Orgasms

[kbordson 8]

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The Dr. talks sex under the guise of a pseudo-clinical study.

That turns me on unless this is really Dr. Ruth talkin'.

Nope, not Dr. Ruth. But if you want me to use that voice... I guess I can fake it. (but, for the record - Dr. Ruth is a very cool old lady. She was a sniper in WWII.)

And I do want to say that I appreciate all the replies. Nothing like talking about sex.... unless it's maybe skydiving - but we wouldn't do that on this forum.

[popsjumper 2]

Dr. Ruth? A siper? How cool is that?

Please don't use the Dr. Ruth voice, though...it would kill any chance of ANY orgasm, yours OR mine.


But to back up and answer your original questions:
I don't see how any guy could fake an orgasm. The lack of evidence is very telling.

If you are talking about having successive orgasms without losing the erection in between, then yes, I've had "multiple orgasms" in my youth. But that was not the norm.

My reality and yours are quite different.
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[nayf69 0]

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Only some 20% of women experience orgasm during the dirty deed. Two prominent studies show over half of all women suffer from some sexual problem.

I cant stop my GF she is orgasming all through!! she must be one of the lucky ones she regularly gets mutiplies and at least 15 "normal ones" during a session. She says it's all down to being relaxed and comfortable with the person you're with.

If you can't take care, take cover!!!

Nayf

[caspar 0]

you've tried to stop her?

"When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading."

[littleskycrab 0]

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you've tried to stop her?

I was thinking the same thing!!! If one were to try to stop me from having an orgasm....... that would be immediate grounds for "dismount"!

Next time a sunrise steals your breath or a meadow of flowers leaves you speechless, remain that way. Say nothing and listen as heaven whispers, "Do you like it? I did it just for you."

[caspar 0]

you greedy bitch! its my turn now!

"When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading."

[littleskycrab 0]

Good heavens! That was hilarious!

Dear, if I have reached "that" point, you already got yours....... guaranteed!

you greedy ass! It's MY turn!!!

Next time a sunrise steals your breath or a meadow of flowers leaves you speechless, remain that way. Say nothing and listen as heaven whispers, "Do you like it? I did it just for you."

[dzdaveu47 0]

There is a third posablitiy. Orgasm, ejaculate, stay hard and keep going on to the next one. I never thought this possable until I was lucky enough to have it happen. Twice (different nights). What it took was proper motivation. Thank you Grace and Kelly!

Read icculus, the helping freindly book.

[TrophyHusband 0]

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female orgasm may have not any evolutionary purpose; period! She suggests orgasm may be incidental, not purposeful (i.e., for reproductive success, mate branding/guarding, etc.) The late highly acclaimed biologist Stephan J. Gould strikes again. (His research brought him to the same conclusion.)

i'm going to disagree with these scientist. here's my hypothesis:

raising a human child takes a huge amount of resources. it would be very difficult for a mother to gather enoungh food, protect, and raise a child without help, therefore she needs to find a way to keep a male around so that she can nurture her offspring while he hunts and provides for the family. in caveman times, if he's not getting any, he's going to move on. in comes female orgasms and love. if the female gets to enjoy sex, she will have sex for fun. if the male is having a lot of sex, he's less likely to see what's in the next cave. love performs the same function, to keep the male around. there is also the physical function of the cervix dipping into the back of the vagina during orgasm, increasing the likelyhood of sperm getting into the uterus. both increasing the sperm in the uterus and working as a team instead of going solo, helps the proliferation of the species.

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[sunshine 2]

Hell yes i have 'em. My guy is truly awesome in bed. I'm lucky.

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[nayf69 0]

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you've tried to stop her?

No I dont try and stop her I just think it's unfair I only gets 1 and she gets loads!!

If you can't take care, take cover!!!

Nayf

[kbordson 8]

It's kinda interesting.... looking at the numbers, how the "most of the time" category matches with the "multiples" one. But, since I don't have a feature to confirm that those were actually linked, all I can say is that it's interesting

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female orgasm may have not any evolutionary purpose; period! She suggests orgasm may be incidental, not purposeful (i.e., for reproductive success, mate branding/guarding, etc.) The late highly acclaimed biologist Stephan J. Gould strikes again. (His research brought him to the same conclusion.)

i'm going to disagree with these scientist. here's my hypothesis:

raising a human child takes a huge amount of resources. it would be very difficult for a mother to gather enoungh food, protect, and raise a child without help, therefore she needs to find a way to keep a male around so that she can nurture her offspring while he hunts and provides for the family. in caveman times, if he's not getting any, he's going to move on. in comes female orgasms and love. if the female gets to enjoy sex, she will have sex for fun. if the male is having a lot of sex, he's less likely to see what's in the next cave. love performs the same function, to keep the male around. there is also the physical function of the cervix dipping into the back of the vagina during orgasm, increasing the likelyhood of sperm getting into the uterus. both increasing the sperm in the uterus and working as a team instead of going solo, helps the proliferation of the species.

You make it sound so romantic...

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"The mouse does not know life until it is in the mouth of the cat."

[livendive 8]

I've faked 'em on occasion just because I was ready to be done and wanted a nap, but it's been many years since I was willing to be dishonest in that regard. I almost always have at least one, and if not, there's usually a specific reason why (usually exhaustion). On the multiple thing, I've occasionally had what I think of as "multiples"...generally a light one followed by a stronger one, with the second being almost "dry". Slightly more common is not needing a break to recover before going for a second, but a rest in between is usually well appreciated and is always required before trying for a third.

Blues,
Dave

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[Hipwrddude 0]

Interesting point. But in caveman times, men did move on. After the lure of attraction and good sex, cavemen once again left the side of the women to hunt in packs while the women raised the children and provided most of the food. Cavemen were quite jealous, but would quickly steal the unguarded mate of another if an advance was reciprocated and safe. In the closest comparison there is, studies of tribes show women doing most of the early child rearing, which, actually, is true today.
Funny you should mention love. Fascinatingly enough, love appears to be an evolutionary adaptation for mate selection. From a waist-to-hip ratio of .70, symmetrical features, lustrous hair, good muscle tone--all these qualities that men desire are actually markers of fertility. Since cavemen would always be checking out who's in the next cave, the prize of fidelity in the women meant cavedude didn't have to worry about siring some other caveman's progeny. Men want good looks, youth and fidelity. Women, on the other hand (sorry, bad phrasing) desire a man who is a good provider, has good financial prospects and social status. It's a trade off.
The part that cracks me up about that are the attraction studies where they have well-to-do frumpy guys next to hot young model dudes dressed in blue collar uniforms. One would think the model guys would be picked repeatedly by the women doing the surveys, but nope, they notoriously pick the fat frumpy rich dudes--lowering their standards to elevate their status. While that's not always indicative of the real world, mate selection can vary (we tend to pick those who not only look similar to us, but are generally equal in attractiveness.)
I just got an instant message from a Geico Caveman telling me to knock it off. Sorry, gotta go.

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[VectorBoy 0]

Funny you should mention love. Fascinatingly enough, love appears to be an evolutionary adaptation for mate selection.

[skyscallin 0]

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guys can have multiple orgasms? i feel like ive missed the first half of the conversation...


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Oh yes m'dear it is possible! My hubby did just the other night! It was AWESOME!!!

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[ryoder 1,590]

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Hell yes i have 'em. My guy is truly awesome in bed. I'm lucky.

I thought you were talking about switching teams last week?

"There are only three things of value: younger women, faster airplanes, and bigger crocodiles" - Arthur Jones.