kelel01 1 #1 November 15, 2006 Because I spend the whole time diagnosing myself. Apparently, according to Erikson, I'm stuck in the "identity vs. role confusion" stage, which is why I'm having difficulty getting into the "intimacy vs. isolation" stage. No wonder I can't pick a career AND I'm single! Erikson's stages, for those interested: Trust vs. Mistrust - check Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt - check Initiative vs. Guilt - check Industry vs. Inferiority - check Identity vs. Role Confusion Intimacy vs. Isolation Generativity vs. Stagnation Integrity vs. Despair Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
steveorino 7 #2 November 15, 2006 Wait until you study other theories, then you will totally confused on where you are screwed up. steveOrino Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gawain 0 #3 November 15, 2006 It's all in your head. So I try and I scream and I beg and I sigh Just to prove I'm alive, and it's alright 'Cause tonight there's a way I'll make light of my treacherous life Make light! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Buried 0 #4 November 15, 2006 well dont start studying freud then Where is my fizzy-lifting drink? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #5 November 15, 2006 Oh, hell no. This is my 3rd and final psych course. NEVER AGAIN! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #6 November 15, 2006 So, tell me about your father... you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #7 November 15, 2006 "My father was a relentlessly self-improving boulangerie owner from Belgium with low grade narcolepsy and a penchant for buggery . . . My father would womanize; he would drink; he would make outrageous claims like he invented the question mark. Sometimes he would accuse chestnuts of being lazy, the sort of general malaise that only the genius possess and the insane lament. My childhood was typical, summers in Rangoon, luge lessons. In the spring we'd make meat helmets. When I was insolent I was placed in a burlap bag and beaten with reeds, pretty standard really." Think I'll be ok? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
goofyjumper 0 #8 November 15, 2006 Oh my god, I love Psychology! That is what my degree is in. My first Psychology class is what got me hooked on it. You must be crazy if you do not appreciate psychology. I think Freud would say that you hate your teacher and are projecting it to the actual class instead. Or you ave penis envy...... You might want to look at who is teaching the class. ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #9 November 15, 2006 No, my teacher's fantastic, and the material's very interesting. I just don't like learning how screwed up I am. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #10 November 15, 2006 A psychiatrist diagnosed me with "dissociative personality disorder." I told her, "You've got the wrong guy." But, since we're in the Erikson realm here, tell me about your genitality... My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #11 November 15, 2006 QuoteA psychiatrist diagnosed me with "dissociative personality disorder." I told her, "You've got the wrong guy." You know, so many people still think schizophrenia and DPD are the same thing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rebecca 0 #12 November 15, 2006 Quote"My father was a relentlessly self-improving boulangerie owner from Belgium with low grade narcolepsy and a penchant for buggery . . . My father would womanize; he would drink; he would make outrageous claims like he invented the question mark. Sometimes he would accuse chestnuts of being lazy, the sort of general malaise that only the genius possess and the insane lament. My childhood was typical, summers in Rangoon, luge lessons. In the spring we'd make meat helmets. When I was insolent I was placed in a burlap bag and beaten with reeds, pretty standard really." Think I'll be ok? OMG!!! I'm dyin'!! My friend Doug regularly quotes that entire thing. you've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel loquacious?' -- well do you, punk? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Richards 0 #13 November 15, 2006 QuoteQuoteBecause I spend the whole time diagnosing myself. Apparently, according to Erikson, I'm stuck in the "identity vs. role confusion" stage, which is why I'm having difficulty getting into the "intimacy vs. isolation" stage. No wonder I can't pick a career AND I'm single! Erikson's stages, for those interested: Trust vs. Mistrust - check Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt - check Initiative vs. Guilt - check Industry vs. Inferiority - check Identity vs. Role Confusion Intimacy vs. Isolation Generativity vs. Stagnation Integrity vs. Despair You seem to be absorbing it at least as is evident by the fact that it is ruining your life. I did two psychology electives and it was all I could do to cram the night before to pas the exams (easy A's though). Richards My biggest handicap is that sometimes the hole in the front of my head operates a tad bit faster than the grey matter contained within. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #14 November 15, 2006 Quoteas is evident by the fact that it is ruining your life Hmmm, I was unaware of this. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #15 November 15, 2006 That's okay.... I seem to have completely skipped over Maslow hierarchy for Love and Belonging. I'm balanced in every other level, but defunct in the third level. g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Richards 0 #16 November 15, 2006 QuoteQuote***as is evident by the fact that it is ruining your life Hmmm, I was unaware of this. Once this psych stuff gets in your head....it owns you! Richards My biggest handicap is that sometimes the hole in the front of my head operates a tad bit faster than the grey matter contained within. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #17 November 15, 2006 . . . and how does that make you feel?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JAC 0 #18 November 15, 2006 QuoteQuoteA psychiatrist diagnosed me with "dissociative personality disorder." I told her, "You've got the wrong guy." You know, so many people still think schizophrenia and DPD are the same thing. Some people also thought that schizophrenia could be caused by your parents. Sooo wrong!!! Don't worry... I'm in Abnormal Psychology class, and I diagnose myself with a different disorder about every week. Hey, atleast I know there is a name associated with my craziness. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lisamariewillbe 1 #19 November 15, 2006 If you of are eriksons theory then it is not your fault but your parents fault so you didnt screw up.... something happened during that stage of development where you didnt move forward... I love all my psyc classes I had and for fun I read skinner , and freud (or to resist post whoring)Sudsy Fist: i don't think i'd ever say this Sudsy Fist: but you're looking damn sudsydoable in this Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
steveorino 7 #20 November 15, 2006 Seriously, read Irvin Yalom (an existential pyschologist). His writings are entertaining. A recent good book of his is Love's Exectutioner. steveOrino Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chronistin 0 #21 November 15, 2006 Quote Erikson's stages, for those interested: Trust vs. Mistrust - check Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt - check Initiative vs. Guilt - check Industry vs. Inferiority - check Identity vs. Role Confusion Intimacy vs. Isolation Generativity vs. Stagnation Integrity vs. Despair Oh my god, I think I'm stuck in all of them. Except maybe the second to last which I don't quite understand. Do I have a problem? Chronistin (Home @ http://www.fallschirmspringer.net/) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #22 November 15, 2006 You're probably too young to be working on the second to last one yet. However, yes, you have a problem. I will counsel you for one large bottle of Patron per one-hour session - payable in advance. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chronistin 0 #23 November 15, 2006 QuoteYou're probably too young to be working on the second to last one yet. Unfortunately not. QuoteHowever, yes, you have a problem. I will counsel you for one large bottle of Patron per one-hour session - payable in advance. Hmmm... If Tequila helps, I'd rather drink it myself. Psychologists scare me. [eta] Yeah, I actually went to wikipedia and looked it all up. Just think that I came to the forum in search of a little distraction... now I'm feeling really flawed Chronistin (Home @ http://www.fallschirmspringer.net/) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kelel01 1 #24 November 15, 2006 Good thing, seeing as how I'm not a psychologist at all . . . and I didn't even stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lawrocket 3 #25 November 15, 2006 QuoteQuoteA psychiatrist diagnosed me with "dissociative personality disorder." I told her, "You've got the wrong guy." You know, so many people still think schizophrenia and DPD are the same thing. Are you talking to me??? My wife is hotter than your wife. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites