skyscallin 0 #1 April 19, 2007 So, I just gotta ask this, why are some men so damn relentless when it comes to making a booty call? Background: I hooked up with a guy a couple of times last summer. We went like 8 mos without talking and then BAM! There he is again trying to make a booty call. He won't give up and I have made it VERY clear that I have a SO now...so WTF? C'mon guys give me some insight pls!!"A woman is like a tea bag; you never know how strong she is until she gets into hot water" ~ Eleanor Roosevelt ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
swedishcelt 0 #2 April 19, 2007 I'm not a man, but... please understand something... men are regularly conditioned for this thing because some ignorant woman in his past before has actually fallen for it. Learn it, recognize it. Don't fall for it. That is all. I may be a nun, but I tell the damn truth. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viking 0 #3 April 19, 2007 Have you point blank told him that you don't want to fuck him? Sadly sometimes we can be bull headed about that kinda stuff.I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver My God has a bigger dick than your god -George Carlin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #4 April 19, 2007 Because plenty of men have plenty of experience with plenty of women that indicates that it works a lot of the time. Don't be clear that you've got an SO - having an SO probably wouldn't stop him. Be clear that it ain't happening. By the way, restraining orders are very eaay to get - almost sickeningly easy. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyscallin 0 #5 April 19, 2007 You know come to think of it, I don't think I have point blankly said "No I don't want to fuck you" but have said "No, I don't think so" when he asks...is that the same or do I need to be more blunt??"A woman is like a tea bag; you never know how strong she is until she gets into hot water" ~ Eleanor Roosevelt ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IanHarrop 42 #6 April 19, 2007 Quote You know come to think of it, I don't think I have point blankly said "No I don't want to fuck you" but have said "No, I don't think so" when he asks...is that the same or do I need to be more blunt?? "No, I don't think so" sounds like "maybe" to me... blunt is good."Where troubles melt like lemon drops, away above the chimney tops, that's where you'll find me" Dorothy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyscallin 0 #7 April 19, 2007 Okay! Good call. I can be blunt! Luckily he hasn't tried in about a month now, but I am sure it really is only a matter of time again. Thanks for the insight."A woman is like a tea bag; you never know how strong she is until she gets into hot water" ~ Eleanor Roosevelt ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viking 0 #8 April 19, 2007 ya be perfectly blunt. Its sounds like you don't want to fuck him so tell him what you think. lol Like i said some men can be bull headed. Or better yet have your SO tell him you don't want to fuck him! I swear you must have footprints on the back of your helmet - chicagoskydiver My God has a bigger dick than your god -George Carlin Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skyscallin 0 #9 April 19, 2007 That sounds perfect! (having my man tell him!!) Maybe I will just have to do that the next time he asks!"A woman is like a tea bag; you never know how strong she is until she gets into hot water" ~ Eleanor Roosevelt ~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vdschoor 0 #10 April 19, 2007 Quote That sounds perfect! (having my man tell him!!) Maybe I will just have to do that the next time he asks! he he.. yeah.. tell him.. I wouldn't mind.. but talk to my man about that before I say yes.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2fat2fly 0 #11 April 19, 2007 Tell him that if he were worth a damn, you would have called himI am not the man. But the man knows my name...and he's worried Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #12 April 19, 2007 Quote Tell him that if he were worth a damn, you would have called him So thats why all those women keep calling me! Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
popsjumper 2 #13 April 19, 2007 Geez, Heather... "No, I don't think so" really means that you're not sure and that I should try again later. Having an SO only means: 1. That I should have brought a girl for him, or 2. Hell, maybe we could do a 3-way. So, whaddya say? Can we do it tonight? If not, I'll try again next week.... My reality and yours are quite different. I think we're all Bozos on this bus. Falcon5232, SCS8170, SCSA353, POPS9398, DS239 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
billeisele 130 #14 April 19, 2007 Quote "No, I don't think so" when he asks...is that the same or do I need to be more blunt?? sounds like, "not this time" but maybe later, keep me in mind, I don't want to blow you off because my SO may disappear and I might need you - blunt may not work unless he hears it 2 or 3 timesGive one city to the thugs so they can all live together. I vote for Chicago where they have strict gun laws. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2fat2fly 0 #15 April 19, 2007 Quote So thats why all those women keep calling me! In your case, that they're calling you may not be as important as what they're calling youI am not the man. But the man knows my name...and he's worried Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yardhippie 0 #16 April 19, 2007 Quote Quote So thats why all those women keep calling me! In your case, that they're calling you may not be as important as what they're calling you I dont care what they call me, as long as they call me... Goddam dirty hippies piss me off! ~GFD "What do I get for closing your rig?" ~ me "Anything you want." ~ female skydiver Mohoso Rodriguez #865 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #17 April 19, 2007 Quote Okay! Good call. I can be blunt! Luckily he hasn't tried in about a month now, but I am sure it really is only a matter of time again. It sounds like he's just checking back on occasion to see if your situation has changed. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lindercles 0 #18 April 19, 2007 Quote why are some men so damn relentless when it comes to making a booty call? To be fair, it ain't just men that are relentless. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pop 0 #19 April 19, 2007 Quote So, I just gotta ask this, why are some men so damn relentless when it comes to making a booty call? Background: I hooked up with a guy a couple of times last summer. We went like 8 mos without talking and then BAM! There he is again trying to make a booty call. He won't give up and I have made it VERY clear that I have a SO now...so WTF? C'mon guys give me some insight pls!! Let the boy have some sex. He is not asking you for that much. You've already bset the standards by hooking up with the guy in the first place.7 ounce wonders, music and dogs that are not into beer Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sharimcm 0 #20 April 19, 2007 Quote Quote why are some men so damn relentless when it comes to making a booty call? To be fair, it ain't just men that are relentless. Ok, fine... I'll stop calling... "I had a dude tip his black cowboy hat to me after I provided him with a condom outside my hotel room at 3-something in the morning." -myself Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #22 April 19, 2007 Quote Background: I hooked up with a guy a couple of times last summer. We went like 8 mos without talking and then BAM! There he is again trying to make a booty call. He won't give up and I have made it VERY clear that I have a SO now...so WTF? I'm hurt... I so thought we had something... Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Armour666 0 #23 April 19, 2007 Quote "No, I don't think so" when he asks...is that the same or do I need to be more blunt?? More blunt tike a 2 X 4 to the back of the head blunt ? I"m a guy and IO don't get the ones that keep preshuering and trying to weaseal through relucktince it's like some fucked up conquest geme to some of them. Next time having your SO tell him probly wont change a person like that much other then every time to ask so are you single yet ?"SO this one time at band camp..... "Of all the things I've lost I miss my mind the most." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #24 April 19, 2007 Quote Quote "No, I don't think so" when he asks...is that the same or do I need to be more blunt?? More blunt tike a 2 X 4 to the back of the head blunt ? yeah... they do work well... In fact I still have the mark from the last 2x4 I took to the head... Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CSpenceFLY 1 #25 April 19, 2007 Gotta love Google. When I click on this thread there was an add for Meet Black Singles Now. How did they know what I was thinking? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
