leapdog 0 #26 July 21, 2006 It's about communication. It must be communicated and understood that both People in the reationship agree that flirting is allowed or not. If it agreed that the boundary be set for no flirting and it gets crossed then the one affected by that has every right to be upset. If the boundary is never set and and one or the other gets upset about it then it needs to be discussed and possibly a new boundary set. Gunnery Sergeant of Marines "I would like it if I were challenged mentally at my job and not feel like I'm mentally challenged." - Co-worker Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #27 July 21, 2006 QuoteIf the boundary is never set and and one or the other gets upset about it then it needs to be discussed and possibly a new boundary set. This is a very good statement! g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyskydiver 0 #28 July 21, 2006 QuoteQuoteIf the boundary is never set and and one or the other gets upset about it then it needs to be discussed and possibly a new boundary set. This is a very good statement! g I agree to some level. I guess my question(s) to that are: 1) If the people entered into the relationship and it was known that 1 (or both) individuals are flirts (and for argument's sake, let's say that nothing is meant by the flirting of either as they are happy in their relationship), wouldn't it be ridiculous to expect a person to change who they are? 2) Shouldn't there be a level of trust - again, assuming that each individual is happy with their relationship? (And, obviously, both questions are not valid if the flirting is serious and an attempt to get out of the relationship, etc.)Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably. And never regret anything that made you smile. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MF42 0 #29 July 21, 2006 I flirt more in internet land than in real life. In internet land it seems much more clear that flirting is just some casual fun. In real life, I usually don't flirt until I'm considering asking her out on a date. I find it a little disturbing when people who are currently involved start flirting when their SO isn't around. Matt Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jumpchikk 0 #30 July 21, 2006 All of it is in good fun. Nothing serious. I jump on here to joke around, be funny and laugh with people that are of the like mindset as I. It helps with the stress of the day and in the end makes me feel like I belong somewhere. I love laughing. I love to make people laugh and if I'm serious about something that person will be the first to know not plastered up on a public website for all to see. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #31 July 21, 2006 QuoteAll of it is in good fun. Nothing serious. I jump on here to joke around, be funny and laugh with people that are of the like mindset as I. It helps with the stress of the day and in the end makes me feel like I belong somewhere. I love laughing. I love to make people laugh and if I'm serious about something that person will be the first to know not plastered up on a public website for all to see. Wait - you mean all that in the PM's - that was fake? All that "soul mate" stuff? Awwee man. Dammit. damn couldn't keep a strait face.I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
apollard24 0 #32 July 21, 2006 QuoteI flirt more in internet land than in real life. In internet land it seems much more clear that flirting is just some casual fun. In real life, I usually don't flirt until I'm considering asking her out on a date. I find it a little disturbing when people who are currently involved start flirting when their SO isn't around. Yes that would be a problem to me..I know my SO is a flirt and he knows Im a flirt so its expected and we both know nothing ever will come of it. But to the ones that flirt when the SO isnt around you kinda dont know how to take it. Im just myself and he's just himself and thats that.Breathe out so I can breathe you in... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #33 July 21, 2006 I never flirt. "There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #34 July 21, 2006 I've decided to start flirting with Sunshine. That's all.... Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
guppie01 0 #35 July 21, 2006 I understand... I am a HUGE flirt - it's who I am.... I have learned from a past relationship that no matter how much you discuss it up front some people can't handle it. Is it anyone's fault... not really... you can't change people it only leads to resentment / and animosity. Sort of a double edge sword - unfortunately... Trust is very important, and if either one or both parties don't trust each other then the relationship is not strong. What does matter is respect! Respect the fact that one or both parties are who they are. Respect their feelings and wishes. Respect their heart and never attack each other with mal intent. g"Let's do something romantic this Saturday... how bout we bust out the restraints?" Raddest Ho this side of Jersey #1 - MISS YOU OMG, is she okay? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Remster 30 #36 July 21, 2006 QuoteI've decided to start flirting with Sunshine back in 2001. There. Fixed.Remster Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Muenkel 0 #38 July 21, 2006 Are you jealous? Chris _________________________________________ Chris Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vdschoor 0 #39 July 21, 2006 QuoteI never flirt. Stop sending me pm's with nekkid pics then.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #40 July 21, 2006 QuoteQuoteI never flirt. Stop sending me pm's with nekkid pics then.. I'll stop when you do. "There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
turtlespeed 220 #41 July 21, 2006 QuoteQuoteI never flirt. Stop sending me pm's with nekkid pics then.. You too huh?I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vdschoor 0 #42 July 21, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteI never flirt. Stop sending me pm's with nekkid pics then.. You too huh? Yeah but she told me she likes my pictures better.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #43 July 21, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteI never flirt. Stop sending me pm's with nekkid pics then.. You too huh? Yeah but she told me she likes my pictures better.. Must be the big thingy.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #44 July 21, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteI never flirt. Stop sending me pm's with nekkid pics then.. You too huh? Yeah but she told me she likes my pictures better.. Must be the big thingy.. I like Iwan's big thingie. And his Speedos too."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vdschoor 0 #45 July 21, 2006 QuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteQuoteI never flirt. Stop sending me pm's with nekkid pics then.. You too huh? Yeah but she told me she likes my pictures better.. Must be the big thingy.. In my speedos? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NWFlyer 2 #46 July 21, 2006 Quote Must be the big thingy.. QuoteIn my speedos? Now that's HOT."There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chaoskitty 0 #47 July 21, 2006 hahah!! Nice!! yeah I'm turned on now. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites AggieDave 6 #48 July 21, 2006 Quote I kid. I kid. But seriously, I've seen a lot of relationships happen and then not happen at DZs. Most of the time the old addage is right on: You don't lose your girlfriend... Yeah, I know you were messing with me. That old addage is so very right too, and you know what I'm talking about when that prop starts turning!--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites PsychoBob 0 #49 July 21, 2006 I'm way to shy to flirt. I wouldn't even know how if I wanted. Maybe there are some hot chicks on here that would be willing to help me breakout of my introverted shell."I'm not a gynecologist but I will take a look at it" RB #1295, Smokey Sister #1, HellFish #658, Dirty Sanchez #194, Muff Brothers #3834, POPS #9614, Orfun Foster-Parent?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites McBeth 0 #50 July 21, 2006 QuoteI never flirt. Me either... how you doing???!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites Prev 1 2 3 4 Next Page 2 of 4 Join the conversation You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account. Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible. Reply to this topic... × Pasted as rich text. Paste as plain text instead Only 75 emoji are allowed. × Your link has been automatically embedded. Display as a link instead × Your previous content has been restored. Clear editor × You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL. Insert image from URL × Desktop Tablet Phone Submit Reply 0
AggieDave 6 #48 July 21, 2006 Quote I kid. I kid. But seriously, I've seen a lot of relationships happen and then not happen at DZs. Most of the time the old addage is right on: You don't lose your girlfriend... Yeah, I know you were messing with me. That old addage is so very right too, and you know what I'm talking about when that prop starts turning!--"When I die, may I be surrounded by scattered chrome and burning gasoline." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PsychoBob 0 #49 July 21, 2006 I'm way to shy to flirt. I wouldn't even know how if I wanted. Maybe there are some hot chicks on here that would be willing to help me breakout of my introverted shell."I'm not a gynecologist but I will take a look at it" RB #1295, Smokey Sister #1, HellFish #658, Dirty Sanchez #194, Muff Brothers #3834, POPS #9614, Orfun Foster-Parent?" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
McBeth 0 #50 July 21, 2006 QuoteI never flirt. Me either... how you doing???!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
