sartre 0 #1 August 10, 2006 What would you change? I've always thought, "I wouldn't change a thing, because everything I've been through has made me who I am today." But now I look back and realize, there are some things I would change if I could. For example, in my early twenties, I went out dancing with my friends nearly every night. I ate out for nearly every meal. My refrigerator usually had very little in it. And though it was only myself, I felt guilty for going out so much and for not cooking more meals at home. Why?!! I wish I would have just spent less time feeling guilty about stupid things. What would you do over? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #2 August 10, 2006 I think I could do last night w/ Billy even better Oh well....practice makes perfect.Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #3 August 10, 2006 In that case, I want several do overs.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Icon134 0 #4 August 10, 2006 I am where I am and who I am because of the things that I've done/experienced in my life... occasionally that includes bad things... but generally my life is ok... I don't want any do-overs... Livin' on the Edge... sleeping with my rigger's wife... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
leroydb 0 #5 August 10, 2006 its probally so clique' to say... but I don't think I would change anything. Everything I have done and have went through has developed and shaped me into the person that I am today. Good and bad I am happy with who I am.Leroy ..I knew I was an unwanted baby when I saw my bath toys were a toaster and a radio... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jewels 0 #6 August 10, 2006 I want a mulligan on some of the clothes I've purchased over the years. Just THINK of all the tunnel time and jumping that would've gotten me! Besides, there were all those clothes from the 80s that you just don't need. I mean, really--leg warmers??!! On the whole, though, it has been good. There are a few little choices along the way that I would've made differently, but no major disasters to rectify. Maybe my best do-overs are yet to come! (Scary thought. . . .)TPM Sister #102 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #7 August 10, 2006 I'm 26, but I've realized exactly that recently.... I still LOVE my clothes, my shoes, my bags, and I never spent money I didn't have or more than I put into retirement... But....I've come to the conclusion that despite the wonderous variety in my closet, I still wear the same jeans everyday.Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydemon2 0 #8 August 10, 2006 I wish I would have bought that Microsoft stock years ago....Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes clean to the bone! I like to start my day off with a little Ray of Soulshine™!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #9 August 10, 2006 While that is in general a nice sentiment, and I agree, there are still specific things that I wish I could change. Things I don't think added anything of value to the person I am today. Would I skip the pain, the disappointment, the highs and lows? No way. But if given the chance, I might choose to have been a little nicer to myself along the way. I would have given up perfectionism a lot sooner. And I would have really enjoyed my carefree lifestyle, knowing I had my whole life ahead of me to do the "responsible things". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
masterrig 1 #10 August 10, 2006 No regrets. Life, is a learning curve. I believe things happen with us for a reason. Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #11 August 10, 2006 QuoteI want a mulligan on some of the clothes I've purchased over the years That's the kind of thing I'm talking about!!!! Would you really sport the look you probably did in middle school if you could have a do-over? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jewels 0 #12 August 10, 2006 QuoteI would have given up perfectionism a lot sooner. So, do you have instructions on that? (I'm just sayin', they keep telling me to quit thinking so much and stop trying so hard. . . .)TPM Sister #102 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #13 August 10, 2006 Yep. It comes in a bottle and it's called Prozac. Well, it's worked for me, anyway. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pusspuss 0 #14 August 10, 2006 My Birth. Make it as painful as possible for my mom. That Bitch! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livendive 8 #15 August 10, 2006 The list is reasonably long and mostly too personal to post. Blues, Dave"I AM A PROFESSIONAL EXTREME ATHLETE!" (drink Mountain Dew) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #16 August 10, 2006 Quote(I'm just sayin', they keep telling me to quit thinking so much and stop trying so hard. . . .) But for you Julie, I've already told you what to do about that. Remember? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jewels 0 #17 August 10, 2006 LOL--Prozac, alcohol . . . . I'm not sensing a constructive trend here! Effective, maybe, but not necessarily constructive!!TPM Sister #102 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #18 August 10, 2006 With effects like that, who needs construction? Just kidding... Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jewels 0 #19 August 10, 2006 QuoteWith effects like that, who needs construction? LOL--oh, yeah! I get my priorities all messed up.TPM Sister #102 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #20 August 10, 2006 Hey, my sister always told me if I could just run around with one glass of wine in my system, I'd be a lot less of a bitch. Only she used nicer words. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #21 August 10, 2006 I could say the same has been said to me except the exact words, if anything, were even bolder. <---has a glass, OK two, of red wine daily.Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sartre 0 #22 August 10, 2006 Well, you know, it's considered medicinal if it's red wine. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PLFXpert 0 #23 August 10, 2006 My sentiment exactly.Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DrewEckhardt 0 #24 August 10, 2006 QuoteWhat would you change? I'd back up to before my last job change. Accept my old company's counter-offer, skip selling my old town house, and skip the relocation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wildman2231 0 #25 August 11, 2006 Definately when I was 18 and talked a friend into going skydiving. He pussed out,and we went to a friends to party instead. I want to go back in time and get out of the car and thumb it to the DZ. I could have been having THIS much fun for 20 years!I'm fine...crazy people don't know they're crazy...No,Really! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites