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You're an absolute doll, Rosa. With a heart as kind and giving as yours, you have every right to be cautious. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you and my quick-response posse ready in case someone tries to step over the line. :)
Kevin - Sonic Beef #5 - OrFun #28
"I never take myself too seriously, 'cuz everybody know fat birds don't fly." - FLC
Online communities: proof that people never mature much past high school.

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Wow, you are such a sweetheart. Thank you. :)
Ok, my pictures are up, and yes, I have received quite a lot of mail and winks already. It's a bit shocking.

The one thing that is difficult for me right now is rejecting people. I feel very badly about it, but I don't see the point in leading anyone on. I just wish that I didn't have to turn people away without explanations, but there is no way/no time in which I could do that very easily.

Man, do I love the WINKS. It is very innocent, but it gives me a direct idea as to who is interested. I like that. :)

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I hate cats.



:o:o:o

Oh, Rosa, Nooooooooooo.

;):P


<----loves kitties. Two kitties (three if you count the neighbor's that is ALWAYS over here on my car, in our garage and lounging on our windowsill:D) and a doggie. More to come....


:P
Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

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I am thinking of perhaps taking back the pics that I've submitted and not posting anything at all in that space.



I personally, do not post pics (nor look at them) online for many reasons....

But, I've heard if you don't on such sites you won't have as much response...

I've always viewed that as a good thing, myself.

If pm's, im's, and e-mails are too plentiful, I just hit "delete all"---I'm just not into being bombarded.:P

But then again, people wonder what you're hiding...so to each their own.:)
:)
For the record:

<---is not hiding anything.

:P
Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

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Oh, and we have shared a funny past, Clint. Haven't we? :ph34r: Of course, I've held nothing against you. :P



That's not my fault - I'm open to ALMOST anything you want to hold against me.:)
I'm not usually into the whole 3-way thing, but you got me a little excited with that. - Skymama
BTR #1 / OTB^5 Official #2 / Hellfish #408 / VSCR #108/Tortuga/Orfun

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If you're not into dating anyone right now, then a dating site is the last place you ought to be looking to meet people. What exactly did you expect to happen? Yeah, the dating sites all have "friends only" as an option but really, that's not the point.
"There is only one basic human right, the right to do as you damn well please. And with it comes the only basic human duty, the duty to take the consequences." -P.J. O'Rourke

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I'm not judging what you want, Rosa, I'm just commenting on your approach, that's all. I suspect you'll find that the people you meet on dating sites may not want to take that approach, or may get frustrated/annoyed/whatever with a very slow friends first buildup. Your mileage may vary, of course.

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Thankfully, the men that I've decided to talk with are pretty mature and are definitely interested in building upon a friendship first. They seem to be fine with the approach of a slow friendship and are not into pressuring me for anything that isn't natural. That's how it is for me in real life, too. That's why these are the people who I am attracted to. The pushy men...I really don't care to know, so it doesn't matter.

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[:/][:/][:/]

Sad day for me to dicover that Rosa's gone before I even had a chance to actually meet her.....

[:/][:/][:/][:/]


I'm a brawny, 29-y.o. Adonis with multiple Phd's and nobody to love now.


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Sshhhh, Krisanne...don't say a word!
:D:D
My reality and yours are quite different.
I think we're all Bozos on this bus.
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