Woman, oh lovely woman -

[Dumpster 0]

Sage advice -

Now to work up the courage!!

I really don't think she's expecting it in the least.

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Picture her getting gangbanged by five huge black dudes. If that still doesn't kill it for you, you might actually have something here.

Dude, I just lost my breakfast. You're one sick puppy!

What - at least he didn't add midgets to the mix.

I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
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[Darius11 12]

I am with Chris on this one.

I felt that way twice in my life. Once it was lust and the more I got to know the person the less interested I became. I did tell her exactly how I felt and she did shoot me down. It was a good thing at least you know where you stand.

The 2nd time. It was much harder. I knew her very well and she is one of my best friends. So the risk of losing a friend, and we work together as well. So all no no’s. But I told her how I felt as well. I figured anything is better then not knowing. I can honestly say she probably never thought about me in that way. We have been together for two years and I have known her for 6. Never been happier.
Relay happy you know. When you love someone that you don’t even sweat the small stuff. I love hanging out with her and spend everyday together. We work very well and we play very hard.
Just make sure you know your feelings well also. That they will not fade and that they are focused on who she is. To have those strong feelings for someone it should be based on something deep.

Do what you wish, but not knowing is worst then getting shot down in my opinion.


Wish you the best of luck no matter what you do.

I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain

[Dumpster 0]

Oh yeah - Lots of "what-ifs" going through my head.

At least if I get shot down - She and I aren't regulars anywhere in common - - DZ or otherwise.

I'm also confident she won't hold it against me.

The worst she can do is say no?

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[Makani 0]

That's great! It's an incredible feeling. What is it about her that makes you feel this way?

[Dumpster 0]

I can't really put my finger on any one particular thing about her that makes me feel this way. We've known each other pretty much on a casual basis for about 6 years. Jumped together a little. Even argued a little. Years go by and I find myself on my own again after a divorce. Haven't really seen or spoken to her in a good while. I began to wonder if I would ever feel *wonderful* again, about any one. Then out of the blue something pops up that reminds me of her and well - - Look what happens!

Even if she doesn't feel the same way - At least I know I AM capable of feeling that way about some one, and that has come as a real releif. I was beginning to worry my self there for a bit!

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[lilDevil 2]

You should tell her how you feel, because if you dont then itll always be on your mind, if she isnt interested then you can try and move on. I feel for you !

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[Stewie 0]

"It's no surprise to me that hardly anyone tells the truth about how they feel. Why would you want to tell anyone anything that's dear to you? Even when you like them and want nothing more than to be closer than close to them? It's so painful to be next to someone you feel so strongly about and know you can't say the things you want to."

Henry Rollins (from Solipsist)

"Fuck that. I'll take a good ass-pounding over a bj any day." -- pyrotech

[Dumpster 0]

And what's totally mucking things up is that I'm currently dating some one right now - (guess I should have mentioned that alot earlier-)

A very nice lady she is, but I also know she's not going to be the one I'll be with forever.

But how the hell was I to know I'd have this hit me so hard!!?? Or at all??

I should let this go unrequited?

"Woman, lovely Woman - Nature made thee to temper man---

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[Dumpster 0]

Did it - Called her - Had good chat - But the feeling is pretty far from mutual.

Kept a stff upper lip.

At least now I know. And we're still cool.

Time for this kid to crash. It's been a long day.

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[iluvtofly 0]

Sorry to hear it didn't work out. At least you had the balls the actually call her up and tell her how you feel. That's more then I can get up the courage to do right now. At least you guys are still friends. Who knows...maybe one day she'll have the same epiphany you had.

[ladyskydiver 0]

Sorry it didn't work out for you, Lenny. Hugs, my friend!

Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile.

[Dumpster 0]

Thanks Cora - !!

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