Can you soul search and date at the same time?

[Bolas 5]

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This is not the 1st post you have made with this particular flavour, it's become a sort of DZ.com Peyton Place .
But hey if that's how you deal with personal issues, have at it, the general populous seems moderately
entertained

Believe me, if I thought there was any other effective way to get answers from this person. I'd use them. I don't like airing private details. It's my last resort option.

Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting
If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh.

[Squeak 17]

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This is not the 1st post you have made with this particular flavour, it's become a sort of DZ.com Peyton Place .
But hey if that's how you deal with personal issues, have at it, the general populous seems moderately
entertained

Believe me, if I thought there was any other effective way to get answers from this person. I'd use them. I don't like airing private details. It's my last resort option.

You could always try, the get over it, move on and dont worry abouit it option

You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky)
My Life ROCKS!
How's yours doing?

[peregrinerose 0]

Bolas, normally I think you're hysterically funny and have great posts, but dude, I'm wanting to get the popcorn over this and the one in women's forum. Take a deep breath, relax, let go. You'll probably never have answers. That's how life works sometimes... sucks, doesn't it?

Hang in there.

Do or do not, there is no try -Yoda

[AirWhore 0]

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Maybe when she told you she was soul search it was just her polite way of telling you to buzz off

But then again what do i know about women

Interesting theory.
Wouldn't that be a lie though?

Is it ever polite to flat out lie?

Don't think of it as a lie, Think of it as her trying to explain the obvious to the oblivious...

[aprilcat 0]

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This is not the 1st post you have made with this particular flavour, it's become a sort of DZ.com Peyton Place .
But hey if that's how you deal with personal issues, have at it, the general populous seems moderately
entertained

Believe me, if I thought there was any other effective way to get answers from this person. I'd use them. I don't like airing private details. It's my last resort option.

WHY do you need answers? She's looking for something else...its over. don't ask for answers of 'why' she doesn't want you because its over. The only thing you're going to do is get your feelings hurt.

Stop asking. If she's looking for her soul mate and dating, its not you. And behaving as a stalker REALLY makes it not about you. Let it go, Bolas.

Unless you were married and have children together, there is no real reason you should dwell on this.find YOUR soulmate..and don't talk them and ask for pubic answers to private questions.

There are so many questions lately on 'who loves each other equally'...if you have to post you already know the answer to it. Keep asking questions and it will only break down your self-esteem. Believe in yourself and what YOU have to offer, and you'll never do a poll again.

Good luck to you and search your own soul. Let now one validate who YOU are. ~~April

Camelot II, the Electric Boogaloo!

[Bolas 5]

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WHY do you need answers? She's looking for something else...its over. don't ask for answers of 'why' she doesn't want you because its over. The only thing you're going to do is get your feelings hurt.

I don't want her. I know it's over. That's a good thing for both of us.

She despises me. I can deal with that.

I just don't understand why when it's over and you have no emotional stake in the person why you can't just be honest.

But it's over and done with now.

Stupidity if left untreated is self-correcting
If ya can't be good, look good, if that fails, make 'em laugh.