ladyflyer77 0 #1 March 20, 2007 Okay, as much as I'm please to hear about the new forum "Blue Skies", it's really making me sad. After checking out some of the threads it made me want to go and see my Kevin (boyfriend now in heaven). I miss him so much. He will be gone a year this May 27th. It just doesn't seem fair. I don't understand how such great people can leave us! If I stand on my tip toes, I can see the weekend from here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pfloyd 0 #2 March 20, 2007 Losing the ones closest to us is always the hardest thing. Sorry for your loss Cheer up and go make a dive dedicated to his memory. That should put a smile on both of your faces My drinking team has a skydiving problem Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyflyer77 0 #3 March 20, 2007 QuoteLosing the ones closest to us is always the hardest thing. Sorry for your loss Cheer up and go make a dive dedicated to his memory. That should put a smile on both of your faces Thanks I'm not sure what's wrong with me today. I've been doing better with this, but today I just can't stop crying. If I stand on my tip toes, I can see the weekend from here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
azdav 0 #4 March 20, 2007 Good <> to you, sometimes it's just rough. Saw a friend put in the ground yesterday after a 3 yr battle with ALS. I don't know why some things happen but understand your sorrow. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jewels 0 #5 March 20, 2007 I'm so sorry. Grief can be like that. One day you're doing fine, and the next it's just all out of kilter. Hang in there!TPM Sister #102 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sutton 0 #6 March 20, 2007 I'm sorry for your loss. Its one of those things where somedays are just better than others. Keep your head up-Sutton Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
davedlg 0 #7 March 20, 2007 I know the feeling. I posted a thread yesterday about my brother, who died a week and a half ago. For me, there have been good times and bad times since, and there are the times that it is almost unbearable. I know that nothing will ever make it better, and I doubt that in a year I will be any better off. The best I can do is to try to live my life in my brother's memory and try to be as good a person as he was. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyflyer77 0 #8 March 20, 2007 QuoteI know the feeling. I posted a thread yesterday about my brother, who died a week and a half ago. For me, there have been good times and bad times since, and there are the times that it is almost unbearable. I know that nothing will ever make it better, and I doubt that in a year I will be any better off. The best I can do is to try to live my life in my brother's memory and try to be as good a person as he was. I'm sorry to hear the lost of your brother. It's crazy how our emotions take over our bodies. We all know the people we lose would want us to remember them and to keep smiling, to keep living. But damn its hard! Thanks you for your kind vibes and I'm sending some vibes your way as well. If I stand on my tip toes, I can see the weekend from here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyflyer77 0 #9 March 20, 2007 thanks everyone for the vibes both on this post and the PM's. If I stand on my tip toes, I can see the weekend from here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fallinbear 0 #10 March 20, 2007 QuoteI'm so sorry. Grief can be like that. One day you're doing fine, and the next it's just all out of kilter. Hang in there! Know the feeling allllllll too well. Still feeling it from October, but it's getting a little less frequent. But it still hurts as much or more than it did... Chin-up ladyflyer!! Sending good ju ju to the east!! It's on the way.I don't want to make all the decisions because if I screw up, then I can't blame it on you... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyflyer77 0 #11 March 20, 2007 thanks Mike! Back at cha!! If I stand on my tip toes, I can see the weekend from here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kaerodyne 0 #12 March 20, 2007 ... VIBES ... HUGS ... SMILES Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyflyer77 0 #13 March 20, 2007 Quote... VIBES ... HUGS ... SMILES Thanks Karl, you're a sweetie! If I stand on my tip toes, I can see the weekend from here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 851 #14 March 20, 2007 If I fondled you...would that help??? seriously...it just plain sucks sometimes...suck it up and keep your chin up - make the best of what you have....it's what he would want you to do. You do deserve to be happy...now lighten up and smile! best wishes your way sweetie... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ladyflyer77 0 #15 March 20, 2007 QuoteIf I fondled you...would that help??? seriously...it just plain sucks sometimes...suck it up and keep your chin up - make the best of what you have....it's what he would want you to do. You do deserve to be happy...now lighten up and smile! best wishes your way sweetie... hahaha...Mark, you are crazy!!! What would I do without a great guy like you? Telling me like it is (now thats what I need). Thanks!! If I stand on my tip toes, I can see the weekend from here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites normiss 851 #16 March 20, 2007 I'm glad you smiled! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ladyflyer77 0 #17 March 20, 2007 QuoteI'm glad you smiled! I did...thanks! If I stand on my tip toes, I can see the weekend from here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites keka 0 #18 March 20, 2007 hey girl, I'm really sorry to hear that... I had no idea that you've lost someone that close to you 1 yr ago. well... I also miss someone that left me to play in the sky, over 12 years ago. life goes on, I know.... but sometimes we just miss them. and there's nothing else that we can do, other than cry and wish we could see each other again. but it's good to know that we have friends that will support us...so, count on them. keep the best memories in your mind and share new ones with people that love you as well. I hope you have a better day and don't feel bad for crying... it's good ...washes our soulblue skieshttp://www.woundedwarriorproject.org PMS#551 I love my life :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites ACMESkydiver 0 #19 March 20, 2007 All I can do is echo what everyone else said...some days, loss, even an old loss, seems to sneak up and get ya. I was sad reading through the new Blue Skies forum too...but y'know, it's a beautiful thing. It's kind of painful I think because it is new, but it really is a classy thing, I think. Happy thoughts going out to you; sorry you had to go through that pain last year.~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites warpedskydiver 0 #20 March 20, 2007 While you may have been sad today I hope that something especially nice makes you very happy soon. I guess it is not so bad to remember, as long as it does not keep us from happiness and ruin our lives in the process. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
ladyflyer77 0 #15 March 20, 2007 QuoteIf I fondled you...would that help??? seriously...it just plain sucks sometimes...suck it up and keep your chin up - make the best of what you have....it's what he would want you to do. You do deserve to be happy...now lighten up and smile! best wishes your way sweetie... hahaha...Mark, you are crazy!!! What would I do without a great guy like you? Telling me like it is (now thats what I need). Thanks!! If I stand on my tip toes, I can see the weekend from here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
normiss 851 #16 March 20, 2007 I'm glad you smiled! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyflyer77 0 #17 March 20, 2007 QuoteI'm glad you smiled! I did...thanks! If I stand on my tip toes, I can see the weekend from here! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
keka 0 #18 March 20, 2007 hey girl, I'm really sorry to hear that... I had no idea that you've lost someone that close to you 1 yr ago. well... I also miss someone that left me to play in the sky, over 12 years ago. life goes on, I know.... but sometimes we just miss them. and there's nothing else that we can do, other than cry and wish we could see each other again. but it's good to know that we have friends that will support us...so, count on them. keep the best memories in your mind and share new ones with people that love you as well. I hope you have a better day and don't feel bad for crying... it's good ...washes our soulblue skieshttp://www.woundedwarriorproject.org PMS#551 I love my life :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ACMESkydiver 0 #19 March 20, 2007 All I can do is echo what everyone else said...some days, loss, even an old loss, seems to sneak up and get ya. I was sad reading through the new Blue Skies forum too...but y'know, it's a beautiful thing. It's kind of painful I think because it is new, but it really is a classy thing, I think. Happy thoughts going out to you; sorry you had to go through that pain last year.~Jaye Do not believe that possibly you can escape the reward of your action. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
warpedskydiver 0 #20 March 20, 2007 While you may have been sad today I hope that something especially nice makes you very happy soon. I guess it is not so bad to remember, as long as it does not keep us from happiness and ruin our lives in the process. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
