a child it shouldn't be more than a card. What do you think?She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tsampson 0 #2 February 7, 2008 I don't get them anything significant, but that is largely because their aunt always gets them something really cool. I send them a card, because they are still at the ages (8 and 5) where they love to receive mail delivered by the postman. Sometimes I will put stickers or a temporary tattoo in the card. The whole family gets a special dessert that night. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jewels 0 #3 February 7, 2008 Valentine's Day is about love. It doesn't have to be about romantic love--there are all kinds of love and they should be celebrated. I absolutely think the kids should be included.TPM Sister #102 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shropshire 0 #4 February 7, 2008 Too wierd... don't you think? Anyway, kids get way too many presents and adults need an adults only occasion, to teach kids that the world does not (and should not) revolve around them. IMHO P.S I have a friend who has a couple of kids... When one of them has a b/day, she would buy BOTH kids a pressent - sending entirely the wrong message, I would suggest (.)Y(.) Chivalry is not dead; it only sleeps for want of work to do. - Jerome K Jerome Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lisamariewillbe 1 #5 February 7, 2008 Yuppers, valentines is a day for those you love and no one has more of my love then the brats... They always get a stuffed animal, a dvd and candy. Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GflyDog 0 #6 February 7, 2008 QuoteI've always given my kids a little something for Valentine's Day. When they were little, it was something small like a card, candy, a stuffed animal, a t-shirt...usually under $20 worth of stuff. Now, I'm planning on giving them cash which will be the equivalent of just buying them a tank of gas. It was argued with me yesterday that Valentine's Day is for adults only and if you give anything to a child it shouldn't be more than a card. What do you think? I think thats pure BS. Valentines day is about expressing your love to ALL those you love. I agree with your tradition of taking the occasion to also express your love to your children. Dont change a thing about your perspective or philosophy. On this & so many other subjects. From reading some of your posts I'd have to say IMHO I respect you & your beliefs above most others. Yours are far more admirable & respectable. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AllisonH 0 #7 February 7, 2008 This is an interesting question. My father (not my stepdad who I talk to all the time, but my biological father who calls me on my b-day and Christmas if I'm lucky) called this morning. He said he'd just been thinking how it would be nice to get his daughter something for Valentines Day, and what would I like? Would I prefer something like earrings, or a gift card for Best Buy? It was the oddest conversation, but kind of cool I guess. I was just glad he had thought of me, a card saying that would have been a very pleasant surprise. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DJL 235 #8 February 7, 2008 Valentines shouldn't be more than a card and candy, period. When did it turn into a gift exchange?"I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jimmytavino 16 #9 February 7, 2008 yes... our kids ARE an important part, of the manifestation of our Love... and as they get older My wife and i BEAM at what they've accomplished, and at how they've become responsible adults..... Nothing fancy, but for sure a card and something sweet, so that they KNOW they are loved... just like they were when they were toddlers, and pre-teens...jt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #10 February 7, 2008 I always got presents as a kid for valentines day and I also get my kids stuff. Usually a stuffed animal and candy since they are still small ( 9, 7 & 5) My mom also sends then McDonalds money for Valentines day and Halloween. They are only little once, I bend over backwards trying to make sure their childhood is a good one. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 798 #11 February 7, 2008 Apparently....you gots some more training to do to that new hubby...I used to do this...having three girls and all....but they're too old now. Being all adult and everything! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GflyDog 0 #12 February 7, 2008 QuoteValentines shouldn't be more than a card and candy, period. When did it turn into a gift exchange? WTF ? How is expression of love limited to candy & cards, as opposed to specifically relating to the personality & interests of the recipient of our affections. Or the relationship itself coupled with the imagination & compassion of the gift giver. What if the person you are trying to express your love to is a blind diabetic? Candy & cards does not exactly say I Love You in that instance now does it? More like drop dead or I say I love you but the truth of the matter is I can't be bothered taking the time to get to know & understand who you really are inside nor do I care about your needs, feelings or wishes. Not good. Freedom of expression. Love is in the air. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #13 February 7, 2008 Yep. We do. Daddy brings home flowers and a candy heart for Jaleesa, and candy and a tiny little toy (prolly came with the candy) for the boys. He asks each of the kids if they'll be his Valentine. It's terribly sweet. Then mama gets her card, flowers and candy, and we put the kiddos to bed. Daddy is kind of a traditionalist and a romantic. ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skymama 37 #14 February 7, 2008 Quote Apparently....you gots some more training to do to that new hubby... Mr Smartypants, I didn't even say who the conversation was with. You're right, but that's beside the point. She is Da Man, and you better not mess with Da Man, because she will lay some keepdown on you faster than, well, really fast. ~Billvon Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DJL 235 #15 February 7, 2008 QuoteQuoteValentines shouldn't be more than a card and candy, period. When did it turn into a gift exchange? WTF ? How is expression of love limited to candy & cards, as opposed to specifically relating to the personality & interests of the recipient of our affections. Or the relationship itself coupled with the imagination & compassion of the gift giver. What if the person you are trying to express your love to is a blind diabetic? Candy & cards does not exactly say I Love You in that instance now does it? More like drop dead or I say I love you but the truth of the matter is I can't be bothered taking the time to get to know & understand who you really are inside nor do I care about your needs, feelings or wishes. Not good. Freedom of expression. Love is in the air. I think you're missing the big picture of my post. Valentines isn't another Christmas. Don't believe the hype."I encourage all awesome dangerous behavior." - Jeffro Fincher Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #16 February 7, 2008 Interesting question. I never really thought about if I will give Aiden something for Valentine's Day when he's older. Maybe a box of candy or something. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
