georgerussia 0 #26 April 10, 2007 QuoteThat she has very low self esteem, because if my man ever cheated on me, he would not be forgiven. He'd be D U N...DONE! That's what most my girlfriend told me. But the number of those who was really able to have it done is still zero :P* Don't pray for me if you wanna help - just send me a check. * Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Para_Frog 1 #27 April 10, 2007 Quote This definitely means you should go out and fuck the next hot chick you see. OR...Find the guy who's banging your girlfriend and nail him. That'll teach her! But remember - it doesn't matter which side of the dick you're on - you're still gay. - Harvey, BASE 1232 TAN-I, IAD-I, S&TA BLiNC Magazine Team Member Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydemon2 0 #28 April 10, 2007 Quote Quote Quote This definitely means you should go out and fuck the next hot chick you see. Why you gotta place restrictions on it? Sorry I was just saying what I would do. So if I cheated on you, you would go out and nail a hot chick? Thats totally awesome!! Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes clean to the bone! I like to start my day off with a little Ray of Soulshine™!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Slappie 9 #29 April 10, 2007 Time to find a new one. I say cut this one away. She's already fucked up. "Find out just what any people will quietly submit to and you have found out the exact measure of injustice and wrong which will be imposed upon them." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #30 April 10, 2007 Quote Time to find a new one. I say cut this one away. She's already fucked up. Cut them all away - and rent . . .I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #31 April 10, 2007 I've never had anyone say that. But if my wife said something like that I'd probably divorce her. No, not because she cheated, which would not be established. It would be because I would have lost so much respect for her for saying she'd stay with me even after doing something like that. I wouldn't want to be with anyone who found that type of behavior acceptable. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shotgun 1 #32 April 10, 2007 It means that the next time the two of you are playing poker, you can cheat and take all of her money, and she'll forgive you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyDekker 1,465 #33 April 10, 2007 QuoteI wouldn't want to be with anyone who found that type of behavior acceptable. Forgiving some one and accepting the behaviour are not the same thing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Thanatos340 1 #34 April 10, 2007 It is not really cheating if you invite her to join you, Right? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
watchdog2 0 #35 April 10, 2007 QuoteI've never had anyone say that. But if my wife said something like that I'd probably divorce her. No, not because she cheated, which would not be established. It would be because I would have lost so much respect for her for saying she'd stay with me even after doing something like that. I wouldn't want to be with anyone who found that type of behavior acceptable. great response!!! Yep...I totally agree and it all really boils down to this paragraph and what should be done. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 798 #36 April 10, 2007 it's damned near impossible to forgive someone in a marriage (or that type of relationship) for this type of behavior as trust will not instantly return whence forgiven. I've been on the receiving end of it once...I cannot forgive this behavior. It IS the core of a trusting relationship...at least to me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyDekker 1,465 #37 April 10, 2007 QuoteIt IS the core of a trusting relationship... It absolutely is. Nor am I saying that it should be forgiven. However, forgiving and labelling it acceptable behaviour are not the same thing. I would think that much will depend on how the story will come to light as well. I know quite a few long term relationships, which have turned out to be very strong and loving in which minor and major transgressions have taken place. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Conundrum 1 #38 April 10, 2007 I'd be very suspicious of someone who said that to me. She's either done something or plans on doing something. And if my s/o cheated on me, he'd be out the door. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SuperKat 0 #39 April 10, 2007 QuoteWhat does that mean?? I have my ideas, I just wanna get some second opinions... It possibly means.... 1. She's a Christian and she'll forgive you of any future or past infidelity on your part in this relationship. 2. It means that the milk man is dry, the plumber's pipes are clean or baker put his bun in the oven. 3. She means she would forgive you after she pulls your heart out from your chest and stomps on it, skewers it then shishkabobs it. I say it's the first one since I'm a Christian too. Seriously, all jokes aside. Ask her, why she brought something like that up. A relationship is all about trust if you start thinking that she brought this up because she's thinking about cheating on you or has cheated on you in the past, your relationship is going to go downhill. Communication is the key buddy. My free advice to you is, "what you don't know or what you can't see won't hurt you" and "cross that bridge when you get to it". What's the most you ever lost in a coin toss, Friendo? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cloudseeker2001 0 #40 April 10, 2007 Quote It means that the next time the two of you are playing poker, you can cheat and take all of her money, and she'll forgive you. "Some call it heavenly in it's brilliance, others mean and rueful of the western dream" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #41 April 10, 2007 QuoteForgiving some one and accepting the behaviour are not the same thing. I think it's a gossamer thread that separates the two in temrs of interpersonal relationships. Is something acceptable or unacceptable? I find it difficult to accept something and not forgive it. I find it difficult to forgive something and not accept it. Think of the term, "Apology accepted." Staying with someone after something like that is an acceptance of the behavior. It was tolerated. I'm just not a very forgiving guy with some things. I'm very forgiving with most things, but I've got my lines that will not be crossed. That's one of them. My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brits17 0 #42 April 10, 2007 It means, she's better than you. _______________________ aerialkinetics.com Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cloudseeker2001 0 #43 April 10, 2007 It very well could be a way of opening the conversation up for a 3 some or swinging........ "Some call it heavenly in it's brilliance, others mean and rueful of the western dream" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #44 April 10, 2007 Obviously...ask her to be sure, but my opinion: 1) she thinks you cheated and is trying to find out 2) she has cheated 3) she is planning on cheatingLife is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drae 0 #45 April 10, 2007 She's just not that into you! She does not care. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #46 April 10, 2007 Quote Obviously...ask her to be sure, but my opinion: 1) she thinks you cheated and is trying to find out 2) she has cheated 3) she is planning on cheating Well, I'd forgive you.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SkyDekker 1,465 #47 April 10, 2007 QuoteStaying with someone after something like that is an acceptance of the behavior. It was tolerated. Acceptance of the incident. If my girlfriend would decide to drive home drunk after a night of partying. I would forgive her for doing that, would accept the incident, but would clearly inicate that it is not acceptable behaviour and would not want to see it repeated. If my son would come home stoned, I would eventually forgive him. Would accept the incident, but clearly indicate it is not acceptable behaviour. For many of us, cheating is not something we can forgive in our partner. However, for some of us it can be forgiven under certain circumstances. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #48 April 10, 2007 Quote Quote Obviously...ask her to be sure, but my opinion: 1) she thinks you cheated and is trying to find out 2) she has cheated 3) she is planning on cheating Well, I'd forgive you. I don't believe in cheating. Get out of relationship 1 before getting into relationship 2.Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #49 April 10, 2007 Quote Quote Quote Obviously...ask her to be sure, but my opinion: 1) she thinks you cheated and is trying to find out 2) she has cheated 3) she is planning on cheating Well, I'd forgive you. I don't believe in cheating. Get out of relationship 1 before getting into relationship 2. Ok - done . . .I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stayhigh 2 #50 April 10, 2007 she either cheating on you or she wants to know if you are cheating... never good idea to answer this type of question ,, dodge them if possible,, change the subject... ask her if she wants to do any 3 some..Bernie Sanders for President 2016 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
