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How do you feel when you send a friendly pm to someone and you receive no reply?

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There was ONE Dz.comer that used to NOT respond anytime the answer to the question I asked was negative. I called her out on it a few times. It would annoy me.. Then I think they did it even more when they realized how much it annoyed me, So I just quit communicating with them unless in person.

Now if someone sends me a PM that is a Statement and not a question, I generally do not respond. Not being rude, just sometimes I have nothing to add.

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There was ONE Dz.comer that used to NOT respond anytime the answer to the question I asked was negative

Is it stalking if, knowing this, you just send hundreds of emails that require a negative answer :)

Wendy W.
There is nothing more dangerous than breaking a basic safety rule and getting away with it. It removes fear of the consequences and builds false confidence. (tbrown)

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But what about all those lovely PM's and late night ummmm nonexistances we had? Are you just going to throw that all away. LOL :D



It's a painful thing to give up for sure, but face it--it just wasn't meant to be.






(Did that sound authentic?:D:D)

Walt

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How do I feel? I get mad. Real mad. Then, I go to the witch's store and buy some voodoo dolls, candles, bat's blood, fish eyes, and chicken bones....

...oh wait, PM as in "Personal Message" not "Psychotic Metamorphosis"...

Please disregard.

:D:)

Don't sweat the little sh*t dude.



:D:D:D

Walt

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Being a veteran of aquarium related web forums, and having been thrown out of one(!)....to keep in contact with someone, I provide them with real contact info.

:)



How the hell do you get thrown out of an aquarium-related forum?!!!!:o:o

I've been thrown out of a florist shop, but that happens to a lot of people.

Walt

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How the hell do you get thrown out of an aquarium-related forum?!!!!:o:o

I've been thrown out of a florist shop, but that happens to a lot of people.

Walt



Long story involving money, power and sex. I was referring to a thread in a different, competing forum, and the power hungry owner of the forum couldn't have that.

You wouldn't think there was much action in the aquarium world, but there is. Everything from the debate about wether keeping veil tail fish is morally acceptable, to normal personal attacks.

:D
Relax, you can die if you mess up, but it will probably not be by bullet.

I'm a BIG, TOUGH BIGWAY FORMATION SKYDIVER! What are you?

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Long story involving money, power and sex. I was referring to a thread in a different, competing forum, and the power hungry owner of the forum couldn't have that.

You wouldn't think there was much action in the aquarium world, but there is. Everything from the debate about wether keeping veil tail fish is morally acceptable, to normal personal attacks.

:D



I was envisioning something like, "Fuck you--you fresh water fuckheads are a bunch of pussies--either go salt or go home!!!!"

So what's the deal about veil tail fish being ok to have or not? You mean like the male beta in a vase thing?

Walt

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There was ONE Dz.comer that used to NOT respond anytime the answer to the question I asked was negative

Is it stalking if, knowing this, you just send hundreds of emails that require a negative answer :)

Wendy W.
No honey, that's just cocheese.
Please feel free to reply to my posts and pm's, but only if you're smart enough to understand what they really mean.

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She's just not that into you Chris. Just get over it and move on.



Don't listen to her, Chris. She's just being anti-fucking-social!:D:D

Walt
Yawn. My work is done here. It's time to go to work now.
Please feel free to reply to my posts and pm's, but only if you're smart enough to understand what they really mean.

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Oh but Walt, though the fake break off was great... we really need to talk about the fake sex :D



I can honestly say I was never faking with you. Not even a little bit. And if you were faking with me, I think I'd rather not know. I don't think I could handle that.

Walt

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I understand busy, but what is wrong with a quick reply stating that and that you will get back to them?

Or, in all honesty; what is wrong with just writing back to the person that you are not interested in receiving any kind of pm from them, so please stop?



Because it is easier for someone to simply ignore you rather than go through the uncomfortable task of telling you to get lost. Simply put, it makes the other person feel better to simply ignore you. Not nice, I know, but this is internet communication -- it's just too easy to hit the "close" or "delete" button rather than to write out something that's not so easy to write out.

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Am I wrong in expecting common courtesy?



No, but if that's what you're expecting when communicating with someone via the internet, perhaps you're expecting a bit much. Most people, at least when communicating with them via the internet, probably aren't going to conform to your idea of what's courteous.

Be humble, ask questions, listen, learn, follow the golden rule, talk when necessary, and know when to shut the fuck up.

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Oh but Walt, though the fake break off was great... we really need to talk about the fake sex :D



I can honestly say I was never faking with you. Not even a little bit. And if you were faking with me, I think I'd rather not know. I don't think I could handle that.

Walt


Awww I'm sorry to break your heart Walt, but there's only one man that get a real piece of this ass though. ;)

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OMG I use to send emails ALL THE TIME to someone who shall remain nameless (VOODEW!) and hardly ever got any replies. I know he did it on purpose because he knew it drove me CRAZY! But then one day the wifey replied to one of my emails and...well enuf said!
;)
"It is our choices that show what we truly are far more than our abilities." - A. Dumbledore

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:DSome of you are funny. The others...eh.;)

Seriously, I do not take this topic as seriously as some may think. It was just a thought that popped into my head, so I thought I would ask.

So far, JTVal is the only one who answered honestly.:D



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Chris






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I'm sorry I didn't write you back... I was waiting for someone else to reply to me, but still no reply. [:/]

But, in all honesty, it pisses me off. Bastards. >:(

Yea, you know who you are. :|



I'll get around to replying to you when I damn well feel like it!>:(

Walt


Fucker... PM sent dude! >:(

Oh, and it would be nice if you fucking answered me this time... :)

See you this weekend?

"I had a dude tip his black cowboy hat to me after I provided him with a condom outside my hotel room at 3-something in the morning." -myself

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