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Brigitte36

ever hurt, hurt, hurt, and then one day...

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yup when i found out my fiance had been cheating on me for months after leaving me in the dark for weeks
"life does throw curveballs sometimes but it doesn't mean we shouldn't still swing for the homerun" ~ me

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it is isn't it - i know i deserve much better than that - and someday he'll realize he lost the best thing that ever happened to him - until then he can kiss my ass:)
"life does throw curveballs sometimes but it doesn't mean we shouldn't still swing for the homerun" ~ me

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don't know - but what i do know is that today is the first day of a fresh start for me - life is too short to care about those that shit on us - God will take care of them on his own terms
"life does throw curveballs sometimes but it doesn't mean we shouldn't still swing for the homerun" ~ me

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I had a very serious girlfriend of a few years do that to me. Turns out it was for the absolute best overall in my life. A few years later I met the love of my life.

Life sometimes takes a turn you didn't expect, but many times it'll turn you towards something better. Atleast it has in my life so far.
--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline."

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I've been going through the "hurt, hurt, hurt" part lately due to a relationship train wreck involving cheating. [:/] My experience has been more like a gradual letting go -- the night slowly changing to dawn -- as opposed to some kind of sudden release. I think I'll reach the point where I'll realize that I haven't thought about it for a while. Maybe that's what you're talking about.

Hearing about others going through similar stuff reminds me that it's just part of being a human being on planet earth.

Doug

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its ok - someday he will learn - maybe not now - maybe not for a long time - but he will -

i just hope that no one else here falls for his shit - and i will make it a point to give warning if i do hear about anyone from here leaning that way

thanks everyone for all of your support

the game stops here
"life does throw curveballs sometimes but it doesn't mean we shouldn't still swing for the homerun" ~ me

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i dont hate - it is out of my hands - i can walk away knowing i did nothing wrong - i know karma will bite him in the ass - there is no doubt in my mind

i have had the most remarkable people behind me throughout this whole ordeal - i have no regrets - nor should i - he has to live with what was done - and that's ok

thanks again to everyone for their support
"life does throw curveballs sometimes but it doesn't mean we shouldn't still swing for the homerun" ~ me

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you just wake up and don't give a F _ _ _ _ anymore?

Finally. :)



Yes. I ultimately had to give up on the prospect of a future with a dear friend of mine. She was my HS sweetheart, but we wanted different enough things in life. It came down to staying sane/alive. :(

A definitive point in moving on was when I started skydiving and bought a new (to me) car. It was quite therapeutic to do 2 things she strongly disapproved of in a 2 week period. :)

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