Broke 0 #1 October 30, 2007 "That sex is not really important in a relationship," is it really cheating if you have, "Just sex," with someone else?Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #2 October 30, 2007 Yes, it is cheating, unless you have an agreement with your s/o. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #3 October 30, 2007 Sweet when did I get a new SO?Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #5 October 30, 2007 Or were you talking in generalities. Saying that sex outside of the relationship is only ok if previously discussed between the two partners involved.Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davedlg 0 #6 October 30, 2007 Regardless of the situation, I'd consider it cheating if you wouldn't tell your S.O.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
virgin-burner 1 #7 October 30, 2007 i'm sure that was a man that said that.. well, basically, if you're a man, you want to sleep with every counterpart of the opposite sex. at least the hotties. if you dont, you must be gay. seriously! sex is very important in a relationship. to me, that is. makes the one and the other thing so much more enjoyable. it just needs the right person to it.. i guess, i'd call it cheating anyways.. “Some may never live, but the crazy never die.” -Hunter S. Thompson "No. Try not. Do... or do not. There is no try." -Yoda Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #8 October 30, 2007 QuoteSaying that sex outside of the relationship is only ok if previously discussed between the two partners involved. Basically what I was saying. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moodyskydiver 0 #9 October 30, 2007 If its an open relationship and you tell your/their partner and the partner doesnt mind the "just sex" with someone else then I dont think its cheating.But if you dont tell your/their partner then yes,its cheating. "...just an earthbound misfit, I." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fast 0 #10 October 30, 2007 Quote"That sex is not really important in a relationship," is it really cheating if you have, "Just sex," with someone else? I abstained from the poll, cause my views on what a relationship is couldn't even remotely consider that option.~D Where troubles melt like lemon drops Away above the chimney tops That's where you'll find me. Swooping is taking one last poke at the bear before escaping it's cave - davelepka Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #11 October 30, 2007 Would you like to explaineDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
newbloomer 0 #12 October 30, 2007 Quote"That sex is not really important in a relationship," is it really cheating if you have, "Just sex," with someone else? If sex is not important to that person in a relationship than I guess it wouldn't be important to them if you had it with someone else."not all grief is bad grief, just ask Charlie Brown" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #13 October 30, 2007 So if it was a big deal that you would have sex with someone else it would they be hypocritical?Divot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JustChuteMeNow 0 #14 October 30, 2007 I said it was cheating because even if it was a hooker or a one night stand picked up in a bar, a relationship is also based on trust, respect, and a multitude of other factors that at least in my opinion are MORE important than sex.Think of how stupid the average person is and realize that statistically half of them are stupider than that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladydyver 0 #15 October 30, 2007 Quote"That sex is not really important in a relationship," is it really cheating if you have, "Just sex," with someone else? Is is really just sex with the other person???? oh, and sex is essential in a relationship.....in my opinion anyway.DPH # 2 "I am not sure what you are suppose to do with that, but I don't think it is suppose to flop around like that." ~Skootz~ I have a strong regard for the rules.......doc! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #16 October 30, 2007 QuoteI said it was cheating because even if it was a hooker or a one night stand picked up in a bar, a relationship is also based on trust, respect, and a multitude of other factors that at least in my opinion are MORE important than sex. True there are more important things than sex in a relationship, but sex is still important. If people aren't sexually compatable the relationship will not succeed. For instance if both people are subs then it will not succeed, because one person won't be getting what they wantDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JustChuteMeNow 0 #17 October 30, 2007 Hell yeah sex is important. I personally like it alot and fortunately so does my wife. At least that what she tells me However like I said we both place higher values on some other things in our relationship. This month we will be married 27 years Think of how stupid the average person is and realize that statistically half of them are stupider than that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites