Richards 0 #76 April 8, 2006 QuoteQuote***Is there a male alive who hasn't seen Scarface? i have only seen the "say hello to my little friend" scene... You've missed out on an important rite of passage in a young mans life. Richards My biggest handicap is that sometimes the hole in the front of my head operates a tad bit faster than the grey matter contained within. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Richards 0 #77 April 8, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteIs there a male alive who hasn't seen Scarface at least 10 times? Richards There--fixed it for ya', and the answer is "no". Walt Of course, what was i thinking. I like it best when I have had a bad day and I am drinking. Richards My biggest handicap is that sometimes the hole in the front of my head operates a tad bit faster than the grey matter contained within. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wingnut 0 #78 April 10, 2006 QuoteYou've missed out on an important rite of passage in a young mans life. yup, i missed out on alot of thing, depending on what things ya talk about, but i think i turned out okay.... btw, never seen resivor dogs either...... ______________________________________ "i have no reader's digest version" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RhondaLea 4 #79 April 10, 2006 Please don't take this as a criticism; we're all different. I wouldn't have sex with someone who wasn't first a friend. To me, a "fuck buddy" is a friend--with benefits--but the emphasis is on "friend." In the absence of friendship, I wouldn't be interested in sex just for the sake of sex. It sounds to me more like an extended one-night stand that way, and frankly, I'd just as soon masturbate as have sex with someone I had no emotional involvement with at all. So the answer to your question about kissing is: it's as much a part of sex as any other sexual act, and I can't imagine having sex without it. rlIf you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
script 0 #80 April 10, 2006 Ok, so lets put another angle on this. How about if you had a bf and he didn't kiss you at all. Before during, or after sex? Any opinions on that? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RhondaLea 4 #81 April 10, 2006 QuoteOk, so lets put another angle on this. How about if you had a bf and he didn't kiss you at all. Before during, or after sex? Any opinions on that? I'd want an explanation. And then I'd suggest therapy or I'd stop seeing him. rlIf you don't know where you're going, you should know where you came from. Gullah Proverb Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TypicalFish 0 #82 April 10, 2006 QuoteSo, as I was talking to a friend this afternoon, the topic of a "fuck friend (or buddy)" came up. I asked him if he thought it was appropriate to intimately kiss them while taking care of business. IMO, I think not. If it is strictly platonic, I do not believe there should be any intamacy other than getting the job done and needs fulfilled. As I know some of you may not have a FF, you can answer the question to the best of your ability. I disagree, though that is just me. What fun is a FF you can't also make out with? Plus, I kiss everywhere..."I gargle no man's balls..." ussfpa on SOCNET Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waltappel 1 #83 April 10, 2006 QuoteQuoteOk, so lets put another angle on this. How about if you had a bf and he didn't kiss you at all. Before during, or after sex? Any opinions on that? I'd want an explanation. rl Mouth full of herpes sores, maybe? Walt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sharimcm 0 #84 April 10, 2006 Quote Plus, I kiss everywhere... So, uh... Where do you live. "I had a dude tip his black cowboy hat to me after I provided him with a condom outside my hotel room at 3-something in the morning." -myself Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JUDYJ 0 #85 April 10, 2006 Having a FB..isn't just about turning part of your feelings off. It's more like channeling them were you want them to be. With a FB y-o-u are in charge of those feelings that lead to 'wanting more.' I do have feelings for my FB but I understand the limits and was willing to live within the boundaries. It wasn't easy at first. But I didn't see him all the time and that helped me. The best part was when I got to the point that I understood why he liked the emotional distance. When I had a really bad day...patients out of control, kids demanding, contracts falling apart etc, all I had to do was make a call and find a night we were free. That gave me something to look forward to...no huge involvement other than enjoy myself with him. I like the man he is..then and today. The best part.... we are still friends but not FB. IF you are going to be Stupid - you better be tough! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sharimcm 0 #86 April 10, 2006 My FB is a friend. We spent time talking hours before getting into the whole sex thing. I think we were trying to "feel each other out." We were finding out what each other wanted and what to do about it. Both of us agreed we don't want the emotional bullshit of a relationship, but we both had needs that we wanted satisfied, so we agreed on the terms of our friendship. I don't talk to him everyday, or even see him everyday, but we talk and spend more time together than spending that time in the bedroom. It's all good. Like I said, I was caught off guard when he kissed me, but I liked it. Not a wham, bam, thank you ma'am kind of guy!! "I had a dude tip his black cowboy hat to me after I provided him with a condom outside my hotel room at 3-something in the morning." -myself Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
base689 0 #87 April 10, 2006 Let's state in advance that I have never been with a prostitute (and I hope I will never have the need to), where kissing is "forbidden" (for obvious reasons So, basically, I have always had sex just for the RECIPROCAL fun of it. So, granted that I like to have sex for pleasure of it, as well as on the other side, I would NOT conceive sex without kissing, which is an outstanding foreplay. And granted also that I kiss everywhere, it comes "natural" the fact that I must feel comfortable to have sex with the lady in question (I must like her), where kissing is just one of the many pleasant things I can do with the above lady. So, If I had a FF, I wouldn't conceive the sex with her WITHOUT kissing: if I am comfortable to have sex with her, kissing in just ONE of the "things"; if I am NOT comfortable with the lady, I am NOT comfortable either making love or kissing. If I am not comfortable (and I need to "discharge") I can get way more fun masturbating rather than having something "unpleasant", kissing or not kissing.Stay safe out there Blue Skies and Soft Walls BASE #689 - base_689AT_NO_123_SPAMyahoo.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #88 April 10, 2006 Kissing is fun. I can't imagine being willing to kissing one set of her lips without being willing to kiss the other. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
script 0 #89 April 11, 2006 QuoteQuoteOk, so lets put another angle on this. How about if you had a bf and he didn't kiss you at all. Before during, or after sex? Any opinions on that? I'd want an explanation. And then I'd suggest therapy or I'd stop seeing him. rl -------------------------------------------- Yes, I have done the first two, but still not getting anywhere, got no explanation and the therapy idea was dodged very artfully. Sadly I am going onto number three, stopping seeing him, it's a pity because sex is not what its about with me and him, but intimacy is very important and it feels like he's dodging intimacy by not kissing me.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarkM 0 #90 April 12, 2006 QuoteQuote 2: Sometimes when you look at the guys who are picking up the prostitutes, they don't look ugly enough to need to pay for it It's a power trip! Money leads to power and when you have money you want more, I imagine power is much the same (generalization here not sayin every man is power or $ hungry). I think life is more complex than what you can cover in simple generalizations like that. And a lot of the time when you really look into the motivations for why people do the things they do you end up surprised more often than not. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slurp56 0 #91 April 12, 2006 QuoteTypically no... If I (we?) am REALLY drunk, then sometimes it happens, getting caught up in the moment and all. Otherwise, no. Kissing is an emotional thing. My first FF started getting feelings (I think because we didn't have 'rules'), so it had to end. Since then, no kissing.... Jeff I hate to be the bearer of bad news.... Kissing wasn't the reason she started falling for you. My opinion, there had damn well better be kissing! Granted this person is still your friend. Its not like you're disgusted to be around them or anything, you just get other bonus's that most friendships will never have, based on a complete understanding of each other.________________________________________ I have proof-read this post 500 times, but I guarantee you'll still manage to find a flaw. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sharimcm 0 #92 June 28, 2007 I thought I'd bump this up so we could continue the kissing theme going on... This was posted a while ago, but it's always good to review educational information. "I had a dude tip his black cowboy hat to me after I provided him with a condom outside my hotel room at 3-something in the morning." -myself Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #93 June 28, 2007 Am I the only one who saw the subject line and thought it meant "Do you kiss your Free-Flyer friends"? "There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sunshine 2 #94 June 28, 2007 Quote Am I the only one who saw the subject line and thought it meant "Do you kiss your Free-Flyer friends"? Quit being all innocent and stuff. If you can't have your mind in the gutter, i'm gonna have to put you in a time-out. ___________________________________________ meow I get a Mike hug! I get a Mike hug! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sharimcm 0 #95 June 29, 2007 Quote Am I the only one who saw the subject line and thought it meant "Do you kiss your Free-Flyer friends"? Just an FYI - f*&$ stands for fuck... I just didn't want to put FUCK in the title just in case virgin eyes were set forth upon thy dropzone.com forum titles. But, do you kiss your freeflyer friends? Or fuck friends? "I had a dude tip his black cowboy hat to me after I provided him with a condom outside my hotel room at 3-something in the morning." -myself Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ryoder 1,590 #96 June 29, 2007 Quote Quote Am I the only one who saw the subject line and thought it meant "Do you kiss your Free-Flyer friends"? Just an FYI - f*&$ stands for fuck... I just didn't want to put FUCK in the title just in case virgin eyes were set forth upon thy dropzone.com forum titles. But, do you kiss your freeflyer friends? Or fuck friends? I just thought that perhaps Free-Flyers had such a low social standing that while it might be OK to f*** them, you wouldn't want to kiss them."There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sharimcm 0 #97 June 29, 2007 Quote I just thought that perhaps Free-Flyers had such a low social standing that while it might be OK to f*** them, you wouldn't want to kiss them. Not that matters much, but I have fucked and kissed a free-flyer. It was the same person though, so it only counts as one act... not two... "I had a dude tip his black cowboy hat to me after I provided him with a condom outside my hotel room at 3-something in the morning." -myself Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skybeergodd 0 #98 June 29, 2007 some guys just get all the luck... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Royd 0 #99 June 29, 2007 Quoteand who would want to have sex with a prostitute? Gross!! Please explain the difference between a FF and a prostitute. They are both there for one reason. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bigway 4 #100 June 29, 2007 They are all fuck buddies unless you marry them .Karnage Krew Gear Store . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
