moto89 0 #1 January 30, 2008 You get the impression you love your significant other much more than they love you? Is it a salvageable mal, or does it need to be cut away? Sigh...Less talking, more flying. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SarahC07 0 #2 January 30, 2008 Wait and see. Don't rush it and talk to the other person. Express your concern. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TrophyHusband 0 #3 January 30, 2008 chop it. even if she does feel the same about you as you feel about her, she's not showing it to your satisfaction. you could talk to her and she may even change for a while, but she'll go back to her original self. "Your scrotum is quite nice" - Skymama www.kjandmegan.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moto89 0 #4 January 30, 2008 I feel like I've pumped the brakes, pulled risers, and kicked my heart out but it seems to be spinning faster and faster. My hard deck is within sight.Less talking, more flying. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #5 January 30, 2008 Just pull stable after the chop and you'll be fine. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #6 January 30, 2008 If your perception is correct, you're in one of those cool situations where if you don't react, your mal will eventually chop you (albeit painfully). The question is whether you want to wait till that happens in order to find out. I suggest talking. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moto89 0 #8 January 30, 2008 Quote I suggest talking. Blues, Dave That generally turns out with me spinning faster yet because this spinner doesn't really like any input.Less talking, more flying. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SWEEEET 0 #9 January 30, 2008 ...I would definitely talk to her first. There could be a legitimate reason for it...REMEMBER it's your impression...not factI'm not weird...just cool that's all...!!!! *SWEEEET* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moto89 0 #10 January 30, 2008 For anyone that is interested, a little light on the subject. http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=3072379;sb=post_latest_reply;so=ASC;forum_view=forum_view_collapsed;;page=unread#unreadLess talking, more flying. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #11 January 30, 2008 Quote Quote I suggest talking. Blues, Dave That generally turns out with me spinning faster yet because this spinner doesn't really like any input. If: -she's great sex -is so hot all your friends envy you -she or her family is loaded Then suck it up and stick with her. If: -she's a dry cow -she or her family are worth less than USD $1M in total equity Dump her. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aprilcat 0 #12 January 30, 2008 I suggest talking. Wink ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ...ANIMAL!! Talking..what ARE you thinking about? (tongue firmly pressed in cheek (watch it)) ~~~April Camelot II, the Electric Boogaloo! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moto89 0 #13 January 30, 2008 Quote -she or her family are worth less than USD $1M in total equity Never mentioned this part of the story before, but it's about 150 times that. It was never a factor in the relationship, as I didn't even know until a few months in, but at this point it seriously has no bearing on my feelings toward this situation.Less talking, more flying. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frenchy68 0 #14 January 30, 2008 Quote Quote -she or her family are worth less than USD $1M in total equity Never mentioned this part of the story before, but it's about 150 times that. It was never a factor in the relationship, as I didn't even know until a few months in, but at this point it seriously has no bearing on my feelings toward this situation. FOOL! Marry the girl. Who cares about feelings. Feelings are for women reading 19th century French literature, not men. Take the money and run. "For once you have tasted Absinthe you will walk the earth with your eyes turned towards the gutter, for there you have been and there you will long to return." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bolas 5 #15 January 30, 2008 Quote Quote -she or her family are worth less than USD $1M in total equity Never mentioned this part of the story before, but it's about 150 times that. It was never a factor in the relationship, as I didn't even know until a few months in, but at this point it seriously has no bearing on my feelings toward this situation. In her eyes you may not be an equal. I suggest you have a big public fight in the Bonfire with her. Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
monkycndo 0 #16 January 30, 2008 Quote Quote Quote -she or her family are worth less than USD $1M in total equity Never mentioned this part of the story before, but it's about 150 times that. It was never a factor in the relationship, as I didn't even know until a few months in, but at this point it seriously has no bearing on my feelings toward this situation. FOOL! Marry the girl. Who cares about feelings. Feelings are for women reading 19th century French literature, not men. Take the money and run. Frenchy, you are my hero.50 donations so far. Give it a try. You know you want to spank it Jump an Infinity Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #17 January 30, 2008 Quote Quote I suggest talking. Blues, Dave That generally turns out with me spinning faster yet because this spinner doesn't really like any input. Perhaps you could try talking to her without overusing skydiving analogies? ~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moto89 0 #18 January 30, 2008 Quote Perhaps you could try talking to her without overusing skydiving analogies? Do what? I'm afraid I don't understand. Less talking, more flying. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #19 January 30, 2008 Quote Quote Perhaps you could try talking to her without overusing skydiving analogies? Do what? I'm afraid I don't understand. I was being a facetious bitch. Sartre's off duty tonight.~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DangerRoo 0 #20 January 30, 2008 Quote I feel like I've pumped the brakes, pulled risers, and kicked my heart out but it seems to be spinning faster and faster. My hard deck is within sight. I'm with ya on that but my heart is still in (I.C.D#2 VP) ""I'm good with my purple penis straw" ~sky mama Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
airtwardo 7 #21 January 30, 2008 Quote Quote Quote Quote -she or her family are worth less than USD $1M in total equity Never mentioned this part of the story before, but it's about 150 times that. It was never a factor in the relationship, as I didn't even know until a few months in, but at this point it seriously has no bearing on my feelings toward this situation. FOOL! Marry the girl. Who cares about feelings. Feelings are for women reading 19th century French literature, not men. Take the money and run. Frenchy, you are my hero. No shit.....a guy can put up with a whole lotta 'bitchy' for that kinda coinage! ~ If you choke a Smurf, what color does it turn? ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
markovwgti 0 #22 January 30, 2008 chop that shit now...you will get sick of it eventually Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shell666 0 #23 January 30, 2008 Quote Quote Quote Quote Quote -she or her family are worth less than USD $1M in total equity Never mentioned this part of the story before, but it's about 150 times that. It was never a factor in the relationship, as I didn't even know until a few months in, but at this point it seriously has no bearing on my feelings toward this situation. FOOL! Marry the girl. Who cares about feelings. Feelings are for women reading 19th century French literature, not men. Take the money and run. Frenchy, you are my hero. No shit.....a guy can put up with a whole lotta 'bitchy' for that kinda coinage! Shit, I'd put up with all that bitchy for that coinage! Oh, sorry ... should I have said "girl in the house" first ... 'Shell Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SBS 0 #24 January 30, 2008 Quote FOOL! Marry the girl. Who cares about feelings. Feelings are for women reading 19th century French literature, not men. Take the money and run. And if you don't, please post her phone # on your way out. _____________ I'm not conceited...I'm just realistic about my awesomeness... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moto89 0 #25 January 30, 2008 Well I performed my EP's. Since my last post I spoke to her and she lied to me about something big. She did something very inconsiderate and hurtful and basically told me that she was going to do what she wanted, and damn anyone who gets in her way. So I looked right and pulled. This is about as bad as I have ever felt. Thought she was the one. Less talking, more flying. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites