Darius11 12 #1 October 6, 2006 Lost attraction to someone you were once very attracted to without any real reason, and that caused the end of your relationshipI'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #2 October 6, 2006 Not happened to me, but yes it is possible. You can fall head over heels for a beautiful woman, who falls heads over heels for you too, but then you get to know her and she has serious issues that turn you off big time. It goes vice versa too."Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Darius11 12 #3 October 6, 2006 I mean with someone you know very well, and have been with for years.I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not." - Kurt Cobain Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #4 October 6, 2006 QuoteI mean with someone you know very well, and have been with for years. Adultery or cheating big time in that case would probably do it..."Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
apollard24 0 #5 October 6, 2006 Yes I have. I think my reasoning for falling out of love was because of his constant mood changing ( He must have had a touch of bipolar) But I do understand and at the point its just time to move onBreathe out so I can breathe you in... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cocheese 0 #6 October 6, 2006 If you look deep enough, you'll find a "reason". For me, it's usually the loss of her attraction to me and/or her increased attraction to someone else. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StreetScooby 5 #7 October 6, 2006 Maybe it was time to take a little break. Who knows, the feeling may return.We are all engines of karma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
godfrog 2 #8 October 6, 2006 QuoteI mean with someone you know very well, and have been with for years. Yeah, I think sometimes people just grow apart. get different interests and stuff like that.Experience is a difficult teacher, she gives you the test first and the lesson afterward Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zenister 0 #9 October 6, 2006 QuoteQuoteI mean with someone you know very well, and have been with for years. Yeah, I think sometimes people just grow apart. get different interests and stuff like that. aka expect that it should just 'work' and stop putting any effort into it... Johnny Cash put it best... Quote I keep a close watch on this heart of mine I keep my eyes wide open all the time. I keep the ends out for the tie that binds Because you're mine, I walk the line I find it very, very easy to be true I find myself alone when each day is through Yes, I'll admit that I'm a fool for you Because you're mine, I walk the line As sure as night is dark and day is light I keep you on my mind both day and night And happiness I've known proves that it's right Because you're mine, I walk the line You've got a way to keep me on your side You give me cause for love that I can't hide For you I know I'd even try to turn the tide Because you're mine, I walk the line nothing in a relationship happens for 'No Reason'. Things happen because you do (or dont) put time, energy and effort into them..____________________________________ Those who fail to learn from the past are simply Doomed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #10 October 6, 2006 Quote Adultery or cheating big time in that case would probably do it... He said "without any real reason." I'd suggest those are real reasons. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #11 October 7, 2006 QuoteLost attraction to someone you were once very attracted to without any real reason, and that caused the end of your relationship Yup especially if you are expecting that person to remain the same as they were when you met. Relationships are dynamic, and ever changing, some times the change is not condusive to staying together. That just life.You are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
StreetScooby 5 #12 October 7, 2006 Quote Relationships are dynamic, and ever changing, some times the change is not condusive to staying together. Once you have children together, you best work it out.We are all engines of karma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Squeak 17 #13 October 7, 2006 QuoteQuote Relationships are dynamic, and ever changing, some times the change is not condusive to staying together. Once you have children together, you best work it out. Crap, in my world I 'd rather the kids had seperated parents then parent who dont wont to be togetherYou are not now, nor will you ever be, good enough to not die in this sport (Sparky) My Life ROCKS! How's yours doing? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Misslmperfect 0 #14 October 8, 2006 yes...that's why i am newly divorced Oh Canada, merci pour la livraison! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zep 0 #15 October 8, 2006 Yes, an when I found out it was the greener grass theory, it was too late. Gone fishing Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
matt1215 0 #17 October 8, 2006 QuoteNot happened to me, but yes it is possible. You can fall head over heels for a beautiful woman, who falls heads over heels for you too, but then you get to know her and she has serious issues that turn you off big time. It goes vice versa too. Amen to that . There's a woman in my life who I've fallen in madly in love with 2 or 3 times over the years. We've both seen serious issues in the other that made us realize a marriage would be a very bad idea . It really comes down to wanting very different things out of life . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BillyVance 34 #18 October 8, 2006 QuoteQuoteNot happened to me, but yes it is possible. You can fall head over heels for a beautiful woman, who falls heads over heels for you too, but then you get to know her and she has serious issues that turn you off big time. It goes vice versa too. Amen to that . There's a woman in my life who I've fallen in madly in love with 2 or 3 times over the years. We've both seen serious issues in the other that made us realize a marriage would be a very bad idea . It really comes down to wanting very different things out of life . Well, if at all else.... what's wrong with having a fuck buddy? Just kidding.... I know one friend who's had a life like you mentioned, only she's been through it for like 18 years... "Mediocre people don't like high achievers, and high achievers don't like mediocre people." - SIX TIME National Champion coach Nick Saban Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
